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Tatum, 41

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About Me

I am a florist by day and an aspiring artist/photographer by night.- no I am not Canadian. I fully enjoyed my time there but I longed for the sun and the sea -..- just not sure exactly where yet.... maybe you could help me figure out the right place.I'm not looking for someone who has to party all the time. I am looking for someone who is educated or if not at least someone who has drive and is motivated.These are my photos - they are current & I do look young for my age, it's what happens when you live in cloudy conditions for years, plus I have good genes!I prefer dogs to cats and I am known for being rather cheeky and sarcastic. My friends would say I'm spontaneous, fun-loving and forthright - but not rude, I'm just not afraid to speak my mind. I've been described as a bit of a free-spirit & I can be terribly clumsy. I'm incredibly independent but I think a man that opens the door for me is charming & for the right person I am willing to let you into my life as long as you are willing to let me into yours.As for the 'I want a relationship' - yes, in the long term I do but only for the right person and the right reasons, it just has to happen naturally and I'm certainly not expecting it to happen overnight.; has integrity. I have been on here before & have met some lovely people but obviously I haven't found the one that stuck, so I find myself here again.if you want to know more just ask but don't ask me to add you to ***, I won't. I prefer getting to know someone in person and not online - I think this is a great place for a starting point but I believe the only way to get to know someone is to actually spend time with them. if you are married or in a relationship - don't bother, it's just wrong & if you are going to send me a link to your porn site - I will block you. However, if you are good at lifting heavy objects that's a bonus as long as you don't ask why. something predictable like coffee or a drink & let's just see how we get along & go from there... or better yet, paddle boarding or kayaking....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Once a marine always a marine ;) served 8 years for my country so I know what words like loyalty, dedication and commitment are all about. I love to play and watch sports and I'm very competitive in a great way :) I'm a woman with old fashioned values but with a modern touch. I love a man that can make me smile and who is easy going. I know my worth and I'm not willing to settle. I don't ask for a man to bring anything to the table that I'm not willing to bring. I'm pretty open as long as I can walk away feeling like I've gotten to know who you are as a person.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Just a little FYI I am 42. Not sure how my age was changed, it will not let me correct it. So I'm 42 and a Aquarius not that (Aquarius) matters. Just being honest. I have noooo reason to lie about my age :-)A little about me. I'm a nurse of 15 years now. I love my job! I do work a lot of hours, anywhere from 40 to 60 a week and that's usually a 4 day work week. What am I looking for??? Just someone to spend time with to do things together. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, I work and take care of myself. I just miss companionship... I miss all that comes with a relationship. I'd like to meet a man that has a little more on his mind than the usual. Yes I'd like some passion thrown in the mix as well but I do want more than a roll in the hay lol...A few things you should know...1) If you are young enough to be my child not gonna happen.2) I hate liars!3) Just because I'm a FAT girl DOES NOT mean I'm desperate!!! 4) I'm not looking for and I'm not interested at all in "hookups"!!! 5) No I don't want to "hang out and chill". 6) Texting is a great way to communicate but if that all you can do and NEVER actually talk and always have an excuse as to why you can't talk... Honey I'm not buying it! Wasn't born yesterday!! 7) Make NO mistake I am not a dumb blond!!8) If you've made it this far in reading my profile and can actually understand why I had to say all of this. You might realize I'm a woman worth getting to know or you might think I'm just a witch.

  • Linette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love art, anything unusual, tats, (although I currently have none), piercings. I work hard, like to play hard, but I am selective. I enjoy the uniqueness that is each person individually. I consider myself a libertarian, although I mostly dislike politics because of what it has become. Im very open minded, non judgmental. I believe in equality. Please be open minded. You are not required to like everything that I like. I listen to a variety of music, but typically land on the Buzz, alternative rock. I am not really a drinker unless I go out. On these occasions, I can throw em back with the best of them. I RARELY go out..if that gives any indication of my alcohol consumption.I like a man who knows what is what and can take care of his own stuff. This type of man knows who he is and what he wants..and can make me want those same things. Intelligence is sexy. I prefer men who have a little meat on their bones as opposed to someone ultra thin. However, its mostly attitude and personality that i am attracted to. A sense of humor doesnt hurt either. Smoking is my deal breaker. I love to kiss and i dont want to taste cigarettes.What Im NOT looking for: A sex partner, an affair, a 20-year-old. If you are looking for sex only, please move on and do not message me. Sex is very important to me, but it isnt the only thing that is important. True connection comes from two people who know each other and care about each other. If you arent willing to share of yourself, move on. If you are religious..looking for a christian mate..please look elsewhere, that isnt me. My profile states 'non religious'. Im not judgmental at all..but I want to be straightforward about who I am. I do not want to get remarried..ever. I dont want more children although if you have kids and we hit it off..I will love them as my own. Please dont let my "separated" status scare you. Its been a long time. My ideal first date is one that involves laughter, fun, nonstressful, a drink or 5 whichever we decide. We can go pretty much anywhere.. a bar or just a restaurant. OR none of the above..and we can meet at some random place and do something very random.

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