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To my stalking exes...Yup...I HAVE moved on, no problems, here. Now, maybe you should try it...a dating site is just a LAME way to talk to me after we have broken up....Just sayin'. ;) PLUS, the fact that I have to see you again make me vominous....First thing you should know is I'm NOT into the one night stands or flings...if that is what you're looking for...here is where you make your grand EXIT. I'm looking for REAL...not for RIGHT NOW. I've found this site to be pretty damn full of right now's...and sorry, I'm not interested. If you are looking for more, feel free to read on....It's hard to be yourself and be able to put out here what you know as truth. Too many people want things sugar coated...and I tell them to get a donut. Anyway, I have three children - they are my everything...BUT being in relationships with people that ALSO have children (that foget you exist when they are with them), I will treat you just as well as my children. I don't have the time for the drama of 'my kids come first'. Right - they should, and at times they will...but my partner also comes first...and deserves my time equally. For those that don't believe this - I'm probably not one for you. I don't believe children should 'run your life'. Be part of it, yes - run it, no. The more I look at people's relationships about 'my kids are my world and the best thing that have ever happened to me and life has to revolve around them...' the more I wanna puke. That is SO NOT FAIR to someone that is trying to be part of your life....Love to camp, fish, ride dirt bikes and four-wheelers, go boating, go for rides to the mountains and sip on a beer, fires in the backyard with the family...a pretty simple girl, that many find complicated.Anyway, I've had to 'change' my profile because so many read something, and take it for words rather than actually knowing what I'm meaning. I WILL tell you I"m a 'no bullshit' kinda girl...if I want you to know something, you will know it...good, bad, indifferent. I also think communication is key - don't discount my feelings - I won't yours.Looking forward to good friends...and to see where it goes from there! By the way...if you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Not that I'm shallow; however, there are weirdos out there...and I'd like to see who I'm chatting with. Thanks! First dates are tricky.... Meeting and seeing if there is a spark is the best way to go about a first date.Give me a bonfire, mountains, and pickup truck...and you have already given me a little bit of heaven. ;)The perfect song that would describe my PERFECT date....;That's My Kinda Night"...not the first couple - but, ya know... ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Trang

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I absolutely believe in my headline.... Happiness is a choice, and to me, the glass is always half full, and seeing that my cup overfloweth.... refill please, and make it Merlot!;Native"! You will not hear me complaining of the ***degree weather here.... We have pools, lakes and rivers to cool us off with amazingly beautiful scenery!Some fun facts about yours truly....I love outdoor festivals!I will always choose draft beer over bottled....I hate sushi, (in fact... I am not a fan of any type of seafood... at all...) Yuck..... just Sayin..... I really wish that was different......I adore a great steak ..... medium rare of course!I love music, it makes me deliriously happy! My absolute favorites are Old School and Motown!!! Although I love all music from Today's Hits to Country .... as long as it is not yelling at me!I love to dance, and have no problem being the first person on the dance floor! I am a Christian, love God, and go to church almost every Sunday, and I look forward to it! Its not about religion, its all about relationship! This is where it gets deep, with that being said I absolutely want someone who is strong in their relationship with God as well, the person that I end up with will be the spiritual leader of the family so that is why it is important to me to be on the same page on this issue, I'm pretty sure I just lost 97% of you right here, but thats alright.....I make probably the most amazing banana bread you have ever had..... I have the most incredible people that surround me , I know a lot of people, but am blessed to have the handful of peeps that I call friends, and they are the best of the best!I am a single Mom to an amazingly funny and smart 8 year old boy!I love live music! My lil man and I are roller coaster junkies!!! The bigger the drop the better! We have finally hit the '54 inch rule on roller coasters!!! Whoop!!I love to singSeeing as I am wearing my hair short these days... I can go from shower to done in less than 20 minutes.including being dressed and makeup on.... yes, a skill I am proud of!!! I love to laugh and am social by nature, I enjoy meeting new people and seeing what makes them tick. I'm looking to find a super great guy that has some, actually most....of the qualities that I find important, and I am not looking for anything that I can not offer in return! I want someone that is comfortable, who is witty and charming. Please be financially stable, and not live beyond your means, know how to have fun... life is short! Be God fearing, and have high regard for family and friends. Have a moral compass, and be kind to others. Of course there has to be that attraction between us, this is why we have pictures up on our profile. I'm absolutely not looking for perfect, because I can't offer perfect, but I do hope to find perfect for me! Best of luck in your search for "the one!"

  • Alita

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Im confused as to why people lie especially when its about stupid or obvious things. Do they not know a lie ALWAYS comes back to bite them. Hobbies include working out. Belong to golds gym. I think a gym is a place to work out not to go socialize. When i go to the gym its either right after i fall out of bed in the morning or after spending 10 hours a day on my feet at work. Its not always something i want to do but after i push myself to do it i feel good.workinghikingFishingHunting (yeah i bow hunt)Love going to baseball games - CubsShopping - love shoesReading....fiction and non fiction crimes.....no romance novels (lets be realistic)Totally addicted to stupid television programs...right now im watching "ice loves coco" first step is admitting it I KNOWComedy showsI have lived here for almost 3 years.Very down to earth gal. Love to laugh. HATE drama...kind of unavoidable with women (damn females)Laughter really is the best medicineI have an odd sense of humor, I laugh at almost anything. I'm the goofy gal you pull up next to on the freeway or a stop light that's singing. Really loud along with whatever's coming thru the speakers. I have had people roll their windows up if mine are down. So im thinking I probably dont sound really good, but then again thats why I have the volume up so high I cant even hear myself. I am looking for that person that I can sit on the couch with........

  • Charlsie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    SOME THINGS ABOUT ME: In search of someone who knows what they want in a partner. I would love to be your biggest cheerleader. I'm not interested in most guys. I think that makes the guys I do connect with that much more unique. I have a soft spot for animals and consider my pup Renzo a true companion. I try not to sweat the "small stuff"..and most everything is small stuff. I love my job in education and I love children. You can assume that I enjoy the outdoors and particularly kayaking and mtn. biking. AND NOW FOR YOU: You value differences among people yet are not afraid of standing up for what you believe in.You are not perfect; just perfect for me. You are not easily offended and have a great sense of humor. You are calm under pressure and I can rely on you to lighten up a stressful situation. Some of your other qualities may include but are not limited to: being able to laugh at yourself; not taking life too seriously, integrity, compassion for others, and loving dogs:)I welcome someone who does have children and takes pride in being the best dad they can be. I also welcome someone who has been previously married. To me this signifies your life has not been perfect. The rest is negotiable. Meet up over coffee or drinks?

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