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Iesha, 40
United States, Pennsylvania, Coatesville

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About Me

Also, I'm not on here much so I'm not looking for pen pals. If you are the type that likes to go on for weeks *** and forth, without ever getting to talking on the phone or meeting in person, I'll drop off on you -- yes that happens all the time. If I'm not responding, that's why, you didn't move quick enough and I lost interest :) I need to know there's a real person behind that *** chemistry before I invest the time in more meaningful conversation. So let's get off this computer and go on some adventures!! :) Now that, that's out of the way.... OMG the reading.... is this a novel? I'm looking for the one who will kiss me on the forehead and knows how lucky he is to have me in his life. I have four children; Yes, I know, I see and understand your horrific vision as the sweat runs down your brow... before you picture walking in to pick me up for a date and having a tonka truck thrown at you -- except for my youngest who is 12, they are wonderful teenagers :) who are independent and want to see their mom happy and dating. It's a plus if you like to play xbox but if not, they will try to pull you into the world of gaming anyway lol. But seriously, I am not looking for someone to take responsibility of my children. If you can be a friend and an excellent role model, that will make me happy.I love to travel and see new places. When I envision the type of man I would like to date, the type of qualities that I enjoy are grounded qualities: Highly Successful/Secure - It's very important to me to have a man I can admire, look up to and respect for his drive, motivations and accomplishments and can be amazed by his hard work and perseverance. Loyal - It's self explanatory and a two way street - I think one of the greatest gifts a woman can give a man is loyalty. Communicative - The ability to communicate and when needed, compromise - this is very important to me. I'm not one to engage in screaming matches or wars of mean and hurtful verbal regrets. I want a man that can talk to me and is a problem solver. Friendship, consideration and honesty are important to me.Confidence - I find it to be an attractive trait. It seems to me, men who are more confident with themselves are more genuine,real and better communicators, which is refreshing and fun to be around. Attractive - I'm very young looking for my age so naturally I am attracted to men who have a youthful and in shape look, oh, and I love a head of hair. I'm not superficial, I'm honest and attraction is a key element to any dating situation. Fun - I enjoy a man who wants to try new things even if its taking him a little out of his comfort zone. Spiritual - I believe there is more beyond our limitations here on earth. I am looking for someone who shares those beliefs and finds that spiritual health is just as important as physical and emotional health.Playfulness, smiling, laughing... its a must :) Allows me to let him be a man and myself to be a woman. The one thing I absolutely love about men... you really do like to make women happy. 95% of the time, if we just tell you what we want, and its within your means, you'll deliver. So, props to the fellas and with that said.... I like to initially meet for coffee or a glass of wine to see if we might be a good fit before going on an official date :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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