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Kalisha, 45

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About Me

Im here to find the real thing. So tired of the games. First of all I am brutally honest and I always say what I think and some people just can't handle that. Im looking for a man that I have some things in common with because I found out that opposites may attract in the beginning, but it does not work out for me in the long run.I am not looking for a man to take care of me. I am not a lazy person and I like to work although times are tough right now for my son & I, we will be making a comeback, you can bet on that. I don't care to waste my time on someone who is materialistic & only likes someone for what they have. Also not interested in someone just looking to get in my pants. If that's what I wanted I wouldn't need the internet. I need someone who will be a good role model for my son cuz he comes 1st. I am an active person so you must be able to keep up with me to hang with me. Drinking in moderation is okay cuz I like a glass of wine or a couple of beers on occasion, but I just can't be with another alcoholic. Its just not good for me or my son. I grew up in the country & will always be a country girl but I like the city & love the beach. If you like what you see I look forward to hearing from you. My idea of a fun first date would be nothing extravagent.A nice relaxing lunch somewhere quiet.Im a bit of a tomboy but I love romance.I think we should spend the day together to see if we really want to see each other again.If all goes well then maybe dinner & a drink at a good restaurant is the way to top off the day.What do ya think?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lilianna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm Sarcastic and witty. Come on now, this is a date site. If we can’t laugh about being here; we’re kinda screwed. I promise I’m just having fun when I tease you (most of the time ;)I change my profile a lot. I just get bored and ramble. Lol. So here are my current musings:"At that speed, they could run right over my daughter's stereo and not hear it." -Hunt for Red October. That's what this site reminds me of. With so many choices it feels like speed dating. People come and go so quickly(myself included), but the grass isn't always greener on the other side; and it's hard to slow down and get to know people here. When you look harder, you realize that there may be endless profiles but very few people have real chemistry. I’ve learned that there are a lot of really great guys out there. Women whine all the time about the good guys being gone. It’s just not true. But just because there are two really good single people, doesn’t mean that they are right for each other. So, maybe I do believe in soul mates. Nah, that’s hogwash! I definitely believe in chemistry though. “Good” just isn’t good enough. There’s gotta be that spark that can turn into a flame. When there are so many good guys out there, maybe that’s a selfish thought to wait for that spark, IDK, but I’m in no hurry. The heart wants what the heart wants.However, distance is a big deal for me. It's too hard to have a successful relationship when you never get to see each other, and I'm not willing to torture myself like that :( And you've really gotta be able to keep up. Nothin' worse than looking back and thinking, "Now where the heck did he go? Did he get lost, hurt, distracted, give up? Was he trying to check out my butt and fell off his scooter? Do I just keep going or turn around and look for him? It's always such a dilemma." ;)"For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul." ~;Meet" from a first "Date," please.Dates should be nice and thoughtful, but Meets almost always suck. There's nothing worse than getting stuck at on a romantic carriage ride with someone you detest. You’ll run into someone you know. A picture gets *** meetville on *** learn that he’s really your ex sister-in-laws boss. Then BAM! A friend request and relationship status update permission request.No thanks. I’ll take my coffee with extra milk please. ;)

  • Quilla

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    "HI"... I'm a fun loving boisterous person who loves to live life, well most days! I CRAVE companionship, intimacy and am looking for a man who appreciates and cherishes a good woman and can recognize a keeper when he finds one, for I am a treasure worth pursuing and deserve to be treated as a PRIORITY not just an option out of thousands!!! I like to laugh and sing for its good for the soul, just as music soothes the mind... I am a free spirited, opinionated, forward, honest, caring, giving, fun loving person looking for a strong, caring, settled man who knows how to have fun and enjoys what life has to give. Im looking for my knight in shining armor... A friend a lover a confidant who likes me for who i am and is honest. I like to PLEASE and be PLEASED and am looking for a consistent man who loves life as much as I do ! I like listening to music and comedy, talking, camping, road trips, bonfires, being on the back of a bike or out on the water in a boat... Are you him? Are you out there? Message me or lets chat online and find out! I'm waiting for YOU! There is someone out there for everyone! Hmmmmmm???? I think it would seem in ***the word date is presumptuous and has new meaning unfortunately so first date will be decided amongst you and I at a later time... Dont you agree?

  • Priscila

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hopefully you'll find some humor in some of what I've written, if not...oops! They say honesty is the best policy---here it is!I am just your normal, average woman. I have moods, emotions and feelings. I'm very compassionate and understanding...I think that has something to do with the overdose of bad luck and hardships I have fallen on the past few years. I am not materialistic at all but that doesn't mean I don't like nice things, I just don't demand them nor do I pout when I don't get them. I have 2 older sons and A LOT of time on my hands so I would really like someone who has more than a few hours a week to squeeze me into their schedule. I'm not into the part-time thing, to me, that's just a waste of time.I'M IN NO RUSH. If it doesn't feel right on BOTH sides then it's not worth wasting each other's time. (NOT negotiable. No, I'm not kidding and yes, I have more than a few very good reason for wanting someone local. My zip code is ***, please look it up if you're not sure how far you are from me).Is close to my age ( I generally like guys who are younger...IDK why that is but it just is).Is 5'10' or taller~I don't want to be taller than you if i'm wearing heels (Due to an ankle injury, I very rarely wear heels so, yes, this IS negotiable)Doesn't do drugs (of any kind-they're totally unacceptable to me)Doesn't smoke or only smokes occasionally like when he has a few drinks (I quit less than a year ago so it's still hard for me to be around cigarettes.)Has some type of a job and can pay his own bills (I'm too poor to support you. Don't worry, I don't expect you to support me).Isn't hung up on his crazy x girlfriend Likes to go out and do something...anything!Wants a serious relationshipIsn't afraid of communicationIsn't a douche!I can be very sarcastic and I swear quite a bit so if my sick sense of humor and 'potty' mouth is going to offend you then we might have a problem getting along. I do, however, know how to 'behave' myself in public, meaning that I am not loud, aggressive or obnoxious in any way. Yes, I do smile and I have all my teeth and they're not busted up in any way. I just really dislike having my picture taken whether it be by me or someone else so what's here is what I have, PLEASE don't ask for more. Besides, I can't tell you how many people post fake pictures, old pictures, blurry pictures or pictures with sunglasses on and look nothing like you thought they'd look. While sex is an important part of a relationship, meeting a few to several times casually does NOT constitute a relationship! I am not here for sex, I can go to my local bar and get that any time I want if that was what I was into-which I am not.I ruined my ankle a couple of years ago which means I can't run, jump, hop, skip, jog, dance, wrestle, sky dive, ski, skate, snow tube (not that I did these things before but I just wanted you to be aware that I do have limitations)...ah screw it, I can't do sh*t and it sucks but it is what it is. I can, however, walk and I can do it just fine! No, I don't limp and no, I don't use a cane or furniture to help me get around :-)~ I'm not into the whole 'first date' thing. I'd prefer to meet and hang out somewhere comfortable and casual (Dunkin Donuts, the mall, the library, (huh?) etc) where we can just talk and get to know each other with no pressure.

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