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Zenobia, 55
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

Love my life but would love to share it. I believe life was meant to be shared with that someONE special, I do not believe it is ever too late in life. I do not act or feel my biological age. A lot of living to do yet. I need someone that will keep up and has an adventurous soul.There will never be enough sunsets in life. Have enjoyed enough of them alone, time to share some with someONE special that has the same appreciation for them as I. There is so much beauty in the sky and the stars. Sitting around a bon fire up at my cottage is so enjoyable, also.I am very independent and self sufficient, but not enough so that I won't accept a last love in my life. I have worked for the same company for 36 years. I am very fortunate to have missed any of the lay offs during these tough times.. Traveling (warm places) is something I love to do, again better when shared :)Hoping to find a best friend to fall in love with. Common interests are very important at this point in our lives. We don't have time to grow apart. No two people are the same and we all have some sort of issues. It is accepting someone for who they are. There will be great times and maybe a few tough ones. Accepting this fact can lead to an everlasting love.I still believe in the Happily Ever After :) Always remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That is a positive comment. Believe there is a match out there for everyone, though it seems hard to find. I just read this in a man's profile and I am going to copy it here "I don't sleep with a man that I am not in love with" (well he said woman) I work out 3 to 4 times a week and looking for a similar situation with a man. In other words height weight proportionate and works at keeping himself physically fit. Would be fun to have you join me at the gym.Please understand that if I do not reply it is nothing personal. I either don't think we are a good match or the distance is too far. Thanks for understanding in advance. :) FYI: Chat does not work for me, not sure why.Music: Classic Rock, Blues, Jazz, MotownI wish everyone the best in finding that someone special. Simple is best

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ohndria from Cape May | Woman | 52 years old | Capricorn
    Ohndria

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Please have a photo on your profile. I have no time for faceless chat..I feel online dating presents more possibilities of meeting someone special. In the past I usually didn't feel very secure or fulfilled, so I do not want to make the same mistake: rushing into things. *** tend to develop before ever possibly knowing each other, and I have found those relationships rarely last. I feel it is important to not have long term expectations when going into things. There are many possible reasons why someone might not be a good match and there is no way of knowing without taking time to really get to know them. I am very sensitive and passionate, and love being romanced. Dating should be fun, not so serious and heavy. There should be a spontaneous easy flow of conversation, with lots of smiling, and laughter. To me a man's smile is his best feature. It has been my experience with dating at our age that often times the conversation will tend to be concentrated around work and feels much like being on a job interview ,which usually does not leave me desiring another date. It feels icky talking about past relationships, anything beyond basic info causes me to feel bored and *** feel the need to be in the leading lady's role while on the date. And I would like to be focused on the man in front of me rather than talking about someone in the past. As much as possible I would like to keep things focused on the present, not looking back or planning the distant future. I also feel a little old fashioned when it comes to dating and want to be out with a man who knows how to be a gentleman, and who genuinely enjoys treating the woman he is out with like a lady.I would welcome a relationship, but I am not naive enough to think I know someone well enough after only a few hours to believe that they are potentially the one. I am lonely, but not desperate for companionship. I would like to go out and have fun without expectation, enjoying each others company and getting to know each other slowly. If anything comes of it then I would welcome that. If nothing grows from it we will have enjoyed ourselves a bit and possibly made a new friend. I feel adventurous and love to travel, try new things, and explore new cultures, it would be nice to spend time with someone who would also enjoy exploring and learning. I am spontaneous and feel i need someone who is fairly spontaneous as well. It makes me feel great to be with someone who has a genuine love of romance. I love being sensual, and am passionate and loving, and would like someone similar. I love holding hands, and can love kissing and cuddling. I feel that the potential for a lasting relationship is present or not from the very beginning; there is a chemistry that can be felt. Though I do realize you can grow to love without that strong connection at first I just jk not think that is what i am looking for.My children are grown, however I think it is important I point out that I am currently a foster parent of two children. This does somewhat limit my free time, and I do plan to have the children until next winter. I have a good sitter, but things do happen or come up occasionally. A coffee or lunch meet would be alright, Just a casual meet

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  • Ashleigh from Cape May | Woman | 51 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I\'m a little old fashioned, sentimental and sweet. I like cooking, small gatherings, local art and wine festivals. I need the right person to build a life with, someone to rely on.

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  • Sharan from Cape May | Woman | 55 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Im down to earth, easy going. honest and caring. I love taking long walks, and hikes, fishing, camping, anything outdoors. I like to stay active. I love good old rock and roll. I don't mind some country, but prefer my easy listening rock.I also love watching the Packers. I'm Looking for a nice guy who is honest and will appreciate me for who I am inside and out(and that doesn't mean I'm ugly :) I'm intelligent & happy with who I am. I have a huge heart and would like to share it with someone special. I'm a huge giver and like to spoil those around me. I'm a very optimistic & happy person. I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. Sparks must fly. We should meet for a cup of coffee or a beer and see if there is any chemistry, If we decide to go on a date, the perfect first date would be out for a quite dinner at a cozy restaurant with a bottle of wine. My date would open doors for me and be a perfect gentlemen. We would then go to a peaceful quite nook where we can talk til all hours. If there are sparks, it would be perfect. If not we both move on.

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