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Elfreda, 45

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About Me

Hi now that my daughter is becoming less dependent on me, I find myself looking for someone to spend my free time with. I feel like I am in a place where I can live more spontaneously and have more time now to spend with someone and enjoy a quality relationship.I am an independent woman, I have a good job, and a great daughter. I own my own home, and am settled in my life. I am however missing that special someone to share special moments with and find someone who enjoys the same things I do. I am somewhat shy and my friends would describe me as quiet at first, but once I get comfortable, I open up. I would like to meet an outgoing, fun person who makes me laugh. I don’!! I would like you to also enjoy riding, if not now, maybe in the future. I love taking road trips, surprise weekend getaways. I would like to meet someone who enjoys taking walks around a beautiful lake and just talking, boating, fishing, BBQ’s or just snuggling by a bon-fire.Family is important to me. My daughter is 18 years old. I enjoy spending time with her, when she has time. Something very casual...meet for a drink/cup of coffee and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Scottie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I work in an industry where i help people make life changing decisions about there loved ones every day. It's never easy but with a little love, compassion and sympathy it makes the tranasition so much eaiser. This is who i am to the core!I am def a unique women in many ways...I am trusting until you show me otherwise, i always have a smile on my face even if i'm sad. I figure a smile can always brighten someones day. When i look at a person i view them as a person and not just based on there looks. (although looks are important to a degree). I'm looking for someone who has a heart! They have to be a good person! Dont tell me what i want to hear. Simply say what you mean and mean what you say. Its not difficult!I love to laugh and be around positive people. It's a natural high for me! My kids, friends and family are what keep me going every day. My boys and daughter are the true loves of my life but could always use a close second lol!!! Good luck with your search. :)READY.....SET.....GO!!! low key....keep it simple....no pressure! Just be adorable and make me smile!

  • Season

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

  • Sunshine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a beautiful woman who has a lot to offer i enjoy spending time together going out for drives movies museums walks and i love life just dont want the game too old for them and if u just want a lay dontwaste my time or yours thanks other than that im a wonderful person with a beautiful personality who believes in letting a man be a man and a woman being a woman not here for a cheap thrill incan get that at a bar if i want it i love to laugh and smile and just looking for someone that we compliment eachother and enjoy our company together thanks Cofffee a walk so we can see if we got that spark

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