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Kayly, 35
United States, Ohio, Vandalia

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 01:56:26

About Me

The best thing about getting older is learning, from your past experiences and/or mistakes, exactly what you want. Knowing what you don't want is equally important.I can take constructive criticism when necessary. I am a good listener to things I should be made aware of about myself. I am always looking for ways to improve, being able to listen to things about yourself that may be difficult to hear is obviously a big part of it. Not everyone can communicate easily in their life relationships including; friendships, romantic, family, professional, etc. Communication is vital to any relationship in your life that means something. This is one of the biggest reasons my BFF is my BFF. We discuss how people don't want to hear any negative feedback about themselves. She &-improvement. I hope to find someone that is not afraid of talking. Constantly having to drag feeling or opinions out of someone important in your life is never fun. It also gets old fast.I am one that will share my feelings & I will always want to hear yours; good or not so good. If people don't communicate in life avoidable misunderstandings will occur causing unnecessary issues later. Also, just a side note: It's okay to have separate interests and space to breathe...please. Siamese twin relationships are not my thing. To each is own, but I can't understand those I see in relationships of this type. Going through each other's phones and all this other crazy stuff I hear. Whatever happened to trust? Obviously common interests are a must, but it's also okay for you to feel like going on a boat ride one night and me to feel like going to the movies. Make not mistake; While I always appreciate time with someone I care about, it's also ok to appreciate time to yourself as well. They are my babies & it's a package deal. Me with two westies on the side :) I am a big animal lover, they always keep it real. I've observed over the years that animal lovers are overall good hearted, compassionate people. Describing yourself as an animal lover, in my experience, does tell a lot about a person. I've found people that don't like animals tend to be, let's say, probably not someone I'd feel comfortable around for anything long term. To be up front right now, if you are allergic or have any other dislike for being around dogs especially, we will not work out. I nonetheless wish you the best of luck in your search. "First dates are like job interviews with drinks." - Sex and the CitySeriously, I hope not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Let me put this first dont contact me if u don't have enough money to take me out on more than a few dates and if u live at home with mommy and daddy. I'm looking for a self assured not arrogant man who has a great job and is ready to really date. My hobbies are tennis, hiking,soccer, camping, drawing, writing poetry, making jewelry, cooking, and being with my pets and volunteering.My goals in life are to go back to school and get my masters in health and human services to become an adoption agent or to get a masters in some form of sociology and criminology. I want to have my own children but also have foster children and pets. I know that sounds weird but that's what I want. Another goal is for me to finish writing and illustrating a children's It is geared towards autistic children. There aren't many books out for these children.I am not a man's' skinny blonde big boobed woman. I am short and stocky. Guys are coming on this site and seeing I have a round face an not all skinny and cheek boned and thinking I'm fat all over not true. I am built like a soccer player short and muscular not fat. Stop looking at my face and thinking cause I have round face I'm fat all over that's not true. Men u need get over yourselves and understand that not every beautiful woman is skinny with blonde hair and big boobs. Remember beauty is within and on the outside but I'm not willing to change my appearance just for u to look at me.I am unique because I am compassionate and very open minded and laid back. Im unique cause I love art and writing and want to spin all that into a children's book.I am looking for an honest, laid back down to earth, quick witted open minded man who wants a relationship only and is looking to date till it hopefully ends in marriage.My favorie movie is the goonies. I don't really have fav food but love eggplant. A first date should be simple. Go out have a drink or coffee get to know each other. I'm simple and laid back.

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