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Charmain, 40

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Wanted: someone who is FUN and can make me laugh and smile!!Someone who is charming, appreciates movies and music and love dogs and doesn't mind them sleeping on the bed! Appreciative of the arts and maybe even likes shopping. Likes to hang out with friends and entertain others.I am tired of feeling like a caretaker in a relationship. I want to be with someone who can be strong on their own as well as with someone. I am strong and independent and want to see that in a partner as well. I want to feel like together we can take on the world! I want to find someone who is a good listener, thoughtful and unselfish. Someone who is well educated and intelligent. You should have a love of movies, music, being social, going out to dinner, shopping, German cars, German dogs (Boxers) and German beer (these last 3 aren’t a must but a bonus! ) You should be a little on the creative side not necessarily "artsy". You should have a love for nice clothing and nice things and likes to take care of yourself, whether it be through exercise, what you eat or even how your treat your body.I work in the Corporate Banking Industry and love my job but am still a very creative person. Love going out but also like romantic evenings at home. More of a liberal thinker. I am a vegetarian but do not need to be with someone who is as well. I enjoy running whether it is the early peaceful hours of the morning outside in the summer or on the treadmill in the winter. I can very passionate about my interests and would like to share that with someone.I feel that I have a lot to offer someone and am a great person. I love to listen and would give someone my all in a relationship. I believe that being a considerate and attentive partner is key to a successful relationshipI am just a fun, trendy girl who still likes to have a nice scotch on the rocks every once in a while!**please do not contact me if you are big in to motorcycles, hunting,camping and fishing. It would never work. An do not waste my time sending me messages that just say "hi" , I will not respond. Drinks, coffee, art museum, live music. Somewhere where conversation is a must.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fairuza

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    " To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not, rich; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently, await occasions, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common--this is my symphony." *** (for the most beautiful interpretation of the Chopin!)*********************************************************************************************************************************************************************Hello, I am a happy, energetic, intelligent woman who's passionate about living. I look regularly into the mirror and ask myself if I am doing a good job as a human being. I continuously seek to improve myself - physically, mentally. emotionally and spiritually. Do you? It matters. Your attractiveness might make me feel chemistry for you; but your intelligence, personality & character will make me want to stay near you. Let's not message forever before meeting! I don't do mobile and simply can't be strapped always to my computer, nor want to. This site is an emotional vacume...let's see blinking, breathing, smiling, mannerisms, hear one another's voices! A week or a bit longer before meeting/phoning - tops, unless extenuating circumstances... :)The arts are my line of work, and I am indeed an artist at heart - but I've a scientist's mind and an intellectual's soul. Proud? Yes. But obnoxiousness or mean-spiritedness is not a part of me. I work as part of a close-knit community, surrounded by people who inspire me daily. My multi-faceted background has me working in several different creative capacities, and I work hard at my career. Each day, week and month is not quite the same! I love that about what I do. There is a certain amount of cross-over between my work and social life and sometimes my schedule gets hectic, but it always soon settles down. :)I strongly value my private life - my relationships among family and close friends - and above all, making time for a partner...so long as he is making me an equal priority once a relationship is established. I love conversation, among other forms of sharing, in a relationship. So you should be intellectually inclined. And you MUST be able to laugh with me! I enjoy bantering at times with someone who's like-minded. It's either there between two people or it's not, it can't be forced. It's a way of connecting...a means of showing fondness...it can be a verbal foreplay, too ;) So a fellow who can tolerate, if not outright appreciate, my silly antics would be ideal :) I believe that life is a combination of the choices that we make AND the intuitions that can guide us in making them. I see my own life as a reflection of this. I enjoy the independence of living in my sweet little place in the heart of downtown. However, nature/the outdoors is in my soul, and I usually escape the city on a weekly basis - to the ocean, a lake or a beautiful forest. Horses and riding are a passion of mine. I like to keep active all year round. I'm a significant foodie and love trying all different types of exotic cuisine, the spicier the better, especially when paired with a good wine :) Red,please. Cooking just for one gets tiresome though, doesn't it?Did someone say "travel"?- I have a kooky streak, with a dash of silly. Please do NOT confuse this to mean "flake".- I am principled, affectionate, strong-willed and smart. - Passionate, whimsical. tenderhearted, confident, kind. - I love decorating/fixing up and being a homebody - very happy right now over my new laminate floor! - reading, puttering - when not socializing...- I grew up with animals; I adore them and will always need them in my life. - After many years of doglessness, I adopted a Labrador retriever this past spring...I am seeking a man who:- Is also open to something that could become a long term relationship with a promising future!...Like me, he's willing to start with one date at a time :***Can handle finances/financial obligations. - Is in a job he loves. - Was taught honesty and integrity; it's a part of his personal character. - Is insightful into how the world works, yet he STILL chooses to be an optimist (not easy to do in this day and age) :***Is communicative and emotionally mature (HINT: tantrums, sulking and passive-aggression are examples of the opposite).- Enjoys conversation; intellectual and emotional closeness.- Is up for trying both new things together - along with the more comfy, routine things :)- Is comfortable giving and receiving affection.- Is open to the unknown in life; the magic. Is PLAYFUL! - More days than not, is HAPPY :) ********************************************************************************************************************************************************PS: - My health, fitness and eating habits are a priority. So while I love how we come in all shapes and sizes, I am honestly only personally attracted and can commit to men who are slim/fit in build, who take care of their diet and health, and plan to keep doing so in future. Artists never really retire, and I plan on still dancing, riding, and mov'in when I'm 75+...you would need to keep up! - I sincerely plan to leave the door open on children; this all depends for me on the relationship's future and what kind of father my future partner would be, quite frankly. It's a decision two people reach together. Please do NOT message me if your choice is NOT to have children. I should also add that I am not seeking to hear from men who already have children. Thank you! :)- I've had the good fortune of spending a fairly equal amount of time both in relationships and single. I've learned many things about myself from both, as well as what I am looking for in a man going forward. I am excited for what the future holds personally and professionally, hope you are, too! :)I am ready to cross paths with someone who's in a similar place and loves the idea of getting to know a woman who can challenge him - but more importantly, support him - while offering back absolutely the same in return :) Next step: message me! I look forward to hearing from you :) The Three C's:Casual-Classy-Conspiratorial. It's quite a lot of pressure for either person - and not truly possible - to try to determine compatibility in just an hour or two...Rather the first time spent together should tell us if there's enough chemistry to want to see more of each other! :)

