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About Me

I'm an upbeat, artsy, intelligent, loyal, independant, and friendly gal. I'm looking for someone with a great sense of humor and who views life as a glass that's half full. I love to travel and experience new things and it would be great if my partner did as well. Overall, I'm looking for someone who will enhance me, not complete me. Someone who is my best friend and beyond. Could that person be you? A few things about me: -I'm left-handed (but in my right mind) -I'm a talented driver; I can parallel on the left side of the street -My favorite ice cream is mint chocolate chip -I've been told I'm a great cook. - I can't wait!I'd love to get to know you. I look forward to hearing from you! :)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. I think first dates are for getting to know someone. A drink, a bite to eat or some fun activity where we can both laugh (and thus be less nervous!) are all good possiblities. This gives us a chance to see if we have chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stormie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am easy going enjoy most things and trying something new. Fun loving like to laugh smile and do often. I have an awesome family that makes that sparkle in my eye every time I look at them or think of them :-) I have 4 great kids they dont live at home anymore but we all get together at times and have one heck of a great time. They are awesome and yes sorry I am not just saying that lol they are just that great. My two oldest are girls married and 17 and 11 year old sons that go to school at their dads and visit. Its been life changing of course and we learn not to take each other for granted. I do believe if your with that right person you can enjoy yourself Just knowing that they are happy. I enjoy the quiet evening at home or an evening out dancing. Swimming, walks along the beach, music, music & cooking together awesome, wineries, bike rides, going to the gym, a picnic in the park or just go for a ride and see where it takes us see something new. HAVE fun laugh and smile! I went skydiving once, LOVED it, lol. I dont like heights but love to try everything so if your afraid try to get past it because it was absolutely an experience to remember and go tandem they will just push you out, lol. I do like my job and our reason for doing what we do. I work with a lot of great people, but I will have to continue working for many years sorry I am not a rich girl. Just a hard working family girl thats a lot of fun and Im not stuck on myself so I am not looking for someone like that if you are move on and thank you very much, but my pictures are me and this is how I am and yes I expect only the same as I offer recent pictures chat a little and see if theres that awesome spark. Theres a lot of things to try or experiences that get better when you are able to share them with the right person that's what I want so if your looking for a weekend hookup keep looking your not for me. No games and met enough players on here really lol ur not all that when your old and alone and im making memories I will still wish you happiness but I will be enjoying it. What I want and what I have to share money can't buy it's much more.Good luck finding that special someone... don't forget to live life to its fullest it goes by too fast not to share it with someone special. BTW I only want one honest real guy so if you're not him pass me by. I dont deceive anyone this is me what i look like and although im always moving up and not where i want to be yet where i want to stop in my career i like being me and move ahead always. Im not a hoochie mama looking for a ride i have responsibilities that are mine to deal with but as things arent yet there if this isnt something you can understand thats fine. If you arent over your past relationship you arent ready to start new. I know what I want do you?Ty for taking the time to read about me. Good luck in finding your happiness. Meet for coffee or a drink and talk

  • Aniyah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking to get to know someone first, not rush right into a serious relationship. I really hope to meet someone with an infectious smile and who is happy in general that sees the glass half full.I enjoy the movies, cars, motorcycles/ ATVs, dining, watching some sports, cooking, volunteer work, and gathering with friends. Music.. I'll just break that down because I love it and it varies from 80s hair bands & 90s alternative to the modern stuff, some classical, celtic, and classic rock; I don't do rap at all, it depends on which punk era, and country is ok for you but hasn't grown on me yet. Tattoos...so many to love but none of my own, yet, simply because I can't choose. Piercings..some are ok, everywhere=not. I have an honest & faithful heart, free spirit personality and I like to steer clear of the foofoo drama crowds. I'm casual and comfortable, prefer beer over wine, and know how to take care of myself but it's great to share life with others ;) I'm a work in progress at the gym with coming off a complicated shoulder injury.First impression of me might be a bit shy or reserved but when I crack, you'll find someone that loves to laugh and have a good time, with a twist of sarcasm (who, me? never). I'm not into the bar and dancing scenes anymore; I’m just a casual lady with a laid back life looking for someone to spend it with. I'm a West Coast transplant so distance isn't a major concern of mine-I'm used to commutes...lol. Why limit yourself to a zone when your soul mate cold be anywhere? My kids are grown but yours are fine; not interested in physically having more myself. Honesty is a must; if that’s not your style then please pass on by. Guys-I'm not into the games & drama, serial daters, or those desiring to have an online/texting relationships-I expect to see & know the real you. And if you like to hunt animals, I’m sorry but it’s not for me-so that’s up to you to decide, but I personally won't partake in it. I think attraction is a big part of chemistry, BUT it is not limited to just appearance; it has to come from within as much as it does from the surface. Things in common are great, but I believe everyone needs their differences too. I have my tried & trues, but I'm also open to exploring & learning new experiences.My ideal man knows what he wants and is comfortable with whom he is and where he's headed. He can talk openly with me about anything (later on) but also enjoys quiet time together and/or apart. He is gracious, yet fun and knows when to be which; comfortable in his own skin, but can dress it up on occasion; compassionate with others; loves animals & nature; cares about himself, but doesn’t obsess about it. He is open to continual growth and can commit to a transparent relationship; takes responsibility for his choices, but learns from them as well (we all make mistakes).Questions, want to know more, chat & see where it goes? Then you have to make that step to let me know ;) Good luck in your search! Open for discussion-too many choices. Somewhere comfortable for both to meet, grab a coffee or drink & then take it from there

