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Latia, 31

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Fun, outgoing girl who is looking for Mr. Right. Not an easy thing to do in this crazy world! I never thought I'd be 31 and single and on a dating website but...here I am! I love to work and when I'm not working I love to play. Very easy going and go with the flow and looking for the same in a man. I want someone that I can get lost with while driving (which I do often) that doesn't get uptight or upset, but takes the opportunity to just spend more time together laughing, talking and making fun of how bad my sense of direction is! I want to find my opposite yet my mirror image. Frankly, I'm not sure what the hell I'm exactly looking for but I'll know it when I see it. And feel it. :-)I truly have a blessed life. A supportive family, strong morals and values, decent looks, a successful job, a nice home, great friends and a super personality. The only thing missing is someone to share it all with. It's amazing that I can have so many "things" yet sometimes feel completely empty when no one is there to share them with...I'm 31, I've never been married or engaged and I don't have any children. My dad thinks I'm a genius for the above reasons. My mom thinks I need to hurry up and have grand babies before she croaks. My friends think I'm too picky. I think that everything happens for a reason and that somewhere out there my guy is waiting for me. For my moms sake, I hope so :) I hate planning things! All day long at work, my job is to make decisions for myself and several other people. I'm leaving this decision up to you! I love surprises and originality but I also don't mind just meeting for drinks and talking :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abigayle

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am just going to say this!! I DON'T DATE BLACK GUYS!!! Now that I have said that,continue to read!!Don't get mad at me, if you ask me something and I actually tell you. I am finding that guys here do one thing and say another. Really annoyed at that! Hey. I'm a very down to earth person. I move to TN on Oct 4th from VA. I have lived in 7 states, due to my job. I love sports. Bears and Cubs are my fav. I like to surf and play golf. I love outdoors. I work for the Federal Government, which has been interesting in itself for the last couple years.I have a 10 yr old son, if you don't like kids or scared of them, you can stop reading now. I don't want to waste your time or mine. But then again it's not like you would meet him right off anyway, since I keep that part of my life away until I'm ready to let someone get that close to me.What I'm looking for is, someone that is honest, funny, caring, smart, nice, athletic.. Wait that’s on every single profile. Ok let's get real.. Every person wants all that. And most people only have 1 or 2 of those qualities at once. So let's start with something like this. Sure I want all of the things most people want. But I mainly want someone that wants me, as much as I want him. I want a guy to be my best friend, that I can laugh with and at. That doesn't have a problem telling me when I'm messing up, cuz I do need some straightening up at times. I want someone to push me to my boundaries or over them. I want someone one that is not afraid to put everything out there, that won't hold anything back for me. Ok I guess that is what I want along with all the other little things.People have baggage. We all know this. I'm fine with all that. But if your not over an ex girlfriend/wife. I'm not the girl for you. I am really tired of dating guys and everything is fine for a couple months of dating, and then all of a sudden, they start saying I miss my Ex or my Ex did this or that (bad mouthing them). I'm not perfect, I have baggage. But I'm completely over my ex-husband and any of my ex boyfriends. I would like someone to be the same, over their ex's. To the guys that want to date every woman out there, I am not the woman for you. When I'm into someone I'm into someone. And don't date any other guys cuz I want to see where it may go. And if I'm doing that and your dating around, just won't work. Plus it's not fair to me.Oh and drama is not in my life. Sure my friends have tons of it, and I get to see their drama a lot and help them. But it is not in my life. And I can honestly say that. Life is to short to be worried about who's sleeping with who, or I can't believe she is dating him type of thing. I'm 34 not 21. So it's not in my life. I'm not judgmental, never have been so that's probably why I don’t have drama. I coach soccer and play co-ed softball. Since I just moved here I need to find a co-ed team. I am pretty active person. No Movies, they are so inpersonable! I'm up for anything but movies, like meet for drinks or a baseball game.

