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Claretha, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Sand Springs

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About Me

I really enjoy meeting new people and have already made a couple of new friends. Adult dating is an experience that I approach with humor and a sense of fun. If you can't laugh now, when can you?I'm fairly outgoing, enjoy flirty banter and am both intelligent and ridiculously hard-working. I have a wicked sense of humor and love to laugh at life and myself, since I often take both too seriously. I enjoy a man that is confident and assertive, comfortable in his own life and with some of his own interests. Ten random things about me:1. I'm not into guns and I don't eat meat. You can eat meat and I am fine with that. Really. My choice and not yours. I won't shoot things with you unless it's tequila. Then, I might win. 2. I like Jeeps, boats and motorcycles, but they don't make my clothes fall off. Really. 2.1 I like all music, but lately I have a crazy thing for James Blunt and Warrant. Don't judge. 3. I love to go toe-to-toe, but I'm not about keeping score, unless we're playing scrabble. Really. I take board games very seriously and so should you. If you're a score-keeper in life, then you won't like my flavor of ice cream.4. I like spicy food. Don't give me grief about tasting the flavors. Everything is better with hot sauce. No, you don't have to love spicy... but it will probably help. If salt and pepper are spicy to you, then anything that I cook just might kill you.5. Yes, I am separated. A forest fire delayed my divorce. It is still moving forward, just a little slower because life happens. Ask. I'll tell you. 6. If all you like is sports, you'll probably hate me. 7. I recently started a crazy new workout. I might limp and whine a bit for a while. ;-)8. I sing in the car. Loudly and badly, but with great enthusiasm. My kid says that I sound great, but I'm pretty sure that he's tone deaf. 10. Dogs are better than people some days. 11. Just checking to see if you're paying attention. :-) Really, I can count. And, spell. And, I can properly use your, you're, their, they're and there. Texting shortcuts are fine, but real words used in real sentences matter to me.So, if any if this resonates with you, then drop me a line. If not, thanks for stopping by and happy fishing. :-) After a chat or two and a phone call or two, I think that I'd be happy to start with coffee or a drink and some conversation, in a well-let place with clearly labelled emergency exits (just in case either of us needs to make a quick dash). I believe that real people meet in the real world.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap French Vietnamese Action Martial Arts Dirt Bike Racing
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