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Ophelia, 43
United States, South Carolina, Boiling Springs

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 22:34:04

About Me

I was n the Navy for 7 yrs. loved and miss it very much. I do know how to cook but hate to and hate being in the kitchen..lol, I perfer the summer over winter weather anytime of the day, I do like to snuggle and cuddle but you better be able to handle dogs in the same bed they rule..lolI don't have the perfect kids nor the perfect family so if your looking for that guess I ain't what ya looking for. I stay away from my younger brother's for very good reasons. Just for information no one has a drama free life or drama free children. Unless ya the only child. to make a little extra money.. Leather it 100% top knotch at wholesale cost. Also sell stuff on Ebay..I use to work as a bartender and security officer while I served the Navy. So no I don't have the perfect laungage but I know when to talk proper and use manors...I'm very blunt and independant but at times it would be nice to have a man around to fix things I can't..Like country and 80's music. I am very picky and just to make it clear I was raised w/motorcycles but I do not own a bike. I do like to camping, fishing, boating, tanning,sit around bonfires, not afraid of breaking a nail or getting dirty, and I do know how to work on my car long as it doesn't need the oil changed or trandsmission worked on or even an engine rebuild.. if thats the case I'm looking for another 1 that doesn't need me... Also love watching horor,action movies, watch Falling Skies, Client list, Army Wives, Marine, The Vampires Diaries and many more.Do know how to dress up in jeans , wear skirts/dresses and wear 6 inch heels and dress down into booty shorts and tennis shoe's or combat boots depending on where or what I am doing. I still have 3 children at home to raise and very much involved w/them. If u can't handle that then keep on truckin. I do not play games nor into it.. I might play w/something else when the time is right but till then keep it in your PANTS...I do like to shop for clothes and shoes but I am also the type of person when things need done I want them done now not later I hate things being half azz done or being told it will get done and never gets done...I am very much faithfull, loyal to 1 man even if not happy I won't be unfaithfull till we both know it's over.. But I am getting tired of looking and tired of men not being a man and step up... I know what most of ya will think when ya read this and if u think I am to much of a witch well then guess were not ment for each other.I do believe in god if I didn't my children wouldn't be in Catholic schools. But i also don't think I need to tend church everywk. I do donate to a mission quiet often to clean out my house of stuff and also suggeting to others the same.. Rather help families be able to gain things then spend money they don't have or can't afford.. That's more a christain to help other's then to help yourself...Just because I stay distance from my family doens't mean I am shallow I just choose to make sure my children don't go down the wrong path in life and have a good life/an a better future..I can become a good friend and much more unless you think you going to use me and then I can be the witch a man don't like. I have no problems helping when needed or even if you need help but don't use me. If you looking for me to have perfect credit or have a bunch of money that won't happen my bills are paid... If your not intrested then say so grow some balls and be up front you won't hurt my feelings any. I rather know if your intreasted then led on. I am well aware that everything has to start as friendship to grow but don't show intrest then think you can get sex, or money from me then decide not talk to me anymore cause that just shows how shallow you are in my eyes not a real man.... we can talk about that if the time comes. If your a true gentalman then you won't make me have to pay for the movie or dinner ect...Not into men that want to play games or just get laid...If that's what ya looking for then keep on looking in another direction or go to your local bar....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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