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Janita, 43
United States, Pennsylvania, Hanover

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I am looking for a gentleman. I'm looking for financial stability, great looks, fun personality, honesty, charming, funny...etc. . ...etc. . .. Probably no one under the age of 35. I am serious about the things I say, so if you are not these things, please don't ***, I'm not willing to settle.About me: I'm 40, single white female. Everyone tells me I look no more than 34. I have pretty pale skin, green eyes, longer hair blonde. I don't know how to describe my body. I have like an athletic firm build, not skinny, not fat, but voluptuous. Maybe small bbw, maybe. I'm short, have large breasts and a nice bottom side. I am a serious woman during the day with a good career. I have the car and apartment, etc., I have always worked. I am also fun in the bedroom and have a "party" side. I don't party all the time but when I do, I guess you can say, I do it right (drinking only, socially). I'm a normal fun woman.I can cook, I can sew some, pretty knowledgeable in general, have a good head on my shoulders and really good morals. Kids are grown. Basically, I'm a lot of things, sensitive, smart, honest, passionate, good God loving woman, faithful, but also I need some excitement. I can be direct and to the point, want my way and will be sarcastic, but also sweet as hell and would do anything for anyone, I have a very soft heart. I do all the female things like, cry, be happy, get mad....have my moments. . ...but I usually have an optimistic outlook on things. I do smoke cigarettes.I need and am looking for someone to be my friend, companion, lover, partner, fun seeker. Take me places, see things, do things, enjoy life, now that I'm getting older. I really want a great man, who doesn't cheat, isn't addicted to alcohol (drinking is fine), addicted to porn, gambling habit, can't keep eyes off other women....lie, married or engaged, just want sex, you get it. NO small children (like under 17). Good hygene is a must, love a man that smells good. Lover of animals. Handsome....I do like some younger guys (if they are mature and can buy dinner :, no small kids) and also men with salt and pepper hair. I like strong hands and rugged facial hair, but I'm open to anyone that can be a great partner. Race not as important as the qualities I have mentioned.I want a partner in life with love and all that goes with it. Please also dont be a workaholic. I want someone who can spend time with me, not just see me once a week. If you are not ready for a serious long term relationship, please dont reply. Up for about anything in public

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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  • Blossom from Hanover | Woman | 41 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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