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Neta, 53
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much, Fear Little ... be impeccable with your word, always do your best, act in spite of your mood, succeed in spite of anything, and never give up. Those are just some of the things that are important to me, and how I try to live my life. I am mostly upbeat and happy, successful, confident, down to earth, like things drama free, but I can be a brat sometimes too! Have been known to hug a few trees ... just because it feels good. I am spiritual, not religious. Being God fearing, is just NOT something that I buy into. I enjoy spending time at home alone, getting out in nature, taking long walks with my dog, and hanging out with family and friends. I practice and teach yoga several times a week. Believe that health; alignment of body, mind & spirit - is the gift of yoga. Enjoy a good glass of wine as well as an occasional beer or other beverage. I also enjoy camping and nice hotels, hiking, snow shoeing, water skiing, snow skiing (a little easy down hill and cross country), fishing, parasailing, snorkeling, swimming, lake kayaking, cooking, travel by plane or on a road trip, art, museums, the zoo, gardening, painting, live music, theater, dancing, good movies ... have always been willing to try just about anything at least once. Including walking on hot coals! You should be kind, compassionate, considerate, honest, emotionally available, successful in life and nonjudgmental.’t you? Your character and integrity are probably the most important factors to me. Plan on taking it slow, being my friend first, and then - well we’ll just have to take it from there and see where it goes. Message me if you have more to say than just ... Hi. Let's chat ... How was your day? ... Hello gorgeous ... and the like. Messages lacking substance will be *** don't want to just chat about my day! After a brief phone conversation, and assuming we click at that level, let's meet and see if we click. If we exchange a few *** moving forward, I'm good with that too.Here are some other likes/favs you may want to know about ... Books: The Four Agreements (it's required reading!), The Peaceful Warrior, Making Friends with Death, Like Water for Chocolate, The Alchemist, Eat Pray Love, Under the Tuscan Sun and many more.Music: A wide variety ... Jazz, Blues, Rock, Slam Grass, Folk, Classical, Motown, Oldies. Not very much of a fan of new country music or rap, but I have heard both that I don’t mind too much.Food: I'm pretty particular about what I put in my body. Some favorites cuisines are: Asian, Italian, French, Tex-Mex, Indian, Moroccan, Ethiopian, Spanish, Vegetarian. I love to cook and have fun in the kitchen! Fast food doesn't do it for me, I have been a member of Slow Food.Shows: Love Cirque Du Soliel!Movies: Legends of the Fall, Big Fish, Moonstruck, Dances with Wolves, The Green Mile, O Brother, Where Art Thou?, Avatar, The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, Life of Pi, Slumdog Millionaire Open for anything that might be comfortable for both of us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bowling
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