Total users: 61,852,750 Online users: 222,920
Ainsley, 52

Online

About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Harper

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi there ~ I’m single, and don’t have any children. I’m a strong, confident woman looking for a life-long partner. I’m attractive, energetic, hard-working, and in good physical shape. I'm open-minded, have a good sense of humor, and love to laugh and act goofy.I enjoy country living where I can relax and take in the quiet beauty of the environment. I’m somewhat of a homebody who enjoys gardening, cooking, crafts, and home projects. I enjoy shopping for antiques, and adore Victorian era architecture. I like all types of music (no rap), but as a child of the 60s, I'm a classic rocker at heart. I enjoy plunking around on my old upright now and then (self-fulfillment only...I don't really know how to play :)).I enjoy working out, and try to get in at least 3 workouts per week, but the goal is 5, with weekends off. Yard work, home chores, or other activities usually keep me moving on the weekends. I'm self-motivated and prefer to do my workouts at home.Some of my favorite TV shows are cooking competitions such as Chopped, Top Chef, Iron Chef America, and the Next Iron Chef. I like watching Bar Rescue, Restaurant Stakeout, Mystery Diners, Triple D, Restaurant Impossible, and the Next Food Network Star. I also like watching Gold Rush, Deadliest Catch, Dirty Jobs, and America's dumbest... I like Hell's Kitchen, Master Chef, American Idol, So You Think You Can Dance, and X-Factor. And disgustingly enough, I enjoy an occasional fix of Keeping up With The Kardashians! And no, I don't watch them all in one sitting! :)In addition to engaging in social activities with friends, I also enjoy staying in for a quiet evening at home. I love an intimate dinner & movie, romantic walks, holding hands, and snuggling up with a special person, good wine & conversation.I’m looking for someone who is confident in who he is, and knows what he wants out of life. Someone that is respectful, compassionate, and willing to give as well as receive.My ideal partner would be intelligent, have a sense of humor, and be fun-loving, adventurous & energetic. He would be open, honest, and able to share his thoughts and feelings. He would be physically active, attractive, and well groomed. He would also have a romantic side, and be able to express verbally and show physically that he cares for me. He would enjoy hanging out with me.Deal-breakers:Smoker (of anything)Kids at homeExtreme sports fanHunter (please, if you truly are a hunter, don't lie about it and say that you're not, or that you used to hunt, but don't anymore)Couch PotatoI’m not a social butterflyI’m not a book wormI’m not a dog personI’m not a sports fanI’m not a fan of huntingIf you like what you've read about me, I look forward to meeting you.**WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. Meet for coffee/cocktail, walk along the waterfront/boardwalk, or something entertaining.

  • Anisha

    Online

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I can show you love, in a tidal wave of mystery, you'll still be standing next to me, you can be my love even if the sky is falling down, I know that we will be safe and sound....I love music, well I have my favorites, I love concerts but am selective in who I bother to see these days. I like to ,relax, work out, go to movies. Although I majored in Psychology, I ended up in a much different career which involves the design of legal requirements of 401k and 403b retirement plan rules and regulations. Seeing if we hit it off, if there is chemistry, is very important. You can only really know when you are in front of a person versus on a computer. Personality is oh so important to me, a sense of humor, the smile, the eyes.

  • Onita

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have a diverse set of interests. I like to read, eat out, go dancing, or snuggle up at home with my man. I have recently taken an interest in hiking and fishing. I attended college a few years ago and received a certificate in polysomnography (sleep study). After that I went for a degree in business. I finished with a very impressive GPA and became a member of the Golden Key Society. I truly love my family and we are all very close and see a lot of each other. I have 3 grown children who are intelligent, talented,and sweet.My taste in music leans toward the oldies, but I also enjoy blues and reggae.My goal in doing this is to find someone to have as a loving companion. I'd like him to be kind, funny, intelligent, and definitely interesting.*update* I really want to find someone who is active. I don't want to give up my activities to stay home all the time. Although I like to do that too. I really want to hike and do other outdoor things. I'm open to new experiences as well.**update** I am not here looking for sex. If that's all you want then please don't waste my time. I like to have what is known as a "pre-date". Meet for coffee or drinks and see how that goes. That's all that's necessary for me, but if you insist we can go ahead and have dinner too. ;)

Follow Us: