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Xena, 38

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About Me

Im an openminded,outgoing,outspoken what u see is what u get kinda girl. I have a strong personality and I want a strong MAN by my side. I enjoy goin out for the night..dinner ,drinks and music but I also enjoy home time with a good movie and just relaxing. Always open to new ideas and experiences.Please Do Not Contact me if you don not have a picture and if ur under the age of 36. Thanks My idea would be coffee or a drink,. but am open to your ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Avianna

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I like 2 stay active & try new things. My current hobby is rowing. I love it!!! I have 1 daughter that is a teenager. I figure that since she is getting older & has more of a social life thn I do, that it's time I get out there & have fun!Some other things about me.... I do a lot of volunteering for different groups. I am very active in my church. I am part of the parish council, the fundraising council and the alumni event council. I have done random things for Salvation Army such as during the Christmas season I go to the warehouse and help box up Christmas gifts for different events going on in the community. I usually don't attend a Thanksgiving dinner with my own family. I help a church that feeds the homeless. I think helping and volunteering my time is a great way of giving back. I haven't been on a first date in a while. I usually just hang out with friends to have fun. A great date idea would be to do something or go somewhere neither one of us have ever been. A place to get a drink, a different hiking trail neither of us has seen, a new place to eat. =)

  • Cameron

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am 38 years old with 2 children and 1 grandchild that do not live with me. Since I am relatively new to the area, I am looking to meet some new people. I am non-judgemental and open minded with no particular "type". If you can make me laugh (which is quite easy to do - I laugh at myself often!!!!) we will get along just fine. I am a homebody (some of the best times I've had lately was just sitting around my house with my roommate and his girlfriend talking and laughing so hard my spleen may be permanently damaged!) but do like to go out and blow off some steam. I prefer to date smokers but if you don't mind me smoking, that'll work too!!! To me, a good time is going out for dinner and maybe a drink or two... a movie, bowling, shooting pool (even though I suck at it!). If you enjoy the person you are with, a good time can be found doing just about anything. I have gotten the art of sarcasm down to a science and you will never know what may come out of my mouth....I have even shocked myself at times and wanted to put myself in the corner for a time-out! But I can take what I dish out so bring it on!I am a waitress by profession and work very odd hours and I am very dedicated to my job....I know how to take care of myself and don't expect anyone to do it for me! Must respect my work ethic and be willing to work around my schedule.All in all, me and the voices in my head and all my personalities agree that I am pretty freaking awesome...just your average, ordinary supermodel grandma with a sparkling personality, amazing wit, incredible sense of humor and kind heart!Now here's the challenge (if you've made it this far in reading my profile...) if you have paid attention to my tagline and know what snaughling is and can make me do it...you earn MAJOR brownie points! Dinner, drinks, lots of laughter!

  • Shebah

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    The Bait - a divorced single mother with three sons (almost 17, 15 and 12). What a catch huh? What you get - A woman who know's her own mind, can be funny, sarcastic, loving, loyal, spontaneous, unusual in my own way, (and I'm human so I do have faults.) Most importantly, I'm always honest and expect the same from pretty much everyone who want's to be around me. Some days I just want to cuddle, others I just want to be left alone. I'm 36 years old. I've loved and been loved, hurt and been hurt. I'm tired of the games people play and quite simply just want to be with someone who "gets" me. Someone who can do his own thing and leave me be when I just want to sit and curl up with a good book. I'd like someone who likes to take long walks, but is also content to sit in front of a campfire on a warm summer's night. I'd like someone who is similar to me in that we can enjoy the same things, but It would be nice if he had his own thing to do once in awhile and maybe a thing or two to introduce me to.- Every kind of music has it's own mood, and the mood I'm in determines the music genre playing on my radio. I have my preferences ***'s, top 40's, some mild (mild?) rap, rock, and lately some hard rock... Ok,sometimes I really enjoy some country, too but not too often. Classical on a rare occasion... I'm not overly fond of jazz. Yeah, I don't like jazz. I like puzzles. As in putting little pieces together to form a pretty picture kind of puzzle. Simple ones. ***pc) That way I can turn on some relevant to my mood music, sing along (off pitch and barely on melody) and sometimes just mindlessly put the little pieces together, reflecting on my day, the past, my sons, or perhaps the future and what it may bring. Join me sometime - the conversations could be endless, enlightening and entertaining or just plain silly. I love laughing until I cry. Sometimes I snort. I'm a girly girl like that, you know. (sarcasm!!!)I'm not interested in being around anyone who does any kind of drugs, even if it's "only once in a while." Drugs are not my thing and if you want to be around me, even as a friend, please respect that ok? Best way to impress me? Keep it simple and real. I don't care if you fly a jet plane, drive a beater car or chose to walk - what's important is the way you treat me (including strangers on the street) and the respect and devotion you show me will be returned tenfold.***updateI decided to update this for a few reasons, but primarily because I felt I needed to add a few things to my profile. If It appears I don't answer you back right away, just give it a bit. There are times I send messages from my phone but they don't post - it's something I've just recently noticed. Give me time to get back to you ok?One very important thing a person needs to know about me is that i rarely if ever make the first move... or the second or third. It's just me. If you are interested and would like to continue to date or get to know me, you are going to have to let me know by deed or word or "action." If i'm interested, I will let you know. On a walk - if I say that couple looks cute walking hand in hand... maybe that's your first hint that I'd like for you to ask to take my hand, or for you to just do it. Also - I'm short and have short legs! if you are over 6 feet tall and are walking ahead of me to the point that I have to nearly jog to keep up... yeah, not really a good indication that you are interested and I will react accordingly. I've been called stand-offish.... I don't mean to be. But if it's something you notice, perhaps trying to draw me out or make me laugh. It's likely that I'm unsure how your feeling or what you are thinking and I draw within myself unknowingly. Draw me out! There is a whole lot going on inside that the right guy will be able to bring out of me. I'm a very loving, forgiving, optimistic person that has a whole lot to give to the right guy who can figure me out.- the guy who figures me out, or "get's me" will likely capture my heart.I could rattle off ***things about me, my life or the reasons I'm where I'm at today both physically and emotionally, but everyone has a story to tell. I'd like to know your story, and I'd hope that the right guy would want to know mine. Knowledge is a very powerful thing, but without knowledge or understanding - there is nothing. Update ***I'm rarely on here, and I haven't been for months. Yeah, I dated a bit but I'm still on here. Figured I'd stick around for awhile and just see how things go. Interested? Message me, but I probably wont answer if all you have to say is less than a sentence, you just seem to want to hook up, or if your profile is written like something my 8 year old nephew would write. Okay, thank you and have a great day/week/month... you get the idea.Right now - I'm looking forward to November and all the wonderful things the month brings. I refer to deer hunting. I have a gun and intend to use it! And a license. Licenses for hunting are required. Oh yeah! Can't forget Thanksgiving! I love mashed potato's and gravy and stuffing and turkey.... my mouth is watering! So, as of right now, I'm (obviously) single and interested in getting to know someone. I've no intentions of jumping into something right away, and quite honestly, shy away from relationships that seem to move too fast. If you tell me you love me after 4 weeks (after we've actually met in person and gone on a few dates) don't be surprised if I run away. That's freaky fast to me. If you are looking to move in with your next girlfriend next month, or the week after that, please move on. Oh! and my hair is back to the natural dark blonde. I will try to get another photo posted here soon since the one from May is getting a bit outdated now.That is all. For now.

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