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Rhoda, 43

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About Me

Kids are grown and live in different states....- and healthy and completely allergic to drama - of any kind.....When I'm not at work, I'm either on my computer, hanging out with friends or at the pool. I love going dancing all night my friends and just hearing the loud music - it's my release...or staying home torrenting a movie - completely ok with doing either. Also - No, I can't, won't and refuse to give anyone "discounts" or "hook 'em up" with VZ - so please don't even ask! =) I am probably one of the most "outgoing" people you will ever meet. I find & make friends wherever I am, not a problem for me at all, in any way. I am extremely loving, kind, loyal, romantic, sincere, giving, passionate...I also am very honest, and I will tell you what I think and feel. I am my own person, I know exactly who I am, what I want and what I need.Music?... I won't listen to country - simply because I feel music is suppose to make you feel good, not make you want to put a gun to your head, * What I need * #***Intelligence#2- Ambition / Aka: Employed #3- Sense of humor#4- Monogamous (If you have to research this? Please don't bother.....)#5- Sanity #6- Class & manners ***sorry- I don't do "Redneck") #7- Tolerance / Respect And Grace.....(if you don't know what these qualities mean? Please don't even bother - truly...don't.)#8- Teeth .......(apparently this has to be mentioned - no f***ing clue why- but it obviously has to be.....sry ) #9- No "Hook up's " or "DTF" messages...........SO not happening......again, please don't bother........I've come to the realization from these dating sites, that about 99.8% of people on here do NOT have their sh*t together at all.......and I since I do? That my person should also - and I'm just not in that place anymore ***I've grown, moved passed and healed and I DO have my sh*t together and am happy, drama free, and zero baggage.......and I need that in my person.............apparently that's too much to ask for anymore.....So, if you Don't have your shi* together - please keep looking.............No....seriously ....please! we'll figure it out .............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Janel

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there! Thanks so much for taking the time to actually read my profile!I consider my personality as supportive, nurturing, quirky, relaxed, goofy, open-minded, curious, focused, patient, and a plethora of other adjectives that currently escape me. I'm a young-at-heart, bluntly honest person who has mad skills for organization. I love to travel when I can and explore new places. I like to go camping, hike trails, and taking a dip in the river or lakes. I am, obviously, not a sun-bunny although. LOL I like to keep up with technology the best I can and it would be nice if you do too....although not completely required. I also do a bit of light gaming. I haven't listed many outdoorsey or adventurous activities that I enjoy because, simply put....I did not have the means or access to much for most of my life. Things are changing now and I'm up for new experiences. Maybe you can share with me the things that interest you!I am open to considering different "types" of dates/partners than I would typically choose because thus far I've not had much luck with my past relationships. (I wouldn't be here now if I did....right?) It is SO hard to get a good read on anyone from a profile. I strongly suggest you meet me in person (if my pictures don't put you off) before making your decision of whether or not I might be the one for you. If it works out and we go on a second date....awesome! If it doesn't, then we will have hopefully spent a nice evening , or day with good company, had some fun, or learned something from it. If I do not respond to your *** hours...that most likely means I am not interested. Please don't take it personally. We are all doing the same thing here and know how hard it is to tell someone that "I'm not attracted to you". Anyhow.....I guess I am going to sound pretty typical and run of the mill by saying that I want to find someone who I will hopefully find laughter, joy, stability, friendship, companionship, love, patience, and honesty in. I would like you to be between the ages of 32 and 45. I want someone that will gently encourage me to do things that I have not done before. I want someone to explore new places with, travel or road trip on vacations, someone to snuggle up on the couch and watch movies, someone who appreciates (and hopefully help out with) a homemade meal and dining out equally. I want someone who is comfortable with staying home the whole weekend as well as doing something every day of the weekend. I'm looking for someone who has their stuff together but isn't too busy to make time for just us. I guess I'm looking for that hybrid balanced type of person...the "Jack of all Trades" so to speak.Well...I've said quite enough. Now tell me about you. Talk to you soon! By the way...I will not respond to meet up requests as a way to entice me to *** same goes for flirts or if you favorite me. Just send a hello and lets chat! Well...I think a good ice breaker would be to go for just a nice cup of coffee or ice cold beer and simply talk. If all goes well there, perhaps we decide to extend the date longer or for even the rest of the day. Part of the fun would be to discuss favorite places we have been or want to share with each other and decide on one to do that very day or schedule for another time. I don't believe in extravagant first dates. I want a date who will talk and act as who they will be 10 years from now, no false pretenses.

  • Katelyn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking for that special friend! Know your out there cuz Moma told me so.....be patient she wld say he will come to you. Iam still waiting as patiently as possible! LOL Ok guys natural red head, freckled face, average built, energetic gal looking to hang out meet new people and just enjoy life as it comes along......one day at a time. Want to know anything at all just ask! IAM WAITING...... I would like the first date take place in the mountains. I would pack lunch, take blanket, just look at God's beauty! Find good place to spread blanket enjoy lunch and the quietness. Then try to get to know each other with no interruptions.....that would mean no cell phones!!!!

  • Uriela

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    down to earth ...professsional lady looking for a love connection and no drama. 42 years old, single mother, well-educated, love to smile..am full of life. .a kid at heart..love college football...and very positive. I survived an injury 2years ago and that left me physically disabled. I learned from that experience to appreciate life and live life to its fullest. I am looking for a partner that is thoughtful and a true gentleman. I .love to be romsnced. Meet for coffee or a drink to see if we click

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