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Candelaria, 41

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Hi boys! I'm a hard-working, educated and loyal girl looking for similar qualities in a guy. Is that you? I'm in my early 40s, but think I could pass to be in my 30s. I'm not a gigantic girl, but I have my share of curves. I'm no stick figure or even "average." If that's what you prefer, move on, your loss. At 5'2" - well, I'm short; though I've never really known that to be a deal breaker, right? I have a genuine smile and big pretty blue eyes. I like to look my best (makeup, jewelry, fix my hair, etc***but don't take that to mean "high maintenance."I like to keep busy, though down time once in a while is nice. I've been divorced for more than five years and have no children, nor do I want any. I've got no crazy ex's and I avoid drama like the plague. I hate that crap. I have my head on straight, have goals and priorities in life, and my emotions are in check. I have a positive outlook and still hope to find my someone special. I'm college educated and have worked at the same place for about 18 years. I have a great job that I enjoy. I'm self-sufficient both financially and around my house. Do not read that as I'm rich - I'm not - haha - but neither am I looking for a sugar daddy or handy man to take care of me. I'm looking for a good guy to spend time with and share fun times and experiences. Someone who is loyal and will treat me well and make me feel special. Someone I could take home some day to meet my parents and be proud to introduce to my family. Someone who is looking for those same qualities in a girl. As far as hobbies, I'm a bit of a conundrum so don't do any judging until you meet me. 1. I'm pretty musically involved. I see it as my creative outlet with some really great friends. I love music in general, really. Going to live gigs at local venues is great fun. 2. I have a nice little sport bike. I like to ride. Either on my bike or the back of yours if you are a good rider...lol. 3. I like to tinker in my garage. Mostly cleaning and shining my car/bike or fixing things that went boom at the house. [#2 and #3 do not make me a biker chic or a butch. I just spent a lot of time with my Dad in the garage as a kid and I'm comfy there.] 4. This could be a deal breaker for some of you boys out there....I hate to cook. haha. Sorry! Sooooo, if you DO enjoy cooking - immediate bonus points. Lol5. I like to work around my house and keep things in order and nice. I especially enjoy things like DIY projects and yard work and the satisfaction and pride they bring when I'm done for the day. I think my best asset is my personality. I'm easy going and happy. I have a great sense of humor (dry, sarcastic, twisted at times - not my fault! I worked with a bunch of engineers for years) and I love to have fun. I have always been one to abide by the work hard/play hard adage - so far, so good. I try hard not to let little things bother me. Maybe that comes from the maturity of being in my 40s? Maybe it comes from lessons learned from divorce? I don't know for sure. But I do know life is short - we have to choose to make the best of each and every day! A positive attitude is a must! As far as age? It doesn't really matter to me as long as you don't just sit around and watch tv all day! I like to go and see and do! I suppose what's most important is if we click. That's what I'm looking for. The spark. Could we go on a road trip and get along the whole way there AND back?? And still want to see each other the next day? If you've made it this far and still think "me too!" then you are someone I'm interested in getting to know! So, that was probably too long, but if it sounded interesting to you, get at me (and please have a picture or two so I know you have more than three teeth and your hair isn't longer than mine.) Tell me why you think we'd click. And if we don't click on a dating level - oh well, maybe we'll make a new friend along the way. Two of my best buddies resulted from dates that were great but just didn't have that romantic spark.First dates are usually nerve racking, so let's just call it meeting up for a bit to see if there's that ever elusive spark I mentioned. No movies or loud concerts - my only request. How can you get to know someone if you can't talk and interact!?Ok, your turn. GO!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allissa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well let's give this a shot. I am outgoing and goofy. I can be the life of the party if the chemistry is there or I can kick back and watch the show. I am never bored with life and will try new things. I like a lot of different things and want to try belly dancing.I am in the military but I am a full on girl. i love the outdoors but cant wait to get dressed up and go look great. I speak my mind but I know how to keep the peace.I love to travel and have been know to disappear for a weekend cause I needed to get away, even if its near by. I am a big kid and don't care who knows it but I work hard and play hard. I will listen to about anything but rock is still my fav! I like going to concerts and listening to new bands trying to make it big. Who am I looking for you ask. A athletic guy who likes to get out. Someone who wants to be a part of a team and loves to see the world. That is not limited to travel. Someone who is kind considerate and confident. The chemistry has to be there so lets meet in person. Not into the long texting thing, I like to see if we are attracted to each other. I am so easy going that I figure it just needs to be a place we can chat to get to know one another.

