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Charmain, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Sand Springs

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Wanted: someone who is FUN and can make me laugh and smile!!Someone who is charming, appreciates movies and music and love dogs and doesn't mind them sleeping on the bed! Appreciative of the arts and maybe even likes shopping. Likes to hang out with friends and entertain others.I am tired of feeling like a caretaker in a relationship. I want to be with someone who can be strong on their own as well as with someone. I am strong and independent and want to see that in a partner as well. I want to feel like together we can take on the world! I want to find someone who is a good listener, thoughtful and unselfish. Someone who is well educated and intelligent. You should have a love of movies, music, being social, going out to dinner, shopping, German cars, German dogs (Boxers) and German beer (these last 3 aren’t a must but a bonus! ) You should be a little on the creative side not necessarily "artsy". You should have a love for nice clothing and nice things and likes to take care of yourself, whether it be through exercise, what you eat or even how your treat your body.I work in the Corporate Banking Industry and love my job but am still a very creative person. Love going out but also like romantic evenings at home. More of a liberal thinker. I am a vegetarian but do not need to be with someone who is as well. I enjoy running whether it is the early peaceful hours of the morning outside in the summer or on the treadmill in the winter. I can very passionate about my interests and would like to share that with someone.I feel that I have a lot to offer someone and am a great person. I love to listen and would give someone my all in a relationship. I believe that being a considerate and attentive partner is key to a successful relationshipI am just a fun, trendy girl who still likes to have a nice scotch on the rocks every once in a while!**please do not contact me if you are big in to motorcycles, hunting,camping and fishing. It would never work. An do not waste my time sending me messages that just say "hi" , I will not respond. Drinks, coffee, art museum, live music. Somewhere where conversation is a must.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Canadian French Irish Comedy
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