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Ohndria, 52
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

Please have a photo on your profile. I have no time for faceless chat..I feel online dating presents more possibilities of meeting someone special. In the past I usually didn't feel very secure or fulfilled, so I do not want to make the same mistake: rushing into things. *** tend to develop before ever possibly knowing each other, and I have found those relationships rarely last. I feel it is important to not have long term expectations when going into things. There are many possible reasons why someone might not be a good match and there is no way of knowing without taking time to really get to know them. I am very sensitive and passionate, and love being romanced. Dating should be fun, not so serious and heavy. There should be a spontaneous easy flow of conversation, with lots of smiling, and laughter. To me a man's smile is his best feature. It has been my experience with dating at our age that often times the conversation will tend to be concentrated around work and feels much like being on a job interview ,which usually does not leave me desiring another date. It feels icky talking about past relationships, anything beyond basic info causes me to feel bored and *** feel the need to be in the leading lady's role while on the date. And I would like to be focused on the man in front of me rather than talking about someone in the past. As much as possible I would like to keep things focused on the present, not looking back or planning the distant future. I also feel a little old fashioned when it comes to dating and want to be out with a man who knows how to be a gentleman, and who genuinely enjoys treating the woman he is out with like a lady.I would welcome a relationship, but I am not naive enough to think I know someone well enough after only a few hours to believe that they are potentially the one. I am lonely, but not desperate for companionship. I would like to go out and have fun without expectation, enjoying each others company and getting to know each other slowly. If anything comes of it then I would welcome that. If nothing grows from it we will have enjoyed ourselves a bit and possibly made a new friend. I feel adventurous and love to travel, try new things, and explore new cultures, it would be nice to spend time with someone who would also enjoy exploring and learning. I am spontaneous and feel i need someone who is fairly spontaneous as well. It makes me feel great to be with someone who has a genuine love of romance. I love being sensual, and am passionate and loving, and would like someone similar. I love holding hands, and can love kissing and cuddling. I feel that the potential for a lasting relationship is present or not from the very beginning; there is a chemistry that can be felt. Though I do realize you can grow to love without that strong connection at first I just jk not think that is what i am looking for.My children are grown, however I think it is important I point out that I am currently a foster parent of two children. This does somewhat limit my free time, and I do plan to have the children until next winter. I have a good sitter, but things do happen or come up occasionally. A coffee or lunch meet would be alright, Just a casual meet

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Funk Hip-Hop Japanese Korean History
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