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About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Trinity

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Passionate about life, family and friends. I welcome new ideas and different points of view. Not looking for perfection, our little quirks and imperfections can be more interesting than our attributes, to quote Anatole France...."I cling to my imperfection as the very essence of my being." Love the outdoors and anything that involves being near the water. You enjoy life's simple pleasures, value friends/family, don't take yourself too seriously, keep an open mind/heart, not afraid to show your playful side, a straightforward individual who loves deeply and appreciates the same qualities in his woman. Love cooking, if you're a cook, I don't mind sharing my kitchen with you, if you don't cook, you can be in charge of music/cocktails. Ideally, I would like to be in a relationship based on mutual respect, trust and the desire to have fun and enjoy each other's company. Music is an essential part of my life, old songs bring back great memories but I also love searching for new artists and songs that speak to my soul.I hope the man who sees "the light and the heat in my eyes" (P. Gabriel) finds me.If you view dating sites as a hobby or uncertain as to what you want, please do not contact me. I'm emotionally/physically available to explore, enjoy and share the journey with the right person by my side, you should be as well. Let's play fair, please have recent pictures, mine are from the summer/fall of ***...I like surprises, but prefer nice ones:)...The ocean is made up of dreamsI feel as one with the oceanas the ocean feels as one with the world....~~ Simple and casual....a lounge/bar where we can talk? Open to suggestions. I believe in the law of attraction....let's meet and take it from there.

  • Xiao

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love the sun and beach. I belong to a gym, walking, biking, and love to dance. I like Nascar and football. I like to be active, but also can stay home and watch a movie. I am looking for a honest, caring person to hang out with. I have had my share of crap, and not looking for games. Just want someone who is a responsible good person.

  • Idelle

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I enjoy skiing, hiking, mountain biking and rock climbing, each one takes time and some seasons I may just focus on one sport. I host a radio show on public radio called the Bluebird Show. Depends on the weather and our interests.

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