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Hartley, 38
United States, Ohio, Xenia

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About Me

First off, I am not your typical girl.... I am an ambitious, strong, independent, outgoing women who is mature and has her head on her shoulders and also has a fun personality. I am currently working full time and I am looking forward to my new career change *** the end of the month :) I am a mother of a beautiful 19 year old daughter, whom I am very close with and have raised pretty much on my own. I believe in maintaining good moral character; honestly, respect and treating others as I would want to be treated is something I live by. I am a sweet, caring, fun and down to earth girl who is not high maintenance. I have never had the opportunity to travel much, it has been something I have always wanted to do and I am looking forward to it someday! I am still young- so there is plenty of time for me to do the things that I have always wanted to do in life:) I enjoy going out n' about, as well as just curling up *** home relaxing, enjoying good food and conversation or watching a good movie:) I am an avid music lover and listen to music often! I would luv to meet someone who likes to stay active, appreciates being in pretty good shape and maybe even enjoys working out *** the gym, just as I do. I am seeking a guy who has faith, is mature,sweet, a good communicator, a good listener, outgoing, likes to have fun and is confident, but not conceited- someone who will treat me like a lady and with respect. A sense of humor is very important to me, with the exception to the rule of knowing when to be serious at appropriate times.... Life is too short not to laugh a little and enjoy it to it's fullest extent! Attraction is important ,but in addition you must have a good heart, a great sense of humor and an awesome personality as well.... I am looking for someone who enjoys some of the things I do .... A picture is worth a thousand words- but someone who possesses all the other qualities I am seeking as well- is priceless! Have a fantabulous day....The "PERFECT" guy would *text you everyday* *Tell you ur gorgeous in front of his homies. *Stay on the phone with you even if ur not saying anything. *Teases you, but lets you tease back. *Stays up all night with you when ur sick. *Watches ur favorite movie with you.*Won't wipe his mouth after you kissed him. *Gives you the world. *Lets you wear his clothes. *When ur bored and sad, hangs out with you. *Lets you know ur important. *Kisses you in the pouring rain. *Would never say harsh words to you. *Would ask you out again after you say maybe or I will think about it. *When you run up to him crying, the 1st thing he says is: Who's ass am I beating up today babe? :) :) Something low key that allows for communication- so we can to get to know each other:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Canadian German Korean Spanish Music War Dance
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