  • Dolanna

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a mom, first and foremost... I will not bring any man into my little boys life who doesn't first prove to me he's a man of his word. If I can trust him, then I know my son can as well. I love cuddles on cold nights, and winter is coming ;) Will add more to this soon! Anything that feels right

  • Maeva

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Well, back into the dating scene I go. The last year has been rough when it comes to relationships and yes I might have a bit of baggage associated with it. All that means is I have lived life, loved hard, and took risk. It's not a bad thing!!!What I am looking for in a guy. Well I guess all the normal stuff, like honest, kind, compassionate, sense of humor, blah blah blah. I mean really, aren't we all looking for that in a person?? No drama and don't lie to me. I don't care how bad it is or what you did, don't lie and don't hide it. Also, I want someone open minded about all things in life. I like a guy that likes to do things, but doesn't mind just veggin at home. A good balance of active and relaxed. I am not too much into the club and bar scene, so not really looking for a big partier. I am a very sexual and sensual person so I need someone who can keep up, but not someone who thinks about nothing but. Little touches and teases throughout the day are fine. I am also looking for someone who knows how to pay attention to their partner both in and out of the bedroom. As well as someone who is touchy feel-ly type person. And above all I am looking for a man who can accept and appreciate me for who I am but who is strong and assertive.I am an over the road truck driver with my own business sub contracted to a larger company. This means I work hard and travel a lot. I have Irish and German heritage and I swear they were Gypsies. LOL Also, by being self employed I have the say in where I go and when. So my time off is up to me.As far as looks go, I am no beauty queen nor do I pretend to be. I have been complimented enough that I can safely say I am fairly attractive. I have a heart of gold that I tend to wear on my sleeve when I shouldn't. I love the outdoors and love to travel. I am involved in animal rescue and have one dog that rides with me on the road.I love food. Not that you can tell from my skinny butt!! LOL I love to cook and eat. And I enjoy a wide variety of foods and open to trying new ones. Some of my favorites include sushi and Thai. I'm slowly updating this profile as I go. Never sure what all to put on here until I start talking with people.Seriously here!! One of my pics meet ALL THE RULES and still got removed. WTH!!! Gotta love it!!Well, blocked for the first time and sadly I have no idea why. Seriously, if you are going to take the time to send me a message and then block me that same day, then don't even bother to send me a message in the first place. I don't have time for your BS. Something nice and quiet. A simple dinner or even meeting over a cup of coffee. Nothing too fancy or expensive. Something were there are no expectations. Just a nice evening or afternoon talking and getting to know each other.

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