Total users: 61,644,579 Online users: 221,876
Neely, 40

Offline, last seen Tue, 03 Mar 2026 01:44:58

About Me

I won't tell you just what you want to hear & I need you to listen to what I have to say... I am a 40 year old woman with more to offer than any man I have ever known deserves or could handle... I could ramble about many things, but we both know that is the last thing a man wants to listen to... I have been through the fires of hell and don't even smell like smoke (few will understand my point) but, let me get to it...I am creative by nature, art is in my blood, I love music of ALL kinds. I went to college for marketing & graphic arts, in which I did for 20+years.... then in a twist of fate or divine destiny... I am now a registered medical assistant working with cancer patients after losing my mom to brain cancer a year+ ago...life has turned a ***and I am truly in a new beginning in many ways. Consistency tells a lot about character... I am funny and outgoing but, deep... I love to cook, it is therapy for me.. I LOVE IT... I am not interested in booty calls, being your drinking buddy or waiting for you to text me. My faith and my God is why I am still here, I am a free spirit, a writer, a romantic by heart and I tend to say too much.... so for now, I will leave it at that and build on a good thing as we go along.... by the encouragement of a friend I am here again and being completely open and honest to possibility...... I am not interested in passing your time or you wasting mine. I think it is best to stick to locals, I don't think I have it in me for another long distance anything. SOOOOOO Start diggin'.... OK, so I guess I will add some thoughts... because if you have come this far, I will assume you wanna know more. I am the whole package, come on now, seriously... if we don't think that about ourselves who will!? I have been on here a few times before and SWORE I wouldn't be back. I cannot be described in one word. There is nothing average about me.... and who doesn't have a few extra pounds or more to lose if honest, unless you are TRULY athletic, which most who say they are on here, are NOT (I know I have met them). I am a beautiful women with a lot to offer and am still a work in progress... I describe myself physically as "curvalicious" and have never had a man complain about my figure. I am NOT a Barbie doll and you will prolly never see me in a dress and heels unless someone has died, and I will prolly still be in pants.I prefer to crank up some good tunes, put on my comfies, open a bottle of wine or make some drinks and cook you the best meal you have ever had vs. going out to eat. I am very laid back compared to most women I know. I am open and honest, loving and sincere. There truly is nothing fake about me. If you ask people who know me what I am like, they would describe me as faithful, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, inviting, trustworthy, kind, reliable, shocking, passionate, sexy and I have a giving heart. I don't care if it sounds too good to be true, it is the truth.... I don't have to try and sell myself... I am just being open.... More to come...I have learned the hard way that time is precious, I do not give it to just anyone because it is a gift and you cannot get it back. I am not a dater, much less a serial dater. I will not talk to nor go out with a dozen guys at once. Not being a dater has made being on a dating sight difficult, lol. BUT, I work full time and have my daughter half the time and I don't get out much anymore. There is nothing about the bar scene I miss, except live music. ... I want more than shallow, surface relationship, I need substance. I need physical attraction just like anyone, I am not disregarding it.... it is vital. BUT, I want what I have never had. My longest relationship was 18 years and it did not work, that is almost half my life... I will not give away my heart so easily now, but when I do... that man will be blessed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Chere

