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Adella, 44
United States, Pennsylvania, Gettysburg

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About Me

Hi! I have two teenage kids (one still at home and one in the Army), a good career and great friends. I own a big goofy dog who behaves badly and a b*tchy cat that hates us all. I think about the times in my life that I've felt completely connected and in love and I miss it. There's something comforting about knowing someone has your back and I miss having someone to come home to. Plus, I need someone to run the grill and lift heavy sh*t. I'd prefer to date someone who lives fairly close. And while we're on the subject of what I prefer.... I'm not interested in black men and usually date younger guys. And without getting into any debates, I am not ***friendly. To each his own, but I don't want it in my life. I'm pretty much out of the party scene these days. I still enjoy catching local music or going out for a few drinks, but it's doubtful you're going to find me crawling in at 6 am anymore. I got it out of my system and am content only reliving it through "remember that time we..." stories. I'm realistic about relationships and don't expect the elusive "knight in shining armor" to come sweep me off of my feet. Who wants to be kidnapped by a guy clad in metal anyway? I keep a loaded .38 in the house to prevent things like that from happening. I'm looking for a normal guy for a lasting partnership based on mutual attraction, honesty and support of each other. God willing, we're all going to get old, wrinkly and start wearing pants with elastic waistbands. I'm hoping that the one I'm with by that point can still make me laugh so hard that I wet my Depends a little. One last thing... I recently got braces and have a long way to go, so if this bothers you, check back in early ***. Since everyone seems to be off walking the beach for their first date, the restaurants around here should be pretty empty. Let's grab a burger and a beer, maybe some nachos and a margarita. See how easy that was?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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