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Amya, 43

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About Me

You only get one chance to make a first impression so I will be upfront and honest and I hope to find the same in return. I am a very casual, active, athletic person looking to meet people I can have fun with and enjoy this new lifestyle as a single woman. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a man and a relationship but it's not exactly something I can spell out in a profile. You either have it or you don't so all I ask is be yourself, be honest and let's see what happens. I'm not interested in a long back and forth *** do believe nothing replaces the natural chemistry you can only experience in person and I don't want to waste my time or yours unless we are actually going to meet. Putting your life on paper and in photographs only shows a small fraction of who you really are. My status is separated which I know can turn some people away but it's the truth. It's been over two year now and there is no chance we will be getting back together but for several reasons we have not finalized the official divorce yet. I have 3 boys ages 9, 12 and 16 that I am very grateful are with me most of the time and spend weekends with their father. They are a big part of my life but they are also very independent which allows me flexibilty to enjoy my life.It's time for me to really start living my life and I want someone to share that with. Please refer back to my opening line about first impressions and honesty. I would like to think there are still some gentlemen out there that know how to approach a woman properly and introduce themselves using complete sentences, those are the ones I will respond to. If you "want to meet me" please send me a message too. A first real date should come after a personal meeting in a casual setting to see if there is chemistry and a casual comfort together. After that I'm up for just about anything and appreciate a man who is comfortable and confident in himself to make the phone call and set up a real date. Confidence is very sexy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Well, here's a little about me. I'm a pretty laid back kinda girl. Make a fire and sit me in front of it with a cold beer, music, and friends and I'm happy! I love being outside. There's nothing like sitting out under my covered back porch watching a lightning storm.I mostly listen to classic rock, but have an ear for lot's of different music. I find it amazing that there is a line in a song for just about every situation I'm in.I work hard. I have a job, two kids and a house to take care of. It takes a lot of effort, but love the feeling of a job well done. On the flip side, I love to have fun! Laughter makes it all worth while, doesn't it?I like to read when I have the time. I recently read World War Z and 50 Shades of Grey Trilogy. I'm not carrying around a book now. I'd love a recommendation for my next read! “Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.”- Mother Teresa Seduce my Mind, you can have my BodyFind my Soul and I'm your's forever. Sheesh.... Do I have to come up with the first date?? I guess I would love an opportunity to get to know someone on the first date. Perhaps over a beer, in front of a fire?? :D

  • Signe

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My profile is rather long as I believe in full-disclosure and honesty. If you read to the end and like what you've read- send me a message! I certainly am not a mind reader nor expect you to be one either! :) I also am not a "recreational Dater". I'd like to find someone to have a relationship with but feel friendship first is very important. If you are interested in only going out to "have fun" then I wish you well. "Always look on the bright side of life!" this quote sums up my personality as well as my sense of humor! if you can guess where I got it and love the movie- you are WAY ahead of the game in my book, my friend! I believe I am clever and can appreciate that trait in others. I like humor that is dry, sarcastic, original, and the kind that you sometimes have to think about to really catch the humor.. then I think its hilarious!! I have 3 Boys who are my most important Priority. They also have a great father -so I'm not looking for anyone to take that responsibility either. I'm a great "Boy Mom" as I don't mind the wayward amphibian, will push the coffee table aside for wrestling on rainy/cold days, and believe in teaching respect for others above all else. As my boys are truly amazing young men- I believe I'm doing a pretty good job! I enjoy going out and being with people. I love to listen to music or live bands, go dancing, and be outdoors. Patio with a nice drink, nice night, and live music-- yuuumm! I love anything water related (but i just cant get up on water skis!! But I can sure drive the boat!) traveling, going to unique places to eat, trying/learning new things, history, music of most all variety, "couch" dates -dress up formal dates, making my partner proud to have me on his arm, English toffee, fresh flowers and plants, camping/outdoors, Sci-fi shows and movies, finding the fun in most everything, God, snuggling, Kissing and last but not least - dancing! If you like all these things- great!! If not- most aren't deal breakers (especially dancing.. But if you are willing to learn- I'm one heckuva teacher!)I am an honest, genuine, nurturing, well-mannered, romantic, considerate, and deeply caring. I'm also an open and realistic woman. If I don't like something, I'll let you know. If I like something, I'll let you know. Games are teenager folly and don't waste time on that. I have also been told I have a Lucy Ricardo Personality. If my eyes get wide, have a twinkle, I grin, and say "Oh! I have an Idea!" most of my friends groan and run or they go along with me and we have a great time. Sometimes it's blackmail fodder!! I believe I am pretty open minded. In my opinion everyone has issues so who am I to judge? I have no patience for people who are selfish, self-riteous, or judgemental. I respect and am drawn to those who have responsibilities and are brave enough to take care of them. Through my relationships, my trust has been tested but I still remain happily Optimistic of Human nature. So did you figure out what movie my quote is from? Go ahead, message me and see if you are right! ;)PS I won't give out my phone number willy-nilly! I've been phone stalked and KNOW how much damage one can do with just a cell number.. Don't take things personally when I won't give you my number right away. I love someone with imagination and being pleasantly surprised. Having a drink or coffee, talking somewhere quiet, or going to listen to a band, or all the above. I'm pretty laid back and open minded. I'm easy***not like that!! I'm just easy to please! What do YOU like to do??Note: texting and messaging is a necessary evil. I may not be able to meet you right away because when my boys are home my time is very short and is devoted to them (I can have a full conversation after they are settled in bed/their rooms tho!). If I say I'd like to meet you then it truly means I do! I just may not be free right away.

  • Guadalupe

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My hobbies are playing pool, chatting online, spending time with my friends, swimming, telling and listening to jokes with friends, watching my girls grow up into great women(i'm so proud of them both). I am the second generation of italians born in the usa on my dad's side of the family, i am italian,french-canadian,and american indian. I have short(growing it out again), curly, brunette hair, i wear glasses. The kind of music i listen to varies on my mood, but here's a hint- i use ozzy to get rid of headaches lol. I have four tats. Oh and i can't spell worth a darn.I have a weird since of humor that gets me in trouble some times but it's all good. I have a strong personality and can come across as agressive i've been told lol yet i get shy and quiet when i meet people for the first time in person lol, go figure. I enjoy going to the lakes around here and feeling the cool breeze and watching the water. I enjoy making new friends. Both my parents were in the service as i grew up so i have learned how to adapt to my surroundings pretty well. I tend to catch on to things somewhat fast. I am a headbanger at heart an feel like a kid inside( i'm a toy r us kids i don't want to grow up) lmao, anyways i guess this site isn't gonna work for me but i thought i give it a try for a bit. Oh btw, if all you want is to see someone naked on the webcam good luck with the next contestant! where ever my date and i deside to go

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