  • Leone

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    June ***: Basically I am just me. I don't like or want to pretend to be something I'm not. Yes, I can be shy. Yes, I am a private person. And yes, I can be guarded with my feelings and emotions until I trust someone or feel comfortable. I know how I feel about things and apparently I may not express that well sometimes. At times I will remain silent because I don't really know what to say or how to respond to something...also if I don't want to just give a response and not be truthful. Please if you're assuming something about me or not sure my opinion or views on something ask for clarification. Also if I give you an answer, please listen to what I'm saying. If you've made your mind up without asking me or believing what I tell you, what is the point? I've tried to go into this looking at the present and not jumping too far ahead. If you're feeling a connection and you start talking about a future, I'm fine with that. However, if you're feeling that kind of connection, please communicate concerns with me. Don't let it get to the point of ending based on assumptions. I know a lot of guys do not like to communicate but I've never seen a successful relationship without communication. I also do not want to be in a relationship with poor communication. If you have made it through this current rant, thank you and please continue reading. :)One more thing...I don't know exactly how the "meet me" function works but if you've clicked that please send me a message also. I never know if someone has actually clicked that or meetville decided to list that like they do the matches, etc. Thanks.I tend to be a homebody. I do like to go do things but don't feel the need to be at a party or social event all the time. I watch tv/movies alot. I like to read and play games online. My main passion is animals. I like pretty much anything related to animals/nature and the beauty they bring to the world. My wish would be to have more time/energy to give volunteering with animals. I like alot of different types of music. I listen mainly to rock, pop, top 40, and country. I think the morals that people have these days are at an all time low. I don't think everything is black and white but I definitely think some things are just right or wrong.Ok..I thought I would update this. I understand that guys like to make that physical connection first. I, however, am a shy person. Yes, I want to talk on the phone more than a few times for 10 minutes before I meet up with someone. I have alot going on during the week so the only time I can really make that happen is sometime on the weekend. So I want to know that I'm at least interested in knowing someone better before I rearrange everything to meet them. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I just thought I'd let everyone know my expectations too. I like nice things but I'm a pretty simple down to earth person. Also, I love cats! I only have one that I adopted a couple years ago but I want more than one someday so just a warning if you are allergic to cats. I've negotiated alot in the past but I know this is one thing I won't spend the rest of my life without. Sorry.And a second update....I know every guy is looking for someone fun and no drama (whatever that means to them) I like to laugh like everyone but I am more introverted until you get to know me. I've had some pretty harsh blows the past couple years (who hasn't) but I do tend to be pretty serious and based in reality. To me a conversation is both people contributing...not listening to someone go on and on oblivious that I haven't said one word or vice versa me talking non-stop because he won't say anything or elaborate when I ask him questions. Also, if you want kids put that on your profile. Don't put undecided and then start asking rather personal questions about whether I'm capable of having kids in the first or second conversation. Awkward! For the record, not aware of any issues but for those unaware age is a factor for women in getting pregnant. I'm also not going to give every person I talk to my medical history. It's like you guys are looking to buy a brood mare or something. LOL I do have some joint/nerve issues......sucks all around but can't be changed. If you're trying to meet someone probably not the best idea to go on and on about some other woman that's absolutely wonderful that you're friends with. Are you trying to meet someone until she becomes available...c'mon. I tend to fall for someone the more I get to know them so this is a hard way to try to meet someone. I know that it won't happen immediately upon talking...it would just be nice if it felt like the possibility was there with someone. If you made it to the end of this, I appreciate you taking the time to read it. Please if you are remotely interested drop me a line. I read some profiles and don't respond...not because I might not be interested but figure I'm not their type. So go ahead, I might surprise you. :) Well when it comes to this I'm not very creative. I like casual things and a relaxed atmosphere. I like zoos or walking through a nice park. Unfortunately, I'm not a huge fan of the extreme heat in summer. Someplace where we can talk some but also just hang out. I just want both of us to feel comfortable. P.S. I don't drink coffee.

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