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I am looking to really enjoy life, play , laugh , travel , poke fun. I just am really down to earth and appreciate the same!Life is a gift – open it ; )))"It's not enough to be the best at what you do; you must be perceived as the only one who does what you do." Jerry Garcia I strongly believe in chemistry, it is crucial to connect on this level, to start the fire roaring.I am a wee - bit of a prankster, engage laughter.I live my life to the fullest, but yet - in the same breath, I am very relaxed about it.I have created a really serene life, loaded with ADVENTURE /Movement/stillness, and look forward to expanding it.I challenge myself daily to do something outside of my thinking box, to keep LIFE FULL OF ZEST, AND THE FIRE IN MY SOUL OF BEING ALIVE.I love my work it gives me a great deal of flexibility and freedom, I love every second of it ; ) I am extremely creative and have a passion for the arts, with that said I am very much right and left brain. I have a very balanced business side that keeps me sharp and allows my creativity to flourish.Everyone in our lives is a mirror reflecting back the parts we love and dislike about ourselves. If we have the courage to recognize our reflections in each other, we can grow through our partnerships. When we find this kind of partnership, we are more likely to want to keep it, invest in it, and nurture it. Life is a collaborative effort. Much of what we do can be enhanced through partnership. Together we are stronger because our personal power is multiplied by two. Through partnership we experience the joys of working, living, and loving together.I am looking for a man that is driven as I am in all areas of life. A man rich with substance and security in himself.I am a very independent women with a great balance of my right and left side of my brain. I am very artistic and creative and have a huge passion for what it is I do, but I also have a very practical, clever, witty business side that sharpens my edges. It keeps me balanced.With that said couple deal breakers NO MARRIED MEN, MEN WITH CATS, Men that say they are athletic and their really BROKEN, or their idea of athletic is hitting a gym! I am a BIG TIME outdoors girl. I love getting dirty and playing hard outside. I recently moved back form LA and I have recently tried wind surfing (LOVE IT) I would like to learn to sailing (NO surf here) so I am learning to adapt to the different terrain. I also have started to climb; ). I adore it and would love to meet someone that would like to engage in water sports. Last but not least SLEEPY men or just simply a man to have no energy - WE WILL NOT BE A FIT! I am high energy, I love my down time too but I love to play. I am very athletic and would like to spend time with someone that treats their body like a golden temple as well.I am interested in meeting just casual and seeing where it goes, I am in no rush to get involved and would like to really just have a quality relationship.Wishing you well.......Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that,but the really great ones make you feel that you too, can become great.***A great little positive read ;Love yourself, don't seek love. Love yourself first and naturally love seeks you. Forgive yourself. It's in the past. You'll never finish your story if you don't move onto the next chapter of your life. We are all born clean and pure. We are all basically good. Just because you strayed down a dirt road does not mean you can't simply clean yourself. Only those who don't want to be clean, stay dirty; just as those who don't want to be forgiven, stay unforgiven. Nobody can forgive you, but yourself. Disown your thoughts. Thoughts are a lot like opinions, they don't matter. You could be thinking of something really evil or great, but know that thoughts are just a natural process. Like opinions, thoughts in your mind will always try to sway you a certain way. Thoughts should not dictate how you act or feel. Be yourself, your true self. Listen to your heart. Don't let the voice in your head be you. Never feel embarrassed or ashamed of who you are or what you love to do. Feelings of embarrassment and shame only serve to create lies and deception. Lying is taxing mentally and physically. Shed any hesitation of telling the truth. Be honest with yourself. Don't pretend to be happy when you're really sad. Just be. We're all human, we are allowed to feel. Don't close your heart to the world.Fear and anxiety are created in your mind. Don't try to fight it on the platform it was created on. Don't try to think or psyche it out. Stand up straight, chest out to the world, and let your body do the talking. A confident body posture conquers an unconfident mind. Trust yourself. Don't sell yourself short. How can you fly if you keep convincing yourself you don't have wings?Smile. Because why not? You're alive. Take a deep breath right now. Let all the negativity dissolve away. Feels good don't it? Walk prior to run SimpleOr go big

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adi

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I was in an 18 year marriage whice I am now finalizing my divorce from , after my marriage I dated & lived with a boyfriend for a little over a year but that too has run its course . If u want to know more other than brief facts , u know how this works :-) send me a message

  • Marquerite

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Well I am kind of new to this but here is where I get the chance to impress you I guess. I am a very outdoorsy girl who likes to stay in shape and eat healthy. I love cooking and walking mostly. Reason I am on here is because I find it hard to meet guys in this town. I want someone who can make me laugh, so if you think you can, shoot me a message and lets get to know each other.I am not interested in guys that just wanna play games and F around so if that you please don't message me. I need to find that attraction in someone....and i hope if you are messaging me you feel the same way.Also I have a great sense of humor so lets chat and see where it goes......who knows maybe true love is really just around the corner.PS. I am a proud French-Canadian girl ;)PPS Téa, my baby girl means the world to me. By the way she's my cat So many possiblities.....lets just go with the flow:)

  • Topaz

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I’m not on a volunteer fire department anymore but my days at work are still spent putting out fires and herding cats - the glorious life of a project manager. Creating and maintaining a work life balance has become first and foremost for me after experiencing the dark side of putting career before life. I’ve been actively turning my priorities around and am incredibly happy with my community of friends, where I’m at right now and more especially where I’m going. A typical day for me consists of biking to work, tending ‘the farm’ (aka my community garden plot), doing something contemplative or creative, and getting my heart rate up. Have gotten into road cycling this year.I’m equal parts city mouse and country mouse. For me a good weekend is spent with friends, family, or someone special, and at the end of the day may include rinsing the sand from my wet suit, brushing the snow from my skiis, zipping up the tent door or leaving the dishes from a home made meal for the morning because it would just ruin the moment to do them any sooner.While I strive to not judge, if you have a week's supply of pizza pops in your fridge, can’t be bothered with your blue box, think meditation and yoga is crazy or blasphemous, and have the next big UFC fight marked on your calendar there is an extremely good chance that I’m not for you. And I guarantee that self-taken picture of your biceps in front of your bathroom mirror is more impressive to you than it is to me.My life is an adventure of my creation, and I’m not afraid of taking big risks….like say, starting a business on the side, moving to another country, or figuring out what the contents of my fridge might look like in a pan. I’ve got a list of amazing experiences I want to have in my life and I’ll do them alone if I have to but I think life is better shared. Looking for someone to join my party. I have a not-so-secret loathing for the 'meet me' feature. If you strike my fancy I'll write you an actual message and always appreciate the same in return. Hot drinks are a fave. Walk and talk? Ride around on the False Creek Ferries....

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