    Offline

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I believe myself to be playful and fun, educated with plenty of dreams and goals, who very much enjoys life. I am about as real as it gets, and find it ridiculous to try to pretend I’m something I’m not. At this point, I understand who I am, how to amplify my strengths and overcome my weaknesses. I will take chances and give everything as life is to short to be unhappy. A smile and a laugh in my world goes a long way:) I am very much a fun, cute, small town, outdoorsy girl who enjoys playing in the dirt with the boys!Go Romo! You also won't need to drag this gal out on the back of a quad with a fishing rod to go camping or for a hike. Days outdoors is what I grew up and came from. Running and playing in the rain happens frequently, and there is something about it I just love! I am the girl who can very easily go from makeup to mud and prefer a guy who is a fine mix of country and city as well. I am involved in my community and enjoy a variety of charity functions and volunteer to help others regularly. I will also be found playing or watching soccer, baseball, horseback riding or golfing. I love a nice night at the theatre, live music, dining and fine wine. I do have a have a wide variety of different interests and adapt easily to different situations. I am always up for anything including road trips or last minute holidays if the times available. American Thanksgiving heading to see Cowboys Stadium against the Raiders is next on the list.I am a sucker for: Men in UNIFORM, the tall dark and handsome Italians and their food, the crazy fun of the Irish, the humour of the Scottish, and the accents of the English and Aussies. Hmmm ...Seems I just love all men, now to just find one lol :) I don't have a long list of prerequisites and really do not judge, we all have a story in our lives at this point. But it is important for me I find someone who respects themselves and others, has strong moral and family values, and who has a big heart that can open up and communicate. I must also note this now, as this may land you into the auto out pile. I firmly believe age is just a number. But if you are 21 or greater than 10 years younger *** its sweet and cute however I'm not having a mid life crisis quite yet, and wouldn't want to date myself at that age.I should also let you know I am in the field of justice and will be working in law enforcement. I do regularly carry handcuffs and can give most of you a good run for your money if required! lol. So I am a bit of a goody, good girl with a fun, wild side. I am one who works hard but realizes the balance necessary to live life to its fullest. I have a great foundation of family and friends and look forward to meeting a special guy to share it with. “Drive outside the city stop for icecream, go quading and fishing all day with a picnic lunch. Then go to a cozy little restaurant like the Steak Pit in Bragg Creek,to sit by a fireplace and get to know you even better over fine wine.”

  • Katheryne

    Offline

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Must love animals......And football!!! :)UPDATE: I'm going to try another update here. A lot of people ask me what I like to do in my spare time. Well here ya go. Soak up the sun wherever I can. In the winter I'm usually at a friends house or little sports bar watching football.I've had some people on here get upset with me for not responding. I typically will not respond to someone with no pic or you can't see them in a pic. Or to someone who is a lot younger than me. And I won't respond to someone who keeps asking me why I won't respond. I hope that doesn't sound too rude. I'm truly a fun, laid back person looking for the same thing. And I do prefer drama free. Lol. ;) Well I don't really have any hobbies or goals and my taste in music is boring to me. But what makes me unique is awesome. :) I'm a woman obviously, who hates shopping and chocolate and flowers but I love football and beer and hockey. I will also tell you; you are right, we can't drive, yes we gripe too much (but you can get away from us, lucky dog) and no you can't figure us out but we can't figure ourselves out either, probably one of the reasons we are always so grouchy. So if you can handle someone a little down-to-earth and will tell you how it is and is also a lot of fun well you just let me know. ;) Anything but the typical dinner and a movie.

  • Patrina

    Offline

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    There's plenty of eye candy out there but I'm seeking someone who is honest, attentive, confident in himself, and knows what he wants out of life. Looks are second to a great sense of humor and heart. At the same time, I take care of myself and hope you do too. I take pride in keeping myself fit and staying active. I can get all dolled up in a sexy black dress or throw on a t-shirt and shorts and feel just as good!!!Either way, I am usually up for anything you throw my way. Life is short and I want to experience as much as I can. I know exactly what I am looking for and of course just searching to find it!! I am genuine, compassionate, warm, nurturing, generous and fun! I am intensly loyal and trustworthy. I love being with my family and friends, just need to find that one special person to share my life with. I have alot to offer and looking for someone who has the same... I want the whole package. I want a man who excites me and makes me laugh. I need a man who communicates his feelings and isn't afraid of commitment. Is that too much to ask?I am very passionate about what I do and I love my job. I am not looking for someone to support me, but it is important that you have a strong worth ethic and strive to be the best that you can be. I am extremely drawn to someone who is intellectually stimulating and who has a good sense of humor than someone who can't hold a conversation.BTW- I am an old fashioned girl who prefers conversation over texts..... A first date is usually the make it or break for the next one......if the chemistry is there and the conversation is good, there will definitely be another date SO......it doesnt matter where, it just matters if you "feel" it. Coffee, tea or ....(no, not me!!)or even a drink will work.

Follow Us: