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I am looking to really enjoy life, play , laugh , travel , poke fun. I just am really down to earth and appreciate the same!Life is a gift – open it ; )))"It's not enough to be the best at what you do; you must be perceived as the only one who does what you do." Jerry Garcia I strongly believe in chemistry, it is crucial to connect on this level, to start the fire roaring.I am a wee - bit of a prankster, engage laughter.I live my life to the fullest, but yet - in the same breath, I am very relaxed about it.I have created a really serene life, loaded with ADVENTURE /Movement/stillness, and look forward to expanding it.I challenge myself daily to do something outside of my thinking box, to keep LIFE FULL OF ZEST, AND THE FIRE IN MY SOUL OF BEING ALIVE.I love my work it gives me a great deal of flexibility and freedom, I love every second of it ; ) I am extremely creative and have a passion for the arts, with that said I am very much right and left brain. I have a very balanced business side that keeps me sharp and allows my creativity to flourish.Everyone in our lives is a mirror reflecting back the parts we love and dislike about ourselves. If we have the courage to recognize our reflections in each other, we can grow through our partnerships. When we find this kind of partnership, we are more likely to want to keep it, invest in it, and nurture it. Life is a collaborative effort. Much of what we do can be enhanced through partnership. Together we are stronger because our personal power is multiplied by two. Through partnership we experience the joys of working, living, and loving together.I am looking for a man that is driven as I am in all areas of life. A man rich with substance and security in himself.I am a very independent women with a great balance of my right and left side of my brain. I am very artistic and creative and have a huge passion for what it is I do, but I also have a very practical, clever, witty business side that sharpens my edges. It keeps me balanced.With that said couple deal breakers NO MARRIED MEN, MEN WITH CATS, Men that say they are athletic and their really BROKEN, or their idea of athletic is hitting a gym! I am a BIG TIME outdoors girl. I love getting dirty and playing hard outside. I recently moved back form LA and I have recently tried wind surfing (LOVE IT) I would like to learn to sailing (NO surf here) so I am learning to adapt to the different terrain. I also have started to climb; ). I adore it and would love to meet someone that would like to engage in water sports. Last but not least SLEEPY men or just simply a man to have no energy - WE WILL NOT BE A FIT! I am high energy, I love my down time too but I love to play. I am very athletic and would like to spend time with someone that treats their body like a golden temple as well.I am interested in meeting just casual and seeing where it goes, I am in no rush to get involved and would like to really just have a quality relationship.Wishing you well.......Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that,but the really great ones make you feel that you too, can become great.***A great little positive read ;Love yourself, don't seek love. Love yourself first and naturally love seeks you. Forgive yourself. It's in the past. You'll never finish your story if you don't move onto the next chapter of your life. We are all born clean and pure. We are all basically good. Just because you strayed down a dirt road does not mean you can't simply clean yourself. Only those who don't want to be clean, stay dirty; just as those who don't want to be forgiven, stay unforgiven. Nobody can forgive you, but yourself. Disown your thoughts. Thoughts are a lot like opinions, they don't matter. You could be thinking of something really evil or great, but know that thoughts are just a natural process. Like opinions, thoughts in your mind will always try to sway you a certain way. Thoughts should not dictate how you act or feel. Be yourself, your true self. Listen to your heart. Don't let the voice in your head be you. Never feel embarrassed or ashamed of who you are or what you love to do. Feelings of embarrassment and shame only serve to create lies and deception. Lying is taxing mentally and physically. Shed any hesitation of telling the truth. Be honest with yourself. Don't pretend to be happy when you're really sad. Just be. We're all human, we are allowed to feel. Don't close your heart to the world.Fear and anxiety are created in your mind. Don't try to fight it on the platform it was created on. Don't try to think or psyche it out. Stand up straight, chest out to the world, and let your body do the talking. A confident body posture conquers an unconfident mind. Trust yourself. Don't sell yourself short. How can you fly if you keep convincing yourself you don't have wings?Smile. Because why not? You're alive. Take a deep breath right now. Let all the negativity dissolve away. Feels good don't it? Walk prior to run SimpleOr go big

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaylynn

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well I am going to get right to the point I'm on here because i am not originally from here(originally from NS) and have only a few friends so I find it hard to meet people. I have a 7 yr old daughter. And just to make it clear I am not on here to look for one night stands/ or hook ups... I'm looking for someone to get to know and take things from there. I DO NOT want any games, I dont want to meet anyone who can only think about themseleves, because if I am going to give my all to someone I expect it back. I would like for that someone in my life to also know how to be supportive and no not financially either rather knows how to be caring, understanding and compassionate also know that relationships means a partnership not just about one person *** it always being one sided. I believe a good relationship takes work and compromise from both people involved and communication...I would like to find someone who knows how to kid around and joke with each other and have a little sarcasm but can be serious when needed. I enjoy doing things with my daughter, hanging with family and friends or just chilling and relaxing, going out quadding or boating. I also like road trips seeing new place or revisiting place I love. I work and I have my own place. So if u would like to know anymore then feel free to ask me... :) We can decide that at that point

  • Gertrude

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like boating, camping (but I got use to a 5th wheel as it is the easiest way to travel with kids :o)), bike rides & enjoy taking my daughter to the park or swimming. I also don't mind doing physical chores LOL yes I will mow the lawn & I can even put up a light fixture. I'm also not afraid of getting dirty doing a job around the house or helping work on a project as that's what water is for right :o). I am honest, loyal, reliable, I think I'm funny (well sometimes LOL), very open, easy to get along with and yes I can be a little sarcastic too. I always think of others before I think of myself. I am very passionate, willing to admit when I am wrong but will also stand up for myself and my beliefs. I treat other as I wish to be treated. I believe that communication, loyalty & honesty are the most important things in a relationship.I am not looking to "hook up" or looking to play games or date multiple people at once as I believe that after a couple of meetings you will know if there is that spark you need to continue. With that said if we don't have both the sparks required then maybe we've just lucked out and found a new friend. I am also not looking for a long distance relationship either as I have limited time without my daughter and want to make the most of it with someone. I have tattoos (don't worry no arm sleeves LOL) so if you are not into women who have them then I'm not the one for you :o). BTW none are skulls or from the dark side.Hope some of this has caught you attention and I hear from you :o). Good luck with your search. Just a simple coffee meeting would probably be the best as that way we can get to know each other more and see if there is a point to a first date :o).

  • Dayana

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi, I honestly thought I would never have to come back online dating again, but once again I find myself back on here. I believe friendship is the start to a healthy relationship so I'm willing to meet people and hopefully out of the ones I meet will find someone I connect with and can start building a future together. I think I have awesome qualities, I am sometimes to generous (like doing things for others) and caring and very open and honest. I am always a giver. I make time for the person I am with. I'm a very positive person. I have a good career, a balance between work and home life, I own my home, I have a car, I think I have everything I need except the man of my dreams. I want a solid relationship and friendship. I'm looking for my future husband and someone I can share my life with. I am a single mom of 2 wonderful children. They are my life first but hoping to find a man who will accept this and become part of their lives too. I am open to more children with right person. I have a lot of areas which I still want to go, and hope that I can find a partner who enjoys travel. I really enjoy all inclusive holidays and Cruise Ship travel. I'm not into games or drama, so if you are not looking for someone to possibly spend your life with and just want one nighter please move on. Life is to short lets not waste our time when we both know what we are ideally seeking.PS. If you read my profile and got this far I must let you know I only will date white males, personal preference and I have children to consider too. I think something simple, at coffee shop, a walk,lunch or dinner. Then plan the real date for second meeting.

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