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ClarisaOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am adventurous love life and all it has to offer I am looking for a full life with a special person who can teach me love I am outspoken positive and sometimes aggressive; I love a good challenge I have high standards I am independant and can take care of myself; I can also take care of other people; however I believe that people should take of each other. No one should be left behind or left out. I am a giver but can also receive. I enjoy intellectual stimulation. I take pride in the fact that I am independent, though the cost is high when it comes to my free time. I try to squeeze in game of Golf when my children or my business are not demanding my time. I have a very busy schedule, but I do intend to make time in the future for new adventure. Life is too short to pass up possible life long memories. I am a very authentic American Girl. I am considered esteemed and successful for small town America. Passion, lust and desire are definitely a requirement in physical attraction; intellectual integrity, character, common interests and respect; is what holds on to that emotion. I am looking for that one person whom you can look across a crowded room and lock eyes; I have the hope that one day I will look across a crowded room and my eyes will meet a man eyes and the room becomes silent. I am an optimist, which makes me somewhat of a dreamer; I am artististic, creative and a romantic. Positive thinking leads to positive things. I am a leader who can also follow. I enjoy people and friends; new places, smells and tastes. I appreciate beauty and natures simplicity. Veracity is required in my search I realize it is rare; trying to find it here may be a catch 22. I am not into x with strange men. Don't expect to find a girl lacking morals. I am a very confident well adjusted person. I love confident men; however if you are a narcissist or self righteous do not apply I do not play games or manipulate people, I can be selfish but I make sure everyone benefits; I am not a cheater or a player I absolutely require the same; please do not apply truth will always present itself so please don't waste your time or mine. Look boys..... If you are going to lie about who you are and what you do; don't you think you are wasting your time? Just because you want me to talk to you. Don't exagerate or lie about yourself, it won't help; I will see right through it.Oh one more thing; I can be a princess! so if that is not what you want then don't ask me to let down my long hair for you climb. And YES I Do want a lot; I have worked hard for it, I deserve it and if you have also, You deserve it as well!Additionally; I am not looking for someone to drink with or party with, I am looking for someone to Jog with, work-out with, Cook with, Read, Maybe Hunt, with discuss world issues, build things, Travel with, take photographs, decorate, landscape, garden, ect ect ect. I would like to date a man who is charming and respectable. I am looking for a sane man who is not into control or mind manipulation. I would like to meet a real person with morals some one that I can compliment as well as compliment me. I am looking for a athletic or physically fit man, Under my must have list: I must have well dressed clean and smell good man. I also must say this; I am not looking for man to take care of me or control me, I have been divorced for 7 years and all my decisions have brought me success thus far. That being said, I am searching for someone to walk with me, laugh with me, dance with me, ride motorcycle with me (though I don't mind riding on the back and holding on ;) I certainly do not want to be someones Idol, mother, or motivational energy. Looking for someone that can keep up with me. BTW I have my life together emotionally and financially, and I know what I want out of life, 'that being said' If you are still living with mom and dad or don't have a job car or your life organized please do not apply.
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DeandreaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone fantastic, get to know him without pressure, eventually discover that we're both crazy about each other, and walk off into the sunset with him. ;-) Fortunately, I have a solid game plan until that happens! Intrigued? Please read on. I love hanging out with friends wherever they happen to gather. I love boating so much that I'm willing to suffer through applying and reapplying the sunscreen. I love conversations that slowly wind around you like a soft, comfortable blanket and lull you into talking until the small hours of the morning. I love dinner with friends where we have "save the world" discussions in raised voices punctuated with our hands banging, like gavels, on the table. I love road trips. I love going to piano bars to sing along with the performers... Even in an especially zealous fit of logical angst, I KNOW the world of human choice is paved in a kaleidoscope of grey rather than black and white. As much as I can embrace rules and structure, you will not like me if your glasses show you a black and white view of life. Trust me. What I'm working on in my life: Learning to accept help from good friends as I realize that I cannot, in fact, shoulder everything by myself. Feeling incredibly thankful for where I am, whom I know and like and love, and what I have and do not have. Wondering why people brag that they are brutally honest. What could possibly be laudable about being "brutally" anything? How about compassionately honest. That's what I want to be--and that's the kind of person I'd like to be around. Giving myself permission to stop feeling like I need to prove some random things to some random people. Giving myself permission to stop over-thinking everything. Travel. "And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." John Steinbeck I'm really good at the following : Giving bad news to people, strangers and friends alike. I'm excellent on the phone, and I have a knack for helping people hear the news, process things, and gear up to make a plan. Being logical, making lists, explaining things, helping people push through the emotion in something in order to figure out how to cope or how to fix it. This means I'm less good at sitting with you in your pain. I want to fix it. I want you not to hurt. I want to make sure you're happy, even though I know it isn't my job. I'm working on being better at this, but I think it's important flaw to admit to potential romantic partners :-). Please drop me a note if the following are true: You're confident in your ability to get things done. You have a healthy curiosity for learning new things and going to new places. You find your life can be busy to the point of chaos, and you've realized you kind of like it that way. You're happy with yourself--what you've done and where you've been. You're excited about the future, but you'd like to find someone with whom you can share the fun. You don't just *enjoy* physical intimacy with a partner ***you *need* it to have a successful relationship. Or run over to my house to taste the perfect scone. Or grab an impromptu meal or coffee or movie or hike. A couple of important notes are as follows : I do not have children, and I am not interested in raising any as a mother. I'm thrilled with the idea of being friend and mentor, and possibly an eventual step-mother, but if you want someone with whom you can have more children, I am not she. If this is a problem, then you may want to refrain from contacting me. Coffee and conversation without any pressure. Do not contact me if you do not have a photo posted on your profile. I've found a shocking number of men on this site are married and cheating. If you do not have a photo, you'll need to have an excellent reason and a method of proving it :-)
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BrooklynOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Hello Fellas,Im a single mom of an 8yr old out here on Tybee. Im a born and bread Red Sox fan but left the Bean over 7yrs ago. I love riding my beach cruiser along the shore and eating crab legs on the back river. After not dating for about 5 yrs im looking forward to meeting someone that enjoys the salt life as much as i do. So if you're at the beach and see a red head riding a vintage schwinn, give me a shout :) Really doesn't matter as long as there's a connection