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Rhoda, 43

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About Me

Kids are grown and live in different states....- and healthy and completely allergic to drama - of any kind.....When I'm not at work, I'm either on my computer, hanging out with friends or at the pool. I love going dancing all night my friends and just hearing the loud music - it's my release...or staying home torrenting a movie - completely ok with doing either. Also - No, I can't, won't and refuse to give anyone "discounts" or "hook 'em up" with VZ - so please don't even ask! =) I am probably one of the most "outgoing" people you will ever meet. I find & make friends wherever I am, not a problem for me at all, in any way. I am extremely loving, kind, loyal, romantic, sincere, giving, passionate...I also am very honest, and I will tell you what I think and feel. I am my own person, I know exactly who I am, what I want and what I need.Music?... I won't listen to country - simply because I feel music is suppose to make you feel good, not make you want to put a gun to your head, * What I need * #***Intelligence#2- Ambition / Aka: Employed #3- Sense of humor#4- Monogamous (If you have to research this? Please don't bother.....)#5- Sanity #6- Class & manners ***sorry- I don't do "Redneck") #7- Tolerance / Respect And Grace.....(if you don't know what these qualities mean? Please don't even bother - truly...don't.)#8- Teeth .......(apparently this has to be mentioned - no f***ing clue why- but it obviously has to be.....sry ) #9- No "Hook up's " or "DTF" messages...........SO not happening......again, please don't bother........I've come to the realization from these dating sites, that about 99.8% of people on here do NOT have their sh*t together at all.......and I since I do? That my person should also - and I'm just not in that place anymore ***I've grown, moved passed and healed and I DO have my sh*t together and am happy, drama free, and zero baggage.......and I need that in my person.............apparently that's too much to ask for anymore.....So, if you Don't have your shi* together - please keep looking.............No....seriously ....please! we'll figure it out .............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sukie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    There is no way anyone could fully explain themselves in a profile so here is my best attempt at a synopsis, with help from my friends....I'm a vivacious, intelligent, honest, independent and drama free red head by choice (the red head part )with good sense of humor can even be a bit shy at first although it doesn't usually last long. My friends say I'm fun to be around, a loyal and caring friend and partner. I'm in a career that I love but not a work-a-holic.Good food, great company and stimulating (or silly) conversation and a light hearted competitive streak spark my interest. I often have a sarcastic and dry sense of humor but I can get as well as I give, I laugh often and usually at myself. I am rarely offended, my friends take great pleasure in ribbing me. I enjoy hearing many opinions even ones I don't agree with, after all that's what makes us individuals and sometimes gives us a little food for thought. I love to cook (one of the things my friends really enjoy about me). I like to be active, exercise regularly but am not obsessed with working out. I enjoy being out and about as well as snuggling close on the sofa with a glass of wine listening to and watching the world, a good thunderstorm or a good movie. I enjoy most music styles with the exception of Rap, the style I'm into really depends on the moment and my mood. Family and friends are important, I love doing the little things that make someone happy. I am comfortable and can enjoy myself in almost any setting whether that be a backyard BBQ in my jeans, a formal night on the town or sporting events (ballet to bull riding and most anything in between, and I do like football), I think it's more about who you are with rather than what you are doing. I am affectionate and passionate with a healthy dash of romantic, grounded enough to live in the real world. I love sailing, own my own sailboat and enjoy most water activities. I love the outdoors with all it has to offer, camping (usually on my boat, but land is good too) and snowboarding are a few I do as often as I can. I enjoy most sports, have played/play a few, there isn't much I wouldn't try and may already enjoy it, very much an adventurous soul. There is far too much I am interested in to possibly list here. I love to try new things, I golfed for the for the first and only time so far 2 years ago and based on my first 18 holes it could end up a love/hate kind of relationship. If you are looking for a delicate wallflower you are reading the wrong profile.My children are grown ***and ***and mostly moved out so I'm ready to concentrate on the next steps of my life....whatever that may bring. If you have young children I do love kids, and they can be great fun but have done my part raising small children so..... I wish you lots of luck with your search but you will need to look elsewhere.Ultimately I am hopeful to someday meet my best friend and life partner, someone who is secure in who they are, has plenty of tolerance and respect for others, that finds life an adventure and is looking forward with a smile and anticipation not behind with regret, who doesn't mind learning new things and is willing to share his passions and adventures with someone willing to learn. Everything beautiful and wonderful about the world is that much better when you have someone special to enjoy it with. I value honesty and kindness most of all.Thank you for reading! If you made it this far maybe you should send an ***, I will answer almost all *** am easy to get to know, much easier in person than in a profile. Oh and I put up a pic so you should also, it's only fair LOL. Looks certainly aren't everything, I am very much a "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" kind of gal but it sure is helpful to put a face to an *** hunting! Coffee or wine & a chat

  • Lalla

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I mostly date men and women of color or of other nationalities than my own but im willing to meet and get to know anyone I have good conversation with.I am in college studying to get my associates degree in web technology and web design. I am a single parent. I enjoy dining out, watching movies, reading, and am spontaneous. I have piercings in my ears, nose, tongue and lebray. I speak english,spanish and know sign language. I am unique. I am tired of dating people who lie and say they arent dating anyone but end up being married or have someone they are holding on to. So if this is you dont waste youre time with me. My kids are mixed white and black and white and guatemalan. So if you are racist pass me by! I do enjoy listening to music I like all types except classical and jazz. I am ready to be with just one person and settle down. He must like children. I think a first date should basically be dining out and talking and getting to know each other, maybe a movie. I am up for new ideas!

  • Francina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Well, I'll go ahead get two things out of the way up front. I'm a plus size female. I'm not a thin person and I don't see me ever being that way. I'm not ENORMOUS, but I'm definitely not small. My pictures are recent and accurate.I am a Christian. I'm not in church every Sunday, but I do have a strong faith in God. Without Him, I'm nothing. I don't date non-Christians. I'm sorry. One more little comment.....what's with all of the photos without smiles. The "tough" pictures are really kind of sad. Please, attempt to smile in atleast one of your pictures. It's nice to know if you can be happy. LOL!Ok, NOW hopefully you're still reading. LOL! Now on to the basics. I have varied interests from music, to movies, the outdoors, family, friends, religion, etc. I am fairly open minded, kind hearted, and fun loving with a goofy sense of humor and I LOVE to laugh. I love my family and friends. I do love the outdoors and want to spend more time around the mountains and the water. 4-wheelers are great. It's been years since I have been on one but I love them. Horses are awesome too. I have pretty much stayed around the house the last several years but I'm finally opening up and coming into my own. I'm figuring myself out and want to start really enjoying life. I hope to find someone to share that with. I am looking to meet someone with a great sense of humor, not to serious, loves the outdoors, animals, kids, and God. I hope to find a companion and friend and maybe more. I love all kinds of music, especially the 80's. I have a daughter that is 18 and lives with me most of the time. I also have a 23 year old son. I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. LOLAnyway, that's me in a VERY basic nutshell. If you would like to talk, give me a shout! Take care and have a great day! I'm open to most anything. I just like to keep things simple.

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