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Candelaria, 41
United States, Pennsylvania, Kennett Square

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About Me

Hi boys! I'm a hard-working, educated and loyal girl looking for similar qualities in a guy. Is that you? I'm in my early 40s, but think I could pass to be in my 30s. I'm not a gigantic girl, but I have my share of curves. I'm no stick figure or even "average." If that's what you prefer, move on, your loss. At 5'2" - well, I'm short; though I've never really known that to be a deal breaker, right? I have a genuine smile and big pretty blue eyes. I like to look my best (makeup, jewelry, fix my hair, etc***but don't take that to mean "high maintenance."I like to keep busy, though down time once in a while is nice. I've been divorced for more than five years and have no children, nor do I want any. I've got no crazy ex's and I avoid drama like the plague. I hate that crap. I have my head on straight, have goals and priorities in life, and my emotions are in check. I have a positive outlook and still hope to find my someone special. I'm college educated and have worked at the same place for about 18 years. I have a great job that I enjoy. I'm self-sufficient both financially and around my house. Do not read that as I'm rich - I'm not - haha - but neither am I looking for a sugar daddy or handy man to take care of me. I'm looking for a good guy to spend time with and share fun times and experiences. Someone who is loyal and will treat me well and make me feel special. Someone I could take home some day to meet my parents and be proud to introduce to my family. Someone who is looking for those same qualities in a girl. As far as hobbies, I'm a bit of a conundrum so don't do any judging until you meet me. 1. I'm pretty musically involved. I see it as my creative outlet with some really great friends. I love music in general, really. Going to live gigs at local venues is great fun. 2. I have a nice little sport bike. I like to ride. Either on my bike or the back of yours if you are a good rider...lol. 3. I like to tinker in my garage. Mostly cleaning and shining my car/bike or fixing things that went boom at the house. [#2 and #3 do not make me a biker chic or a butch. I just spent a lot of time with my Dad in the garage as a kid and I'm comfy there.] 4. This could be a deal breaker for some of you boys out there....I hate to cook. haha. Sorry! Sooooo, if you DO enjoy cooking - immediate bonus points. Lol5. I like to work around my house and keep things in order and nice. I especially enjoy things like DIY projects and yard work and the satisfaction and pride they bring when I'm done for the day. I think my best asset is my personality. I'm easy going and happy. I have a great sense of humor (dry, sarcastic, twisted at times - not my fault! I worked with a bunch of engineers for years) and I love to have fun. I have always been one to abide by the work hard/play hard adage - so far, so good. I try hard not to let little things bother me. Maybe that comes from the maturity of being in my 40s? Maybe it comes from lessons learned from divorce? I don't know for sure. But I do know life is short - we have to choose to make the best of each and every day! A positive attitude is a must! As far as age? It doesn't really matter to me as long as you don't just sit around and watch tv all day! I like to go and see and do! I suppose what's most important is if we click. That's what I'm looking for. The spark. Could we go on a road trip and get along the whole way there AND back?? And still want to see each other the next day? If you've made it this far and still think "me too!" then you are someone I'm interested in getting to know! So, that was probably too long, but if it sounded interesting to you, get at me (and please have a picture or two so I know you have more than three teeth and your hair isn't longer than mine.) Tell me why you think we'd click. And if we don't click on a dating level - oh well, maybe we'll make a new friend along the way. Two of my best buddies resulted from dates that were great but just didn't have that romantic spark.First dates are usually nerve racking, so let's just call it meeting up for a bit to see if there's that ever elusive spark I mentioned. No movies or loud concerts - my only request. How can you get to know someone if you can't talk and interact!?Ok, your turn. GO!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Chinese Japanese Korean South American Action Adult Sport Ice Hockey
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