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Barabara, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Okmulgee

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About Me

I'll be honest, I really don't want to do this again, but alas... Here I am. I am looking for a relationship. A long term relationship. I'm looking for someone that I can consider a partner, a lover and a friend. Someone that wants to be a part of my life and wants me to be a part of theirs. If this doesn't describe what you are also looking for, please continue on. I'm not interested in temporary.A little about me... I tend to have an offbeat sense of humor and find myself laughing at things that may not necessarily be funny. I usually can't pin point why I find these things funny, but I can say that it generally has to do with a bizarre sense of irony, a deep appreciation of everyday absurdities and a touch of nervousness.I am an artist, a writer and a singer. The order of importance can change depending on the day. I consider myself a very open minded and accepting person and generally do not get along well with people that are judgmental or overly critical. My natural *** defend or justify will kick in 9 times out of 10. A little about you...You don't take yourself or things around you too seriously, but you do know when it's time to be serious. You are smart, but not enough to make me feel stupid. You enjoy what you do for work. Or at least enjoy what you do in your off time enough to balance out the lack of love for your job. You should be happy with life is what I'm trying to get at here.You don't have to be creative, but you should at least understand and support someone who is.This is all just surface stuff. I can't begin to describe me enough that you know me here. And I won't pin you down to fit into a specific mold, either. Let's meet and decide from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass R&B Japanese Portuguese Vietnamese Documentary Drama Sport
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