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Kayly, 35
United States, Ohio, Vandalia

Offline, last seen Tue, 25 Nov 2025 13:58:05

About Me

The best thing about getting older is learning, from your past experiences and/or mistakes, exactly what you want. Knowing what you don't want is equally important.I can take constructive criticism when necessary. I am a good listener to things I should be made aware of about myself. I am always looking for ways to improve, being able to listen to things about yourself that may be difficult to hear is obviously a big part of it. Not everyone can communicate easily in their life relationships including; friendships, romantic, family, professional, etc. Communication is vital to any relationship in your life that means something. This is one of the biggest reasons my BFF is my BFF. We discuss how people don't want to hear any negative feedback about themselves. She &-improvement. I hope to find someone that is not afraid of talking. Constantly having to drag feeling or opinions out of someone important in your life is never fun. It also gets old fast.I am one that will share my feelings & I will always want to hear yours; good or not so good. If people don't communicate in life avoidable misunderstandings will occur causing unnecessary issues later. Also, just a side note: It's okay to have separate interests and space to breathe...please. Siamese twin relationships are not my thing. To each is own, but I can't understand those I see in relationships of this type. Going through each other's phones and all this other crazy stuff I hear. Whatever happened to trust? Obviously common interests are a must, but it's also okay for you to feel like going on a boat ride one night and me to feel like going to the movies. Make not mistake; While I always appreciate time with someone I care about, it's also ok to appreciate time to yourself as well. They are my babies & it's a package deal. Me with two westies on the side :) I am a big animal lover, they always keep it real. I've observed over the years that animal lovers are overall good hearted, compassionate people. Describing yourself as an animal lover, in my experience, does tell a lot about a person. I've found people that don't like animals tend to be, let's say, probably not someone I'd feel comfortable around for anything long term. To be up front right now, if you are allergic or have any other dislike for being around dogs especially, we will not work out. I nonetheless wish you the best of luck in your search. "First dates are like job interviews with drinks." - Sex and the CitySeriously, I hope not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Dance
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  • Tressie from Vandalia | Woman | 34 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    What to say What to say...I love to meet new people. It is amazing what you can learn from them! I love spending time with my family and friends. I have a good sense of humor I'm loyal, honest, considerate, affectionate and tons of fun! Coffee and conversation.

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  • Caroll from Vandalia | Woman | 32 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I love movies and music. My favorite movie genre is Mystery/Action. For music, my favorite is Rock but I basically like everything well enough except for Opera and Rap. I like art, history, and science museums and things like that. I don't play any musical *** would love to learn the piano, guitar, and violin. Half the time you put me in front of a piano, it sounds like I know what I'm doing--the other half of the time, a cat running across the keys would sound better!I also like outdoor activities like Hiking but I wouldn't consider my self a rabid fan of the outdoors. I guess I would consider myself more of a casual fan :) I've never been camping but I would consider it if I had ready access to indoor plumbing! LoL About a year ago, I took up target shooting. I've only gone about a half dozen times so far and it is probably still beginners luck but I'm a pretty good shot! :) It's a great way to blow off steam. I love how my whole body feels so relaxed afterwards :)Though I don't have a perfect body (yet lol), I do work out regularly. There were a few months there that I wasn't going because my work load got crazy and my personal trainer joined the military and moved away. It's funny how long it takes to progress upwardly but how QUICKLY one can backslide!! I'm totally kicking my own butt doing the basics! LOL But I am enjoying being back in the gym and plan to start doing some 5Ks again. My career is important to me (after all, I spent 7 years in school to get it!) but I like to take time for myself to relax and have fun.As for what I look for in a guy:Someone who knows when to be serious and when to goof offDoesn't take himself too seriouslyNon-judgmentalFun and spontaneous (but not because he's afraid of making plans)Someone who knows who he is and a good idea of what he wantsSomeone who actually goes after what he wantsSomeone who doesn't mind if I am a little taller than him when I am wearing my sexy high-heeled shoes (I'm 5'9" in my bare feet)No criminal record Obviously, somewhere public :)Someplace fun but that allows us to talk and get to know one another better.

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  • Myesha from Vandalia | Woman | 34 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I love to listen to all kinds of good music and hang out with friends. I am a true country girl. Pretty much anything that has to do with the outdoors I'm game. I am pretty much a home body. I don't go out alot but i LOVE to have friends over for BBQ some beer and a nice bonfire!!! I think I'm pretty laid back. I am open minded and very up front and open about what I think and feel. If you don't really want the truth, well don't ask me. I tried this site once before and had some luck, but he ended up being a player. I am not into playing head games or games of any kind. I am too old for that. High school was a long time ago!! And don't think that I'm just a booty call, cuz I am not!! And if that's all you want, keep looking! Lol I'm really easy to get along with and would do anything for friends. I expect to be treated with the same respect that I treat you with. If you screw me over, I'm done.Family means EVERYTHING to me! My kids will always come first in my life. They are all older, so I won't have them at home much longer! :( So every second with them means alot to me. They are actually the ones who set this up for me lolOk so this is who I am, and a lil bit of what I'm about. If you like what I'm about then message me. If I'm not what you're looking for, well good luck in your hunt!! For starters I will be nervous as hell!! But I'm game for pretty much anything. I'd prefer to do something or go somewhere that we can talk and get to know each other. If things go well, then maybe share a few kisses. But I won't give it up on the first date!! Lol

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