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Dlila, 44

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About Me

Wow, What to say that others have not already said...I have many hobbies and interests. Please ask me. I have been married once, one child, have a stable job and personality. Fiscally responsible, avoid impulsive acts that show recklessness, love the Lord, am a Christian and spiritual beliefs are important to me. I'd like to meet someone with a similar background as me. I love being outdoors because I feel more peaceful. I do not watch that much TV at all. I don't care if you do. I like to go places at times and stay home at times I like a routine to some degree. I don't really go out at all (to clubs or bars) unless a special occasion. I don't like a bunch of drama when dating someone- for example: not taking care of your own children and neglecting them ( sad), the mother of your children showing up all the time( with or without the police) and causing trouble, etc. In closing, if you don't care of yourself and any children you have, please do not write. Family should be one of the most important things. If you are an alcoholic or drug user or have no steady job, no vehicle or if you are a dozen other dating/ explicit websites -- please do not write me. I am sure there is someone else out there for you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lucila

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    UPDATE: Please read as it is very important - I prefer men that are sized proportionately, not that you have to be built like Mr. Clean but, I'm not into overweight men. If you can't see your toes while standing up straight, you're not my type. Also, I DO NOT date black men. I DO still believe there is someone out there for me and isn't afraid to show it. I have a great group of friends but have yet to find that "special someone". I am very outgoing, fun loving, compassionate, warm, & ROMANTIC. I like everything from concerts to gardening, traveling, and BOATING! And yes there is such a thing as a girl that actually likes action movies, power tools, and cars. I love rain storms, huge snowflakes, and lying on the beach looking up at the moon & stars. I’ve been involved with charities and can go from black tie and champagne, to jeans and a beer. I'm more of a t-shirt and ponytail kinda girl but, give me a reason to wear that little black dress! I love dressing up! I want the man I am with to feel proud to be by my side and vice-versa. I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I am responsible, down to earth, funny, sarcastic & silly. I still believe in love and passion, holding hands, and public displays of affection. I feel if you're in love and happy, there's no shame in showing it! (As long as it's not to the point of mauling! Lol!) I like dining out, or cooking at home, (hopefully you're a good cook!! I'll prep & clean) with that someone special! A fire, a good bottle of wine, and intelligent or witty conversation sounds like a pretty good evening to me! The question is, does it to you?????When I'm dating I want to spend time with that person. I do not work an 8- I love music! All kinds except classical and I LOVE to dance. It would be AWESOME if you did too!!!What peaks my interest? A man that is strong yet can be tender, capable & caring, and not afraid to show how they feel. Someone that is NOT afraid to wrap you up in their arms and just be a shelter from everything for just a bit. I like a good sense of humor, whether dry or outright silly. He's got to love to laugh! I'd like to find someone special that is honest, forthright, passionate, diverse. All this is kind of a wish list, there are so many combinations that can be appealing. Any place we can sit and talk for a while.

  • Rosanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    OK...a few random thoughts about me. I am looking for companionship and some fun that could lead to something more serious. I really enjoy relationships and the richness they have to offer. I am interested in meeting you & discovering what makes you tick and adding value to your life in some way.After a few years of dating I've noticed that I'm at my best if I'm with someone who is laid back, physically affectionate, and willing to draw me out a bit (not that it is that hard, but I appreciate the effort). I connect well with people who have a sharp sense of humor, are well read, and like to play around with ideas...but somehow don't take themselves too seriously. I have a pretty strong sense for the aesthetic. Food, theater, music (I'm drawn to alternative/folk rock) that has subtlety mixed in with the right company is a definite turn on. Getting lost in sensory appeal for a while is a great way to escape for a bit and chill out...don't you think?I'm not a hardbody or some triathaloner...but I like to be active. When there isn't a blizzard going on, I like to hike trails. And in the summer, the kids and I live at the beach...swimming, climbing stones, exploring the eddies, making sand art.I am a librarian at a school, and recently earned my my administrative degree. I like schools and think about how to improve them a lot. I love hanging out with people who enjoy what they do or are feeling good about what they would like to try next...I have three kids under 14. They are funny, intelligent, creative...good company. You don't have to want to parent them, and in fact, very few people I've dated have met them, but somehow I'll know if you cringe when you hear them sword fighting while were on the phone. They keep me busy; yes, I'm the woman pulling up to the stop light drinking coffee as I brush my hair, throwing granola bars and toothbrushes to the backseat as we drive to school. The kids stay with their Dad every other weekend which is how I get my free time.Things are peaceful around here, but all work and no play makes mom a bit crabby. :) Go for dinner, drink wine, and laugh a lot...it is not what we do, but how we connect as we do it.

  • Hildegarde

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

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