SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Lauralee
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
*** There is just no way humanly possible to answer all messages on here. I have heard this from every woman who has been on here! It is so kind of you to message be, but I am drowning in my inbox.Please don't be offended. Mostly I am going by distance & hoping I don't get it wrong & throw back a keeper. I have had a few dinner dates, made a few great friends, people really DO go out on dates from here, don't give up! Sincere best wishes to all. ***They made me choose a one word personality type. It was a toss up between Free Thinker, Animal Lover, Hopeless Romantic & Princess. All apply. ;) I am a busy & generally happy go lucky person.Just a bit lonely at times & looking for an intelligent, funny, kind hearted man, who is stable, employed or retired & lives fairly close to me.Initially, someone to go to dinner or a movie, a walk or a flea market with. Some friendly company & see how that works for us...I am not closed to the idea of a serious relationship, just not in a big hurry. I find myself wishing for a best friend/intelligent companion/wonderful lover on those long Friday & Saturday nights. For fun, I really enjoy searching flea markets , yard sales & antique stores for elusive & weird treasures. Dining out, cooking *** home, going out to the movies or watching a movie *** home, long walks, taking beautiful pictures, Pets, buying & selling on eBay & reading are some of my hobbies. I don't mind watching your favorite TV show, but I rarely turn the TV on if I'm home alone. I truly love pets & children, but it would be best if your children were older. Just being practical, kids under 12 require a LOT of Mommy & Daddy's time. I have one child still at home full time, but he is fairly independent.We could enjoy simple pleasures like stargazing, good conversations , long walks holding hands. I like old worn blue jeans, but also am a girly girl who doesn't mind getting dressed up sometimes. My politics are fairly liberal.I am not terribly hard on the eyes, but am an average middle aged shaped lady, lol! Not a slug, but no extreme fitness buff either. A bit on the shy side until I get to know you. I think too deeply about most things, I like new ideas & intelligent, thought provoking conversations.I am serious *** times & other times goofy as heck. If you try, I bet you can make me get to laughing so hard I'll fall off of my chair. ;)Life is an interesting journey. Full of ups &; laughter & tears. There are lessons to be learned & joys to be shared. I never really thought I'd end up alone *** this age on Plenty of Fish.But here I am. If you think we have similar interests & might enjoy getting to know each other, I'd be glad to hear from you...I tried this once before. It seems like I got quite a few messages from people who aren't even remotely close to what I describe I am looking for.I'll say this upfront, if you don't hear back from me, no offense intended, I wish you all of the best, but I just don't see potential there.I read that you are not supposed to list things you do NOT want because it is too negative.I am *** in the interest of saving us both time.Do not contact me if you: Have anger issues & yell a lot. Chew tobacco (Makes spontaneous kisses impossible;)Do not like animals.Are a flat out racist or bigot. Live & breathe Nascar ***.Work every or most weekends. (That is when I am free to date)Hope that didn't offend you, I believe in being direct & honest! Chats, ***, phone calls & getting to know about each other are a good first step. Then maybe a nice dinner out, or a walk down by the Dam in town, simple stuff, no worries. I do wish there was a "no hard feelings" gaurantee though.Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?
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Faith
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'm a single mom not looking for a dad for my children they have one...I love both watching and playing all kinds of sports,have a great home,job,and family.I enjoy anything outdoors esp if its on a lake boating!!!
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Candelaria
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Hi boys! I'm a hard-working, educated and loyal girl looking for similar qualities in a guy. Is that you? I'm in my early 40s, but think I could pass to be in my 30s. I'm not a gigantic girl, but I have my share of curves. I'm no stick figure or even "average." If that's what you prefer, move on, your loss. At 5'2" - well, I'm short; though I've never really known that to be a deal breaker, right? I have a genuine smile and big pretty blue eyes. I like to look my best (makeup, jewelry, fix my hair, etc***but don't take that to mean "high maintenance."I like to keep busy, though down time once in a while is nice. I've been divorced for more than five years and have no children, nor do I want any. I've got no crazy ex's and I avoid drama like the plague. I hate that crap. I have my head on straight, have goals and priorities in life, and my emotions are in check. I have a positive outlook and still hope to find my someone special. I'm college educated and have worked at the same place for about 18 years. I have a great job that I enjoy. I'm self-sufficient both financially and around my house. Do not read that as I'm rich - I'm not - haha - but neither am I looking for a sugar daddy or handy man to take care of me. I'm looking for a good guy to spend time with and share fun times and experiences. Someone who is loyal and will treat me well and make me feel special. Someone I could take home some day to meet my parents and be proud to introduce to my family. Someone who is looking for those same qualities in a girl. As far as hobbies, I'm a bit of a conundrum so don't do any judging until you meet me. 1. I'm pretty musically involved. I see it as my creative outlet with some really great friends. I love music in general, really. Going to live gigs at local venues is great fun. 2. I have a nice little sport bike. I like to ride. Either on my bike or the back of yours if you are a good rider...lol. 3. I like to tinker in my garage. Mostly cleaning and shining my car/bike or fixing things that went boom at the house. [#2 and #3 do not make me a biker chic or a butch. I just spent a lot of time with my Dad in the garage as a kid and I'm comfy there.] 4. This could be a deal breaker for some of you boys out there....I hate to cook. haha. Sorry! Sooooo, if you DO enjoy cooking - immediate bonus points. Lol5. I like to work around my house and keep things in order and nice. I especially enjoy things like DIY projects and yard work and the satisfaction and pride they bring when I'm done for the day. I think my best asset is my personality. I'm easy going and happy. I have a great sense of humor (dry, sarcastic, twisted at times - not my fault! I worked with a bunch of engineers for years) and I love to have fun. I have always been one to abide by the work hard/play hard adage - so far, so good. I try hard not to let little things bother me. Maybe that comes from the maturity of being in my 40s? Maybe it comes from lessons learned from divorce? I don't know for sure. But I do know life is short - we have to choose to make the best of each and every day! A positive attitude is a must! As far as age? It doesn't really matter to me as long as you don't just sit around and watch tv all day! I like to go and see and do! I suppose what's most important is if we click. That's what I'm looking for. The spark. Could we go on a road trip and get along the whole way there AND back?? And still want to see each other the next day? If you've made it this far and still think "me too!" then you are someone I'm interested in getting to know! So, that was probably too long, but if it sounded interesting to you, get at me (and please have a picture or two so I know you have more than three teeth and your hair isn't longer than mine.) Tell me why you think we'd click. And if we don't click on a dating level - oh well, maybe we'll make a new friend along the way. Two of my best buddies resulted from dates that were great but just didn't have that romantic spark.First dates are usually nerve racking, so let's just call it meeting up for a bit to see if there's that ever elusive spark I mentioned. No movies or loud concerts - my only request. How can you get to know someone if you can't talk and interact!?Ok, your turn. GO!!!