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Deandrea, 42
United States, Pennsylvania, Mount Pleasant

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Ideally, I'd like to meet someone fantastic, get to know him without pressure, eventually discover that we're both crazy about each other, and walk off into the sunset with him. ;-) Fortunately, I have a solid game plan until that happens! Intrigued? Please read on. I love hanging out with friends wherever they happen to gather. I love boating so much that I'm willing to suffer through applying and reapplying the sunscreen. I love conversations that slowly wind around you like a soft, comfortable blanket and lull you into talking until the small hours of the morning. I love dinner with friends where we have "save the world" discussions in raised voices punctuated with our hands banging, like gavels, on the table. I love road trips. I love going to piano bars to sing along with the performers... Even in an especially zealous fit of logical angst, I KNOW the world of human choice is paved in a kaleidoscope of grey rather than black and white. As much as I can embrace rules and structure, you will not like me if your glasses show you a black and white view of life. Trust me. What I'm working on in my life: Learning to accept help from good friends as I realize that I cannot, in fact, shoulder everything by myself. Feeling incredibly thankful for where I am, whom I know and like and love, and what I have and do not have. Wondering why people brag that they are brutally honest. What could possibly be laudable about being "brutally" anything? How about compassionately honest. That's what I want to be--and that's the kind of person I'd like to be around. Giving myself permission to stop feeling like I need to prove some random things to some random people. Giving myself permission to stop over-thinking everything. Travel. "And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." John Steinbeck I'm really good at the following : Giving bad news to people, strangers and friends alike. I'm excellent on the phone, and I have a knack for helping people hear the news, process things, and gear up to make a plan. Being logical, making lists, explaining things, helping people push through the emotion in something in order to figure out how to cope or how to fix it. This means I'm less good at sitting with you in your pain. I want to fix it. I want you not to hurt. I want to make sure you're happy, even though I know it isn't my job. I'm working on being better at this, but I think it's important flaw to admit to potential romantic partners :-). Please drop me a note if the following are true: You're confident in your ability to get things done. You have a healthy curiosity for learning new things and going to new places. You find your life can be busy to the point of chaos, and you've realized you kind of like it that way. You're happy with yourself--what you've done and where you've been. You're excited about the future, but you'd like to find someone with whom you can share the fun. You don't just *enjoy* physical intimacy with a partner ***you *need* it to have a successful relationship. Or run over to my house to taste the perfect scone. Or grab an impromptu meal or coffee or movie or hike. A couple of important notes are as follows : I do not have children, and I am not interested in raising any as a mother. I'm thrilled with the idea of being friend and mentor, and possibly an eventual step-mother, but if you want someone with whom you can have more children, I am not she. If this is a problem, then you may want to refrain from contacting me. Coffee and conversation without any pressure. Do not contact me if you do not have a photo posted on your profile. I've found a shocking number of men on this site are married and cheating. If you do not have a photo, you'll need to have an excellent reason and a method of proving it :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Spanish Turkish Comedy Family & Kids Horror Sci-Fi
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am currently living life and loving it but am hoping to find someone to share all these wonderful experiences with. I am a Christian and would really love to be able to find that special someone willing to grow together as a couple. Please, if you are looking for something other than an adult long term relatoinship pass me by. I am a very independent woman with many goals. I am the type of person that decides what she wants and goes out to get it. Don't get me wrong, I also enjoy relaxing and being treated like a lady. I guess you could say that I am looking for someone that is willing to be a partner in life with similar goals. I realize that I have a very busy schedule but am willing to take the time to get to know you if you are seriously wanting a relationship.I enjoy movies in the winter, riding Harleys in the spring and summer, those quiet evenings at home. I am a very hard worker and am looking for the same in a man. I enjoy clasical rock and country music. I feel that two people have to have similar things in common in order for their to be a spark in a relationship. I am honest and very open, looking for someone who values honesty. I am hoping to find a life partner! Dinner, movie, or just a cup of coffee.

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  • Maddie from Mount Pleasant | Woman | 42 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ok Im updating my profile and starting it out with IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER W ME RIGHT OFF THE BAT, FORGET IT! Im not into just hopping into bed with someone. I have gotten WAY too many messages from.people who for some reason think Im that kind of girl. So, now onto who I am and what Im looking for. I am recently single and am not looking to jump right in to a relationship. I'd like to take things slow and see where things go. I am a single mom of one, 15 year old daughter, who lives at home with me full time. I am an honest and trustworthy person and am upfront with eveything. Im shy at first but once I get to know someone I open up. I am told I have a great sense of humor and very outgoing. I enjoy sports very much but due to an injury Im limited in playing but I still dabble a little. I love all kinds of music, italian food and the outdoors. I like to be spontaneous and am up for just about anything! Im a fun person to be around and am the type of peron who will do anything for anyone. I am a very good listener and have a good heart. If I sound like someone you would like to know more about dont hesitate to get in touch with me. First date..hmmmm. Well Id prefer a quite atmosphere at a nice resteraunt. Not too expensive but not McDonalds either lol, so that we could talk and get to know one.another. If dinner goes well, maybe a movie or a walk on the beach or by the lake if the weather is nice. If not, maybe head to a comedy club or sporting event.

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  • Wynonna from Mount Pleasant | Woman | 41 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'll keep this simple... I'm looking for someone to spend some time with on occasion and if we're lucky it will develop into something special for both of us over time. I'm in no rush, just want to get it right this time.I'm serious about making a effort towards something great... I really do want to knock it out of the ball park the next time. I don't think that is too much to ask and I'm willing to wait for the right person. My current life keeps me busy and I do like my independence. Great things don't happen overnight, so I expect you to be patient and honest as things move forward.I'm looking for someone whose life is settled and has little baggage(kids are completely acceptable). Ideally I think that the right man would bring to the table some of the same things that I have to offer... Good luck on your search! Please provide a pic if one is not on your profile.. no pic, no reply. Me - I'd have a hot tea... you - perhaps a coffee or another beverage... nice casual setting. Good conversation. The realization that conversation in person is nicer now that we've gotten to know one another on the phone/computer - but not looking for a pen pal. Meeting as soon as we know we have a connection is important to move forward. Laughter is a must. Hoping that all goes well - we'd share a warm hug and agree that seeing each other again would be something to look forward to!

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