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Rhoda, 43

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About Me

Kids are grown and live in different states....- and healthy and completely allergic to drama - of any kind.....When I'm not at work, I'm either on my computer, hanging out with friends or at the pool. I love going dancing all night my friends and just hearing the loud music - it's my release...or staying home torrenting a movie - completely ok with doing either. Also - No, I can't, won't and refuse to give anyone "discounts" or "hook 'em up" with VZ - so please don't even ask! =) I am probably one of the most "outgoing" people you will ever meet. I find & make friends wherever I am, not a problem for me at all, in any way. I am extremely loving, kind, loyal, romantic, sincere, giving, passionate...I also am very honest, and I will tell you what I think and feel. I am my own person, I know exactly who I am, what I want and what I need.Music?... I won't listen to country - simply because I feel music is suppose to make you feel good, not make you want to put a gun to your head, * What I need * #***Intelligence#2- Ambition / Aka: Employed #3- Sense of humor#4- Monogamous (If you have to research this? Please don't bother.....)#5- Sanity #6- Class & manners ***sorry- I don't do "Redneck") #7- Tolerance / Respect And Grace.....(if you don't know what these qualities mean? Please don't even bother - truly...don't.)#8- Teeth .......(apparently this has to be mentioned - no f***ing clue why- but it obviously has to be.....sry ) #9- No "Hook up's " or "DTF" messages...........SO not happening......again, please don't bother........I've come to the realization from these dating sites, that about 99.8% of people on here do NOT have their sh*t together at all.......and I since I do? That my person should also - and I'm just not in that place anymore ***I've grown, moved passed and healed and I DO have my sh*t together and am happy, drama free, and zero baggage.......and I need that in my person.............apparently that's too much to ask for anymore.....So, if you Don't have your shi* together - please keep looking.............No....seriously ....please! we'll figure it out .............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Edda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Where do I begin? I'm 44 years old.....single Mom of 2 amazing kids...who, by the way? Are my world...they come before anything else. I hope to find someone who can relate to that. I work hard and play harder. I'm a manager in a very busy restaurant and I work 55 sometimes 60 hours a week. I have no time for liars, players or guys that like to "party" and I'm definitely not looking for a one night hook up because its not my style. If that's what you are looking for while you're reading? Please move on and good luck with that...Im independent and take care of my own . I need a man who's not threatened by that and respects boundaries for I will do the same. I guess I'm looking for a guy who knows how to treat a woman. I want a partner, best friend and lover all wrapped up in one. I do not think this is too much to ask. At this point in my life? I'm looking for someone to share my popcorn with on a Saturday night cuddled up on the couch watching movies. The one to watch football all day on a Sunday. Although my team is awful this season (lol) I'm a die hard GIANTS fan.. You can take the girl out of the city...yada yada....thats me.. I love a drama free life. Have you heard this before? I'm sure ... Me too.. But in truth? That's who I am.. I lived with it for so many years and now there is no tolerance for it. I'm a straight shooter. I mean what I say and I say what I mean. I'm told sometimes I'm honest to a fault but I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not. I do get my free time because no one can,work ALL THE TIME... All work and no play?? No fun... I enjoy a variety of things and after reading this if you're interested? Drop me a line... Good luck in your search for the "one" It really depends on with who and when...

  • Normaalbareni1

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-49

    Hi! My name is Normaalbareni1. I am never married catholic hispanic woman with kids from Marcus Hook, Pennsylvania, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Sukie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    There is no way anyone could fully explain themselves in a profile so here is my best attempt at a synopsis, with help from my friends....I'm a vivacious, intelligent, honest, independent and drama free red head by choice (the red head part )with good sense of humor can even be a bit shy at first although it doesn't usually last long. My friends say I'm fun to be around, a loyal and caring friend and partner. I'm in a career that I love but not a work-a-holic.Good food, great company and stimulating (or silly) conversation and a light hearted competitive streak spark my interest. I often have a sarcastic and dry sense of humor but I can get as well as I give, I laugh often and usually at myself. I am rarely offended, my friends take great pleasure in ribbing me. I enjoy hearing many opinions even ones I don't agree with, after all that's what makes us individuals and sometimes gives us a little food for thought. I love to cook (one of the things my friends really enjoy about me). I like to be active, exercise regularly but am not obsessed with working out. I enjoy being out and about as well as snuggling close on the sofa with a glass of wine listening to and watching the world, a good thunderstorm or a good movie. I enjoy most music styles with the exception of Rap, the style I'm into really depends on the moment and my mood. Family and friends are important, I love doing the little things that make someone happy. I am comfortable and can enjoy myself in almost any setting whether that be a backyard BBQ in my jeans, a formal night on the town or sporting events (ballet to bull riding and most anything in between, and I do like football), I think it's more about who you are with rather than what you are doing. I am affectionate and passionate with a healthy dash of romantic, grounded enough to live in the real world. I love sailing, own my own sailboat and enjoy most water activities. I love the outdoors with all it has to offer, camping (usually on my boat, but land is good too) and snowboarding are a few I do as often as I can. I enjoy most sports, have played/play a few, there isn't much I wouldn't try and may already enjoy it, very much an adventurous soul. There is far too much I am interested in to possibly list here. I love to try new things, I golfed for the for the first and only time so far 2 years ago and based on my first 18 holes it could end up a love/hate kind of relationship. If you are looking for a delicate wallflower you are reading the wrong profile.My children are grown ***and ***and mostly moved out so I'm ready to concentrate on the next steps of my life....whatever that may bring. If you have young children I do love kids, and they can be great fun but have done my part raising small children so..... I wish you lots of luck with your search but you will need to look elsewhere.Ultimately I am hopeful to someday meet my best friend and life partner, someone who is secure in who they are, has plenty of tolerance and respect for others, that finds life an adventure and is looking forward with a smile and anticipation not behind with regret, who doesn't mind learning new things and is willing to share his passions and adventures with someone willing to learn. Everything beautiful and wonderful about the world is that much better when you have someone special to enjoy it with. I value honesty and kindness most of all.Thank you for reading! If you made it this far maybe you should send an ***, I will answer almost all *** am easy to get to know, much easier in person than in a profile. Oh and I put up a pic so you should also, it's only fair LOL. Looks certainly aren't everything, I am very much a "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" kind of gal but it sure is helpful to put a face to an *** hunting! Coffee or wine & a chat

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