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About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abbygael

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi, a friend told me i should try this dating site and so here I am! I am well established, and self-employed! Friends and Family are close, and my children are grown, and out on their own! At home, I like to BBQ, and tinkering in the yard, plants, and gardens are a bit of a hobby! I am looking for that special someone, and hopefully a long term relationship as a friendship grows, and who knows!***************************************PRIVACY NOTICE*****************************************[WARNING - any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.] I think a first date should be about seeing if there is any cemistry between each other, maybe a half hour or an hour, if things feel right, longer! I am a little shy at first, so it might take that long to relax enough to get to know each others personality! Maybe grab a coffee, lunch, or take a walk in the park!

  • Tawnya

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Where to begin...first of all if you are not a NASCAR fan we will not get along. I am looking for a someone who enjoys some of the same things as I do and who is age appropriate. NOT someone who needs to be by my side ***as I am a private person and do enjoy some personal space. I am NOT purfect, and I do not expect the person I am with to be, but I do try to improve. I tend to be very much a person who can take care of myself and tend to be a loner when I need to be. Since I am single I can make spur of the moment decisions to travel, shop, change my hair, move etc. I love the outdoors and am just as comfortable in jeans camping, riding horses, or motorcycles, walking the beach, going to concerts, going to sporting events, especially NASCAR, etc as I am dressing to the nines attending dinners and other social functions. And last but certainly not least, I do like to veg out and cuddle watching movies all weekend, take long moonlit walks on the beach, or just snuggling in front of a raging fire, or even being playful in the jacuzzi. I also find great pleasure in having a passionate man who enjoys massages, flavored oils, candlelight, fine wine, romantic music, and moonlight dances. I am a very loyal and romantic person and have only enough room for one man in my heart.I am NOT a smoker and will not be dating one. also if you do not have a photo posted please do not waste my time. UPDATE never thought I would have to even go here buT NO LADIES plz I am not a lesbian nor am I bi curious, so plz move on.I may not be his first, his last, or his only. He loved before, he may love again. But if he loves me now, what else matters. He's not perfect, but I'm not either, and the two of us may never be perfect together but if he can make me laugh, cause me to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, I will hold on to him the most I can. He may not be thinking about me every second of the day, but he will give me a part of him that he knows I can break- his heart. I won't hurt him, change him, analyze him or expect more than he can give. I will smile when he makes me happy, let him know when he makes me mad, and miss him when he's not there.---Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who has Survived Cancer!!!!***\***Or has died of***\\\***Cancer!!!***\\\***\\\***\\\***Put this on your***profile if you***know someone that***died of old age***looking for their***perfect match***on a dating site* * * * * * ================* * * * * * ================ PuT THiS oN uR* * * * * * ================ PaGe iF You* * * * * * ================ KNoW SoMeoNe iN THe* * * * * * ================ aRMeD FoRCeS oR To======================= SHoW YouR SuPPoRT======================= aND ReSPeCT To aLL======================= ouR TRooPS======================= a nice picnic under the moonlight sky at the beach, with some wine .. maybe a nice bonfire and a beach blanket and some romantic music

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don' t know what to say here.I think I'm a nice person. I'm friendly and out going and would like to be in a relationship or at least dating. I have found online dating difficult. But I recently heard from a friend that she found a nice guy on meetville. So I giving it a try.I enjoy the outdoors. I also love football. Went to the opening day of training camp for the Seahawks it was a blast! Coffee. See if we're a match.

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