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To my stalking exes...Yup...I HAVE moved on, no problems, here. Now, maybe you should try it...a dating site is just a LAME way to talk to me after we have broken up....Just sayin'. ;) PLUS, the fact that I have to see you again make me vominous....First thing you should know is I'm NOT into the one night stands or flings...if that is what you're looking for...here is where you make your grand EXIT. I'm looking for REAL...not for RIGHT NOW. I've found this site to be pretty damn full of right now's...and sorry, I'm not interested. If you are looking for more, feel free to read on....It's hard to be yourself and be able to put out here what you know as truth. Too many people want things sugar coated...and I tell them to get a donut. Anyway, I have three children - they are my everything...BUT being in relationships with people that ALSO have children (that foget you exist when they are with them), I will treat you just as well as my children. I don't have the time for the drama of 'my kids come first'. Right - they should, and at times they will...but my partner also comes first...and deserves my time equally. For those that don't believe this - I'm probably not one for you. I don't believe children should 'run your life'. Be part of it, yes - run it, no. The more I look at people's relationships about 'my kids are my world and the best thing that have ever happened to me and life has to revolve around them...' the more I wanna puke. That is SO NOT FAIR to someone that is trying to be part of your life....Love to camp, fish, ride dirt bikes and four-wheelers, go boating, go for rides to the mountains and sip on a beer, fires in the backyard with the family...a pretty simple girl, that many find complicated.Anyway, I've had to 'change' my profile because so many read something, and take it for words rather than actually knowing what I'm meaning. I WILL tell you I"m a 'no bullshit' kinda girl...if I want you to know something, you will know it...good, bad, indifferent. I also think communication is key - don't discount my feelings - I won't yours.Looking forward to good friends...and to see where it goes from there! By the way...if you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Not that I'm shallow; however, there are weirdos out there...and I'd like to see who I'm chatting with. Thanks! First dates are tricky.... Meeting and seeing if there is a spark is the best way to go about a first date.Give me a bonfire, mountains, and pickup truck...and you have already given me a little bit of heaven. ;)The perfect song that would describe my PERFECT date....;That's My Kinda Night"...not the first couple - but, ya know... ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Glady

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am not looking for anyone extraordinary...I mean you don't have to be ";, ";,"Chris Meloni";Joe Mantenga", but I would like someone who is stable, funny, laid back, respectful, and professional when need be. I have been out of high school for a very long time and just don't want to play relationship games any longer.I love going to movies, dinner, listening to live bands, cultural events, museums, and wine tasting. Sometimes I get a little "Cabin Fever" and just want to go for a long drive, so I like a little sponteniety in my life.I love to write poetry and have had several published works. I do have an artsy side and have a love for things that are obscure. I enjoy different cultures, religions, and cultural foods (especially Indian and Thai), although I am a vegetarian/pescetarian, I do not care if people around me are carnivores! :) I enjoy candles, incense, new age music, low lighting to relax.As far as music interests, I love to have music on all the time. I believe music is the lifeline to the soul! I love anything with a good beat. I do favor music of the 60's (i.e. I find some music from the 80's is just plain fun (i.e., Culture Club, Duran Duran, Billy Idol). For the most part I like rock-n- I think a first date should be low-key. It would be nice to have a drink or two in a lounge with great atmosphere and great conversation. Often I find myself doing all the talking. :)

  • Laine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Can we have fun without playing games? Maybe, but what's wrong with games... I'm a competitive person. The right game can be a lot of fun. I'm not into dating more than one guy at a time but you do have to meet to find someone you click with right? So don't think we need to go through our entire life story before we meet. If you like my basic profile and my pics ask me to check out yours, exchange numbers and lets meet. Nothing ventured nothing gained. I'm a pretty great catch so please consider yourself the same before you *** for checking out my profile. :) A glass of wine somewhere we can hear each other talk.

  • Brandy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    “If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy….Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. ~ Bob Marley“ I want to be light and frolicsome. I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing, as if I had wings” ~ Mary OliverChange is a part of the flow of life. Sometimes we're frustrated because change seems slow in coming. Sometimes, too, we're resistant to a change that seems to have been thrust upon us. We must remember that change, in and of itself, neither binds us nor frees us. Only our attitude toward change binds or frees us..~Anonymous“She stood in the storm and when the winds did not blow her away – she adjusted her sails ~“ I must be a mermaid: I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living… ~ Anais Nin~If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.. ~ Anonymous~People will forget what you said, People will forget what you did, But they will never forget how you made them feel..~Maya Angelou~She's Mad but She's Magic...There's no Lie in her FIre...~Charles Bukowski~ Tell me what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? ~..

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