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Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    i see myself as an average type girl, looking for a genuine man. i am blessed with a wonderful circle of friends of whom i have known for decades. we have gone beyond being judgmental *** a respect and love that is unconditional. it is my hope that whomever has an interest in me, will not try to separate me from these friends, but will be a compliment to them.my perfect match will be easy to find, he will be patient and kind. he will trust me and protect me. he wont be bossy and short tempered. he will understand that relationships take time, but that time is not to be wasted. i reflect the hopes i have for a future mate in that i try to show understanding and grace when needed. i am more physically attracted to clean shaven faces..no apologies..it is that it is just my preference. its not a deal breaker..but i so enjoy touching a soft skin on a cheek or mouth.i cherish anyone that i can call my friend. on my *** have something that says " i believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends, i am surrounded by angels, i call them my best friends." its about love folks that's it. period. the real thing, not that fake stuff, and i hope someone out there knows the difference.i hope i have sparked your interest and that you would care to express it, i must insist on photos only. my rule for a first date is anything but a movie. i would much rather know more about the person i am with and watching a movie is counter productive, plus it opens the door for an awkward moment if the movie turns out to be in bad taste. i play the guitar, and more than that enjoy other people playing. i live near the beach and take walks whenever possible. i love taking dancing lessons and of course i enjoy horseback riding. my friends and i frequent movies at the naro and commadore as well as the art galleries in olde town. i so love taking the ferry from olde towne to waterside on a moonlit night when there is a cool breeze.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am finally ready to pursue finding a companion. I have a great sense of humor and hope you will too! I like checking out new places and trying new things.I am retired and would love to find someone to spend my time with. Meet and greet! The first time should be simple to see if we click!

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a very down to earth person looking for the sa me down tl earth person as I am Want to take one day at a time. Enjoy going out for dinners walks enjoys laughing.watchachin a good movie. Im a hard worker looking for someons who also works.and enjoys life. How about a cup of coffee or walk on the beach n see if we have chemistry. Have a conversation n see how it goes

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