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Kalisha, 45

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About Me

Im here to find the real thing. So tired of the games. First of all I am brutally honest and I always say what I think and some people just can't handle that. Im looking for a man that I have some things in common with because I found out that opposites may attract in the beginning, but it does not work out for me in the long run.I am not looking for a man to take care of me. I am not a lazy person and I like to work although times are tough right now for my son & I, we will be making a comeback, you can bet on that. I don't care to waste my time on someone who is materialistic & only likes someone for what they have. Also not interested in someone just looking to get in my pants. If that's what I wanted I wouldn't need the internet. I need someone who will be a good role model for my son cuz he comes 1st. I am an active person so you must be able to keep up with me to hang with me. Drinking in moderation is okay cuz I like a glass of wine or a couple of beers on occasion, but I just can't be with another alcoholic. Its just not good for me or my son. I grew up in the country & will always be a country girl but I like the city & love the beach. If you like what you see I look forward to hearing from you. My idea of a fun first date would be nothing extravagent.A nice relaxing lunch somewhere quiet.Im a bit of a tomboy but I love romance.I think we should spend the day together to see if we really want to see each other again.If all goes well then maybe dinner & a drink at a good restaurant is the way to top off the day.What do ya think?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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