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Tatum, 41
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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I am a florist by day and an aspiring artist/photographer by night.- no I am not Canadian. I fully enjoyed my time there but I longed for the sun and the sea -..- just not sure exactly where yet.... maybe you could help me figure out the right place.I'm not looking for someone who has to party all the time. I am looking for someone who is educated or if not at least someone who has drive and is motivated.These are my photos - they are current & I do look young for my age, it's what happens when you live in cloudy conditions for years, plus I have good genes!I prefer dogs to cats and I am known for being rather cheeky and sarcastic. My friends would say I'm spontaneous, fun-loving and forthright - but not rude, I'm just not afraid to speak my mind. I've been described as a bit of a free-spirit & I can be terribly clumsy. I'm incredibly independent but I think a man that opens the door for me is charming & for the right person I am willing to let you into my life as long as you are willing to let me into yours.As for the 'I want a relationship' - yes, in the long term I do but only for the right person and the right reasons, it just has to happen naturally and I'm certainly not expecting it to happen overnight.; has integrity. I have been on here before & have met some lovely people but obviously I haven't found the one that stuck, so I find myself here again.if you want to know more just ask but don't ask me to add you to ***, I won't. I prefer getting to know someone in person and not online - I think this is a great place for a starting point but I believe the only way to get to know someone is to actually spend time with them. if you are married or in a relationship - don't bother, it's just wrong & if you are going to send me a link to your porn site - I will block you. However, if you are good at lifting heavy objects that's a bonus as long as you don't ask why. something predictable like coffee or a drink & let's just see how we get along & go from there... or better yet, paddle boarding or kayaking....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Animation History Music Sci-Fi Basketball
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