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Marlen, 44

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About Me

I just love life and want to share it with another adult. I am not in a hurry to rush in to anything serious. Time/chemistry will tell if that is what should be. I am over the games and not getting back what I give.I have two fantastic teenage gentlemen that love and respect their mom, but I need a man to go places and enjoy. I am not looking for anyone to raise my boys. They have a good dad and he spends a lot of time with them, although they live with me.I find the best in everything and love to laugh. I think laughter cures all. I laugh at myself and with my family and friends but I can be serious when needed. I am so thankful to be happy and secure in myself. I am very honest and live a good, respectful life. I am very happy with myself and the person I choose must be happy with themselves, as well. I do not want an insecure man that needs reassurance all the time. If I am not happy with someone I will not have them in my life. I will not cheat or deceive myself or anyone else. I believe:"To dream of the person you want to be is to waste the person you are.""Four things that can never be recovered: The stone after it's thrown; the word after it's spoken, the occasion after it's missed, and the time after it's gone. So do it right the 1st time." (or the second, in my case, haha)!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Madeleine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I would like to meet a professional guy who enjoys to have fun and live life. I love the outdoors, sports and anything that has to do with nature. I enjoy cooking and making my man happy! I love my life and my job. I have two daughters one is 25 and the other is 18. I am very spiritual and looking for the same in a man. I love tattoos and piercings. My weakness is a man with very sexy arms. I also would like to meet someone who has a great sense of humor. Three things are a requirement if I am going to date you! I need a man who knows how to use tools (not bc i want you to fix anything, i do most of that myself...but it is very hot watching a man work) I need a man who is not jealous and has high self esteem.....and lastly if you are a father I need a man who is actually an active father to their children. Children need a father not a playmate. I believe that isn't too much to ask! I have a lot of friends and they are very important in my life. It is important that the guy I meet has similar values as I, and has a nice family that he respects.

  • Verena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hoping to meet my new best friend. I'm a sweet, unassuming, kind, funloving, outgoing, stable, secure, HAPPY, career minded and intelligent gal would like to meet a new best friend. I have everything in life but my ideal partner. Is that you??I will let you be my hero for all the right reasons... not the wrong ones. I'm already happy but someday I hope to find someone equal - not a savior or someone to complete me, more like a friend, confidant and partner who makes everything seem sweeter. So if I must travel through life alone and never meet Mr. Right, I'm OK with that.When it comes to what one is looking for I think people need to keep an open mind and not make a laundry list of what an "ideal" mate is. Come on, when you start to make ridiculous demands and unreasonable expectations, you're probably setting yourself up for disappointment and failure. We are not applicants seeking an audition... Or atleast I'm not... I'm willing to wait for the right man.I prefer considering dealbreakers...you know... if exhibited, behaviors you will not allow yourself to tolerate. Some of mine are: financial irresponsibility, illegal drug use, inability to control alcohol intake, previous history of unlwaful misconduct and or involuntary incarceration, abuse of any sort, lack of a moral compass, cruelness and disrepsect of others, and oh yea, infidelity. If you have NOTHING positive to say about the previous women you have chosen and it was ALL her fault... you should know I'm pretty smart and probably not the one for you. Only on occasion is it soley one sided and no one is perfect. Occasion is the exception, not the rule....:)I enjoy many things and prefer to be active. You can usually find me spending time outside when its not raining. Day trips to the city are great and occasional weekend trips to the shore are even better. And of course long rides on the motorcycle are the best. (I could teach you to ride, but I'd rather you already know - either way it isn't a big deal.) I dont mind if you have children, I could be a good friend to the children of the right person.I'm hoping to find someone who balances me, brings light to my life and inspires me. So send me a note if you are interested, don't just add me to your favorites or try the photo bingo game.... I don't and won't chase a man.I try to live for fun and excitment... so say hi and let's get this show on the road. :) The only thing I'm pretty serious about is my career. My home is pretty important also as is my partner, being a responsible person and a good citizen.I'm already happy so I enjoy doing just about anything. And I'm pretty open minded and liberal in thought from my years out West. Does it really matter? Meeting someone new is tough enough so let's do something fun and the odds can wait. Note: If meeting you is like doing a business transaction I think I'll pass; I already have a job and I do my own taxes. I have very little free time and don't want to waste it sitting and being bored. Besides I have a great fun playful side that you're bound to fall in love with so let's go engage in some shenanigans that won't violate any laws.You only live once!! Don't waste it.

  • Tamekia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    My hope is to meet that one special person to enjoy's life journey with. I believe in being open and honest so if you want to know something..please ask! I enjoy taking walks, seeing new places and taking weekend trips! I like all kinds of music and even country if I'm in that mood! I love to spend time with my family and meeting new people! On my first date I would like to start off with dinner and drinks at a mexican restraunt and then afterwards if the weather is nice go for a walk in the park or challenge my date to a game of putt putt!

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