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About Me

I have a twisted, playful sense of humor (which on occasion has gotten me into trouble!). I love to smile, but moreover, I love to make others smile! Laughing is key to my life. I attempt to be athletic and maintain myself, but do not sacrifice my life to the gym. Work hard, eat right, die anyway. I don't take hours to get ready in the morning, but I can clean up and knock 'em dead when I am so inspired. I'm a pretty regular chick, whatever that means. I'm a goofball, mildly intelligent, head screwed on at least halfway, and fairly interested in breaking the molds that society says I should fit. I'll sing at the top of my lungs until I lose my breath. I'll dance with abandon until my toes are numb. I'll laugh until my face hurts. I'll talk a blue streak, and listen when necessary.I'm gonna be honest here. If you ***, and it's not in complete sentences, simply 'hi', or you use 'text speak' (ie: U R hot, wats up, hey sexy), odds are I'm going to delete your message without viewing your profile. Try to stand out, and write me something of substance. I am involved in the BDSM community. I am kinky and dominant and open about my sexuality. However, this does not equate to me being easy, or a sex-starved nymphomaniac. I will not be able to 'hook you up' with a threesome. Do not approach me as such. Rather, keep reading on. I thoroughly value respect and integrity. I have absolutely no patience for drama, pretentiousness, people who take themselves too seriously, or unjustified *** you feel the need to play games, I'm simply not interested. If I want something, I ask for it. Sometimes, if I'm so inclined, I'll just take it. And I expect the same of the people around me. You need something? Gotta tell me. I am not the Amazing Carnac. I believe that we are all the same on the molecular level, and that's really all that matters. Cocktails/coffee & conversation.A vineyard tour.Beers & wings and a sports game.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a single mother to a beautiful little girl. She is my top priority and an amazing mini human.I enjoy simple, beautiful things. Wonderful conversation, a beautifully executed meal or just a thoughtful observation. I am open to trying new things and learning.I appreciate chivalry and good manners, as that is how I was raised. Mutual respect for one another is key. I am not on this website to find a "hook up", if that is your intent then I wish you well but I'm not the gal for you.As a full time mother that also works full time,my "hobbies" are few and far between but I am able to make time to go on dates and enjoy time with the important people in my life.I do my best to eat healthy and avoid processed food when possible. I am not a"hardbody" but I enjoy looking nice and all the charms that come with being a woman. I believe that I am a caring and considerate companion...I am a catch for the right man.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Here's what I want and have decided I am not settling for less. I want a man who can see I have my plate full and is willing to love and support my stand on raising my kids. I want a man I can pray with and know when times are hard he's hitting his knees not the bar. I want a man that I'm so attracted to that my heart jumps every time I see him or hear his voice. I want a man who can love and respect my kids and realize they aren't competing for my love with them. There's no comparison. I want a man who can give me space and let me breath but hold me tight and never let me go. More than anything I want man who will understand sex is supposed to be between a husband and wife and I want the next man I give myself to, to be my husband. I'm tired of making mistake after mistake because of my weakness and lust.I want to be strong and respected for it. Not pressured because of my past or our age. I know God has this for me! I won't settle for less again in my life. Even if it means I struggle with this deep aching loneliness for years to come. I won't settle again. First dates are always interesting. However, I'd like to talk and get to know someone a little before any dates. Then we'd decide from there. I am a Southern girl and I like country. I like a good southern gentleman that can show a lady a good time the southern way. Dirt roads, fishing, walking trails, back of a pick up truck and the stars and the radio dancing in the moon light is my kind of night. If we lived closer to the ocean that would be awesome for a date but we don't and with my kids I can't go that far without making plans way ahead of time. So with all that said I don't want a nasty redneck type guy that doesn't bathe or brush his teeth. A true southern gentleman with a sweet smile and can charm the heck out of my heart is what I want... A man that can respect me and really see that I am a woman of worth and effort to get to know. I am not about a one night stand or just getting busy with it. I am worth so much more than that and I want someone to see that in me.

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