  • Branda

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    *I AM LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP...IF YOU DONT WANT THE SAME THING AS ME AND HAVE NO INTENTION OF EVER HAVING A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP...PLEASE MOVE ALONG...I AM NOT HERE TO BE A BOOTY CALL AND I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARDS FOR SOMEONE WHO REFUSES TO MAKE ME HAPPY AND ONLY THINKS ABOUT THEMSELF**You can never make the same mistake twice...the second time its not a mistake, its a choice**A woman can give a man a million reasons to be faithful and he will find at least one reason to cheat...but a man can give a woman a million reasons to cheat and she will always find at least one reason to be faithful**I need a man with goals, dreams, aspirations and who craves success...afterall, 10 years from now, "swag" won't pay the bills**One's own reality is one's own truth and it may not seem plausible unless you have walked in their shoes*I am a single mother of 2 beautiful children. I work hard and spend as much time with my children as possible. I'm finishing up my Legal Secretary certification as well as my Bachelors in Business. I hope to eventually go onto Law School and become a corporate attorney. I need someone supportive of this...someone that isn't selfish and is willing to be there no matter what the circumstance.;If you don't want me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". I'm not a selfish person but I have needs as well. I cannot do ego's or lies. I have been hurt a lot and I may not know exactly what I want but I definitely know what I don't. My two favorite motto's I live by are " never expect more from somebody than you are willing to give yourself" and " the grass is only greener on the other side because it has been mowed, watered and cared for...ultimately, everyone's yard has the potential to flourish with the right care and attention, it just takes time". I'm fun and creative, tolerable and passionate, a little bit crazy and attentive, goal-oriented and a bit set in my ways but no matter what, I always try to treat people the way I want to be treated. I help but not hurt, I laugh with but not at, and I listen but not judge. A sense of humor is a must!Want to know more???? Hit me up :D I like surprises! But beware, i get bored very easily so a convo with substance is a must! Oh...and I do have trust issues...they stem from raisin cookies looking too much like chocolate chip :/And on a serious note, first impressions are everything. Keep in mind the 3 things you cannot recover in life; the WORD after its spoken, the MOMENT after its missed, and the TIME after its gone...so make it worth it!

  • Jacquelyn

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I have a wide range of interests. As far as music goes I will listen to almost anything from any time period. It just depends on what mood I'm in. Hobbies vary also. I love the outdoors. Not a fan of extreme weather but I do love to hunt and fish. I find a great deal on peace and contentment in natural environments. However, I did grow up in the city and enjoy many things there as well. Movies, theatre, concerts, dining, shopping, being downtown, etc. Currently I'm loving the driving range. I might just try out golf pretty soon. At this point in my life I'm ready to think outside the box and gain some new experiences. I'm interested in meeting all kinds of people and getting to know them better. I'm confident that you can't expect to find a life partner unless you are willing to find a best friend first. Don't ask me in one or two messages if I want to start a relationship. No, I don't want to start a serious relationship with someone or sleep with someone I don't know and you shouldn't either. I will say upfront that I am a commited member of my church and my studies there do have a large impact on my life. Also I am a sociology major but am taking one or two semester off to help my grandparents through some things. I am a server/bartender downtown currently but for the past 7 years I worked with "at risk" teenagers and I loved my job but not the small town narrow minded people I worked with and for so I took a break to do something more laid back for a bit. My work was always challenging but few things in life are more satisfying than seeing a broken person develop hope for their future and a sense of worth. I spend my off time taking life as easy as I can and enjoying every moment possible. I hang out with my kids, their friends and my friends every chance I get. When they are all busy with their life, I read, rest, walk or write. I am an open, honest and sincere person. Some people wsay to a fault. You can ask me anything you want to but when I reply just remember you asked. I DO NOT play games with people. Anything short of that is just plain immature and selfish so if you pride yourself in being a player, move along. Don't waste my time and energy. I focus on being a positive and sucessful person. I do know the difference in sucessful and wealthy. One does not make the other. Happiness comes from within. If you need my world to revolve around your's, I'm sorry, it won't. However, I will be appreciative, respectful and considerate of you as long as you allow me to. I don't have and ideal first date. A good date is one that you have fun on and makes you happy. That could happen in numerous ways.

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