  • Hazel

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    To tell you the truth... I really hate writing these profile's.... Were do i start? Well for 0ne... I'm short... I'm 4"11, but do not let my size fool you. I have been told I have a great sence of humor, not afraid to laugh at myself, "or other's". I'm pretty laid back,I'm not into drama. I'm pretty much just one of the guys, but still very much a women. I have 2 children... A daughter who is grown, and on her own... And a son who is 15, and lives with me. If you count my dog, I have 3 children because he is my baby too. ok somethings I like... I like to read,I love the beach, I like to walk... One thing about me is I am honest... So lets be honest guy's... Looks do count, you have to have a attraction to someone first, and if it is right everything pretty much falls into place. Another thing about me... I rather stay home, order take out, and just cuddle while we are watching a movie. I'm not into bar's or clubbing.. never have been. I love all types of music, not to much into rap thou. Well I think I said enough. If your interested and want to know more drop me a line. I have to let you know... I am really 48 not 43.. but it will not let me change my age on here... Well I'm going to add a little more on here... tired of being single... I'm looking for a man who can be my best friend as well as a lover and a patner... I want a man I can talk to at the end of the day... I want someone I can sit next to and not even talk... but just a look we give each other saids it all.... I want someone who will be by my side thru good and bad times as I will be there for him... someone who is willing to give their all to make things work... because I believe a patnership takes a lot of work..... well if this might be something you like drop me a line... On a first date... I like to keep it simple. I like to meet for coffee or what ever drink you prefer, and talk and find if we show some interest in each other.***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***or is***\\\***suffering from ***\\\---Cancer

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    OK let’s face it, we are all on this site looking for basically the same thing, someone to get to know and enjoy life with. I am a normal All American Girl. I was raised to respect people, say please and thank you and hold doors for people, MEN and women. I am not perfect and I don’t expect my partner to be. I am very much a lady and make sure I always look nice but no way am I high maintenance. I am a very fun and outgoing. I enjoy the simple things in life and enjoy trying new and exciting things. Laughing is very important so I tend to have a witty and sarcastic sense of humor at times. It brings great joy to see those around me laughing and if I am the cause of the laughter that is even better. I like to treat people well and make them feel good. My hobbies are being on the water, fishing, boating,camping, spending time with friends and family, shooting pool, having a brew or two at a local pub, listening to live music and of course Ice Hockey!! I also enjoy being creative, nature, photography, and I LOVE animals. I enjoy all types of music..my ipod has everything from piano music to rap on it. (and I sing to it in the car..lol).. I think being open minded and life's options are endless. So moving on …The man that I feel is perfect for me is:Caucasian Someone to that is down to earth, opened minded goal oriented. Someone that takes care of themselves Someone that is adventurous and is willing to try new things…Someone that is caring…that is comfortable in jeans or sweats…or even a suit when the occasion arises.that is comical and sarcastic…that can think outside the box…that communicates openlysomeone who can take care of things if needed . ex, fix the sink etc.Oh and tattoos are a plus :)So if you think I may be someone you would enjoy spending time with , shoot me an ***’s see if we could have some fun times together and see what develops . Casual for sure!! dinner or drinks and a quiet place to talk and get to know each other would be nice..if things go well... maybe a walk or a game of mini golf afterwards or if you are competative, I may want to challenge you to a game of air hockey...but I am not a sore loser, its all about the fun :)

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