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Nessa, 42
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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About Me

I enjoy being outdoors, hiking, camping, rock climbing, sailing. Cooking with family and friends or with just that special someone, is awesome. It makes me feel so good to cook with people and either way it is so artistic. I love wine, varietals, how it's made, the subtleties ... I don't have the palette to be a sommelier but I wish I did. I have varied interests and enjoy museums and dinner parties as much as a bonfire, grilling, and a nice cold beer. I love to travel, would never say no to an adventure but also enjoy a quiet night at home snuggling on the couch.I am into dating seriously. Frankly, most of my life, when I have met someone who has been that someone special I have known pretty quickly. Let's hang out, have fun, and find out if you are the guy I want to cook for and drink a good bottle of wine with at home or at a nice restaurant. A guy who I can do home projects with and go to Home Depot with and organize the garage. I have spent a good part of my life traveling and working. I want to make dinners at home and do someone's laundry. That sounds like heaven. And maybe you're that guy who can let this really strong woman be embraced and loved enough to just be a girl. I love to love. Be strong enough to love me. This dating site thing is so weird but I work so much.. Well, I'm sure that's why you are here too.(And by the way, if you do not know how or are too lazy to form proper sentences, capitalize, and punctuate where appropriate; please just don't even bother contacting me. I'm not talking about grading you on grammar but at least make an effort. Conversely, if you simply do not even know the basics or just don't care then we would not get along anyway. I do not admire people who decline to use what amounts to the education you received by the 8th grade. It's not attractive to me. Thank you.) Just something simple and quiet.. So we can talk... And I'm always open to suggestion.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Irish Mexican Turkish Adventure Biography Motorcycle Racing
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