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United States, Oklahoma, Okmulgee

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About Me

I am a hard working ,caring mom who has lots of love for life and all it has to offer. I love children, however not having any more. I enjoy all music. I like having bonfires in our backyard, camping, outdoors and getting dirty. Willing to try almost anything . Love Italian and seafood . I am more of a captain and coke girl but a beer works too. Never been a wine girl but discovered moscato... Like sweet things :) prefer non smokers but respect me if you do, you won't in my truck or house.My children are my number one focus. Mom needs time too but I will always be a mom to my kids, please understand their feelings are a huge part of dating. I would rather be alone with my kids than with the wrong man just to have one around. I think I am pretty handy at fixing things. Looking for a man to laugh with. One that will appreciate all the good I have to offer. I am very open, please ask anything.I like to work out, started it up again. Life kind of got crazy and took over work out time.. One more thing I must add... I have a special needs daughter. That is a deal breaker for some..others that have met her say it isn't obvious. She is awesome...just felt like I better share now... First date I think is nice to be able to be somewhere not too loud so you can talk and hear each other. Don't think a movie either because then you have two hours of watching something and wastIng time of getting to know someone. Maybe a coffee or a drink just a quick meet and greet to see if there is an attraction for a second get to know you better. There should be a physical attraction and a personal attraction based on their ability to communicate, laugh, hold a conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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