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Alise, 33
United States, New Jersey, Mays Landing

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About Me

Well I have become pretty fed up with plenty of fish and all that it brings. However, I guess there is a part of me that believes that the right one could be out there. I guess anything is possible!I might just as well be real because on the off chance that I reply to a message, you might just as well know the good, the bad, and the ugly.I guess I would describe myself as overly ambitious and extremely competitive. I am perfectionistic about the goals I set forth for myself but I am actually messy when it comes to my clothes laying around etc.... there is no real order to my living space. I always feel that I rather be reading or doing something more productive then cleaning.I am blatantly honest, stubborn most of the time, but am always willing to think outside the box and am open to suggestions and problem solving measures that others provide.I have a high sense of integrity and moral ethics so I generally follow the golden rule: " do on to others as you would want them to do onto you". I would say that I am quite kind to others but assertive as a leader. I am down to earth and pretty easy going although sometimes selfish.I believe in higher education and life long learning. The world is in constant change so keep up with the pace!!!!! I think that intelligence is a very important quality. I get very irritated with incompetence and so therefore intelligence is probably the single largest predictor of my interest in a significant other. I am ridiculously smart at school but incredibly stupid when it comes to visual spatial intelligence. Other than that I practically excel in everything else.I would say I am very knowledgeable about fashion and trends. I own a lot of clothes, purses and accessories but find I am always drawn to certain clothes and purses that I use way more often then others.I do tend to be a little bit on the tom boyish side as I really only wear clothes that are comfortable, its a far stretch to ever see me in heels although it has been done on occasion, and I will NEVER have my nails done. I practically hate everything that is fake, and I am hard pressed to find anything fake about myself from the inside out. I am very talkative and energetic. It is very hard for me to sit still for too long and I like to be on the go. Although I have a lot of friends I only really have a hand full of true friends. I am extraverted to the highest level.I think I expect too much from people at times and probably explains my utter disappointment with meetville. I do great in friendships and not so well in relationships. I am a loyal person, generally fun to be around, and very trustworthy but there is something about "relationship" that freaks me out..... maybe its expectation or fear of commitment???? I don't know exactly what, but I do know that I can count on myself to rule you out as a potential partner for no real good reason. That being said I truly do look for that "wow factor" and the probability of that happening statistically, based on the last year on this site, is one in a million almost quite literally. I am easy going.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass
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