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Neely, 40
United States, Ohio, Xenia

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About Me

I won't tell you just what you want to hear & I need you to listen to what I have to say... I am a 40 year old woman with more to offer than any man I have ever known deserves or could handle... I could ramble about many things, but we both know that is the last thing a man wants to listen to... I have been through the fires of hell and don't even smell like smoke (few will understand my point) but, let me get to it...I am creative by nature, art is in my blood, I love music of ALL kinds. I went to college for marketing & graphic arts, in which I did for 20+years.... then in a twist of fate or divine destiny... I am now a registered medical assistant working with cancer patients after losing my mom to brain cancer a year+ ago...life has turned a ***and I am truly in a new beginning in many ways. Consistency tells a lot about character... I am funny and outgoing but, deep... I love to cook, it is therapy for me.. I LOVE IT... I am not interested in booty calls, being your drinking buddy or waiting for you to text me. My faith and my God is why I am still here, I am a free spirit, a writer, a romantic by heart and I tend to say too much.... so for now, I will leave it at that and build on a good thing as we go along.... by the encouragement of a friend I am here again and being completely open and honest to possibility...... I am not interested in passing your time or you wasting mine. I think it is best to stick to locals, I don't think I have it in me for another long distance anything. SOOOOOO Start diggin'.... OK, so I guess I will add some thoughts... because if you have come this far, I will assume you wanna know more. I am the whole package, come on now, seriously... if we don't think that about ourselves who will!? I have been on here a few times before and SWORE I wouldn't be back. I cannot be described in one word. There is nothing average about me.... and who doesn't have a few extra pounds or more to lose if honest, unless you are TRULY athletic, which most who say they are on here, are NOT (I know I have met them). I am a beautiful women with a lot to offer and am still a work in progress... I describe myself physically as "curvalicious" and have never had a man complain about my figure. I am NOT a Barbie doll and you will prolly never see me in a dress and heels unless someone has died, and I will prolly still be in pants.I prefer to crank up some good tunes, put on my comfies, open a bottle of wine or make some drinks and cook you the best meal you have ever had vs. going out to eat. I am very laid back compared to most women I know. I am open and honest, loving and sincere. There truly is nothing fake about me. If you ask people who know me what I am like, they would describe me as faithful, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, inviting, trustworthy, kind, reliable, shocking, passionate, sexy and I have a giving heart. I don't care if it sounds too good to be true, it is the truth.... I don't have to try and sell myself... I am just being open.... More to come...I have learned the hard way that time is precious, I do not give it to just anyone because it is a gift and you cannot get it back. I am not a dater, much less a serial dater. I will not talk to nor go out with a dozen guys at once. Not being a dater has made being on a dating sight difficult, lol. BUT, I work full time and have my daughter half the time and I don't get out much anymore. There is nothing about the bar scene I miss, except live music. ... I want more than shallow, surface relationship, I need substance. I need physical attraction just like anyone, I am not disregarding it.... it is vital. BUT, I want what I have never had. My longest relationship was 18 years and it did not work, that is almost half my life... I will not give away my heart so easily now, but when I do... that man will be blessed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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