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Marlen, 44

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About Me

I just love life and want to share it with another adult. I am not in a hurry to rush in to anything serious. Time/chemistry will tell if that is what should be. I am over the games and not getting back what I give.I have two fantastic teenage gentlemen that love and respect their mom, but I need a man to go places and enjoy. I am not looking for anyone to raise my boys. They have a good dad and he spends a lot of time with them, although they live with me.I find the best in everything and love to laugh. I think laughter cures all. I laugh at myself and with my family and friends but I can be serious when needed. I am so thankful to be happy and secure in myself. I am very honest and live a good, respectful life. I am very happy with myself and the person I choose must be happy with themselves, as well. I do not want an insecure man that needs reassurance all the time. If I am not happy with someone I will not have them in my life. I will not cheat or deceive myself or anyone else. I believe:"To dream of the person you want to be is to waste the person you are.""Four things that can never be recovered: The stone after it's thrown; the word after it's spoken, the occasion after it's missed, and the time after it's gone. So do it right the 1st time." (or the second, in my case, haha)!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hoping to meet my new best friend. I'm a sweet, unassuming, kind, funloving, outgoing, stable, secure, HAPPY, career minded and intelligent gal would like to meet a new best friend. I have everything in life but my ideal partner. Is that you??I will let you be my hero for all the right reasons... not the wrong ones. I'm already happy but someday I hope to find someone equal - not a savior or someone to complete me, more like a friend, confidant and partner who makes everything seem sweeter. So if I must travel through life alone and never meet Mr. Right, I'm OK with that.When it comes to what one is looking for I think people need to keep an open mind and not make a laundry list of what an "ideal" mate is. Come on, when you start to make ridiculous demands and unreasonable expectations, you're probably setting yourself up for disappointment and failure. We are not applicants seeking an audition... Or atleast I'm not... I'm willing to wait for the right man.I prefer considering dealbreakers...you know... if exhibited, behaviors you will not allow yourself to tolerate. Some of mine are: financial irresponsibility, illegal drug use, inability to control alcohol intake, previous history of unlwaful misconduct and or involuntary incarceration, abuse of any sort, lack of a moral compass, cruelness and disrepsect of others, and oh yea, infidelity. If you have NOTHING positive to say about the previous women you have chosen and it was ALL her fault... you should know I'm pretty smart and probably not the one for you. Only on occasion is it soley one sided and no one is perfect. Occasion is the exception, not the rule....:)I enjoy many things and prefer to be active. You can usually find me spending time outside when its not raining. Day trips to the city are great and occasional weekend trips to the shore are even better. And of course long rides on the motorcycle are the best. (I could teach you to ride, but I'd rather you already know - either way it isn't a big deal.) I dont mind if you have children, I could be a good friend to the children of the right person.I'm hoping to find someone who balances me, brings light to my life and inspires me. So send me a note if you are interested, don't just add me to your favorites or try the photo bingo game.... I don't and won't chase a man.I try to live for fun and excitment... so say hi and let's get this show on the road. :) The only thing I'm pretty serious about is my career. My home is pretty important also as is my partner, being a responsible person and a good citizen.I'm already happy so I enjoy doing just about anything. And I'm pretty open minded and liberal in thought from my years out West. Does it really matter? Meeting someone new is tough enough so let's do something fun and the odds can wait. Note: If meeting you is like doing a business transaction I think I'll pass; I already have a job and I do my own taxes. I have very little free time and don't want to waste it sitting and being bored. Besides I have a great fun playful side that you're bound to fall in love with so let's go engage in some shenanigans that won't violate any laws.You only live once!! Don't waste it.

  • Kyndall

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a simply simple person and easy to know, but I'm far from easy! I love growing things, I am an herbalist and Massage therapist. I love learning new things and I own my own business. I love to read, hike,watch movies,dancing, I just love life. I am Wiccan, to those of you who know what it is good for you. I love football and anything to do outside!! I like to think myself funny and fun to be with but I'll let you be the judge of that. I love to quote movie lines, songs lyrics, and anything that inspires me. I'm a pretty laid back, I really love a smart man who can challenge me both in conversation and in life. I am a very smart and again I love to learn, anything and everything I can, if I could learn everything in the world I would jump at the chance. Since that is impossible and time runs against me I do what I can. :) I can say I have had a few dates from this site, but yikes, they were awful, well not all but men do not respect a pretty face, I am not looking to get laid, I'm looking for real!! I am not a slut I am a lady so treat me as such, and I promise I won't drop kick your ass to the curb. I have no intentions of giving it up on the first date so if you are looking for that "hook up" move the f on.....I am a bit old fashion with a new twist, I do not mind paying for things on my own and honestly if you buying my dinner makes you think you are going to get some, I would rather pay for it myself anyway. So fellas grow up and check yourself before things get out of hand and you end up old and alone.... I hope that I have been real enough for you because that is just who I am, if I offended you then that probably won't be the first time, I am VERY honest about things and I pull no punches. So if you think you can handle that huge challenge then bring it on if not then just move along and good luck. Any who, just write me lets chat and see where it goes from there, until then I await... Drinks, maybe a nice dinner, hiking, boating, heck I 'm up for adventure, surprise me show me what kind of imagination you have. Like I said Im easy to know but far from easy to forget, lol

  • Honor

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well, I am a very out going open minded fun loving person. I enjoy going out and meeting new people & trying new things. Some of the things I enjoy doing when I'm not working is going to the gym & working out, going to dinner with friends, going to concerts, riding motorcycles, reading, cooking, traveling, chatting with friends. The list could go on forever. So, if you want to know more just ask. A first date needs to have a relaxing atmosphere where you can get to know one another.

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