Total users: 59,500,634 Online users: 214,369
Pandora, 34

Online

About Me

Apparently I was enlisted in the "catch & release" section of this website the first time around, so, here we go again :)I'd like to meet someone to spend time with, with the common goal of it being a long term thing. I am NOT here for a random hookup. I do NOT need a computer for that. So, if that's why you're here, please don't waste my time, or yours. It's rough out there, no need to add to the nonsense of dating in your thirties.** Must love animals ( so yes, you guys with pics of you & your dog/cat, you get extra points)** I have tattoos, so if that's an issue, sorry! If YOU have tattoos, that's a bonus!UPDATE:I like kids. If you have kids, that's GREAT (It eventually gives me an excuse to do things like coloring eggs, apple/pumpkin picking & going to the petting zoo). However, if you have your kids every weekend, and you work all week, where exactly do you think you're fitting me (or any other fishy) into your schedule? Please have time for the attempt of getting to know someone.If you are separated, that CAN be ok, provided you are still not sleeping on the couch. Things need to have progressed on to separate homes, lawyers, etc. To my CT Fishies: You get included in my search (and vice versa) because no one takes into consideration that there is a large body of water between us. Sorry, but, that body of water IS in the way! Cocktails. Takes the nervous edge off (im NOT an alcoholic sillyheads!) Somewhere not too loud; need to be able to have a conversation. Laughter is a must. If all goes well, then perhaps some dinner, or more drinks, or both. Some dancing thrown in would be just lovely. I'm pretty laid back and just go with the flow after that, but this is kind of a must for the FIRST date. Second dates are good for things like bowling (I have my own ball & shoes because I kinda rock!), mini golf, a picnic, etc. Please take note: coming to your house to 'watch a movie' is NOT a date (& is not happening the first time(s) we meet)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Janie

    Online

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Im a pretty shy person until I get to know someone. I love all kinds of music and I love to watch football and basketball! I love different kinds of art and I love to make things myself. I tend to be pretty independent too. Im far from a pushover but would rather walk away than to do or say something I will regret later. My personality runs the gauntlet from silly to serious and I tend to have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. I am VERY protective of those I call family and friends.I tend to look at things alot differently than most and I try to keep an open mind and not judge people for their pasts....because that's exactly what it is...the past. I dont think people should try to change others because then you change what makes up the person you were attracted to to begin with. I also like to try new things....within reason LOL! I think everyone needs their own friends and their own space or it can tend to wear a person down.I think the reason most relationships fail is because of lack of communication or people think that a relationship should simply "BE" rather than working at it.....if you want it to last you have to invest all of yourself and work hard to maintain it. I have been single for awhile. I needed the time to find ME again and to work on my self confidence. I found me and Im working on the self confidence thing. I dont sit around and whine about it...believe me...I tend to internalize rather than externalize things like that. I have two children who are my world, 1 girl and 1 boy. They both live with me full time and anyone who wants to e with me has got to be able to understand that I will NEVER put anyone before them....EVER. I have yet to get beyond a couple of conversations with someone without them lying or some other shady shit.....If you cant be honest in a phone convo I sure as hell dont want to meet your ass....REALLY!?! Obviously you are just lookin to get laid as well....piss off I got no time for that. Ya'll men need to get your sh*ttogether and stop treating every woman like the $2 street hoes you're used to sleeping with within an hour of meeting them! You have no respect for them or yourself and its pathetic. How would you feel if someone treated your daughter the way you treat the women you speak to? Grow up and stop acting like sex starved pathetic ***holes....it makes you look desperate and that is NOT attractive!And for you men who put that you want a relationship or are actively seeking one....only to change your story once you start talkin to someone....you are just as pathetic! Playing games is for children not grown men. I get why you do it....simply to get into a girls pants....but I can tell you that that will not work with me so do us both a favor and dont waste my time.I am generally not a **** but the behavior of about every single "man" who has contacted me on here has me thoroughly disgusted. I DO NOT NEED A MAN IN MY LIFE....I want one there to share life with.....so do not mistake me for some money hungry hoe who will do anything to get your attention.DO NOT MESSAGE ME BEING DISRESPECTFUL! IM SICK OF GETTING EVERY PERVERT ON THIS SIGHT! I will not tolerate being disrespected....period! I realize you mens' minds are in the gutter ***of the time but get your sh*t together or move on. I have no time for someone who has no more class than to message a woman being disrespectful. Just depends I suppose on the person.....though I've never understood going to a movie when you are trying to get to know someone because you can't talk....then again if you arent really into the person a movie theater would probably be perfect LOLz!!

  • Camila

    Online

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    ;)

  • Jeanette

    Online

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    ***IF YOU ARE ONLY ON HERE IN PURSUIT OF VAGINA, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME!!*****Does dating even exist anymore? Let's try to pronunciate slowly. D-A-T-I-N-G. I believe it's this obsolete thing where guys pick girls up and go out (yes, I actually said GO OUT) with them for awhile and they actually get to know eachother and see if things progress? I could be wrong on this, but from what I remember, that's what D-A-T-I-N-G entails. It, however, does not entail you sending me pictures of your junk, inviting me over your house the first few times we get together, and expecting sex because you bought me dinner. Wow, what a foreign concept. I'm kinda lost...??34 Year old female from NY, standing 5'8" tall with a very voluptuous figure. I have meat on me, so if you're not a carnivore, we won't work ;) I love to cook! And I'm damn good at it, so I definitely want a man who appreciates a good woman who can throw down in the kitchen (amongst other places)..heheI'd also like to say that I am a REAL female, meaning I was born with a vagina which is more than I can say for a lot of what I see on here lmao. Wow, I said vagina twice already, no wait 3 times now. I'm such a perv.If you don't have a picture, don't message me. This isn't ***scanning pics on aol. So "my scanner broke " as an excuse went out the window years ago lmao. Everyone has a picture, there is no reason you shouldn't.I'm interested in meeting tall, attractive men who are interested in dating with the intention of it possibly leading to something more serious. I AM NOT HERE FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS OR A FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TYPE DEAL. I DO NOT THINK I CAN MAKE THIS ANY MORE CLEAR! I like TALL (Meaning 6ft and over..Hey I love to wear heels, but I have been known to make exceptions ;), White or light skinned Spanish, educated, well built guys... I also love when a guy has a scruffy look going on with some sweats/jeans a t-shirt and a fitted cap. I am definitely an arms girl! I love big arms. A sense of humor is a MUST. You have to be able to laugh at yourself (and others, lol) if we are going to click. I am not into the metrosexual thing at all. I want a man who looks like a man. A little hair on your chest never killed nobody. Tattoos are also a plus. I also like shaved heads, light eyes, and goatees. But,the most important thing, is a man who treats me with respect, knows how to appreciate a woman of quality, and is a gentleman. I don't know why you're on here, but I am on here to ACTUALLY meet in person eventually. If you want a penpal or just pictures, I'm not your girl. I don't want to have an online relationship with you and have your online babies. I want to see YOU in the flesh.I have been on and off of this site for awhile because I refuse to settle. I have a strong personality and I know what I want. There is no point in being with someone just to avoid being alone. I'd rather enjoy my own company than put up with bullsh*t or be with someone who I don't get along with. With that being said, I also have a very sweet, submissive, feminine side as well. I'm a complex person with multiple facets to my personality.I generally like to exchange *** I've heard every long drawn out story as to why almost every dude on here doesn't have a *** buying it. So, go do a clean sweep of your *** back to me. Hopefully anything where you don't wind up pissing me off lol

Follow Us: