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About Me

I'm still a little freaked out about the idea of online dating but I realize dating in general is difficult for me. I have been in a few long term relationships with people who were friends first but never had to try being set up on blind dates or the whole bar thing. Between work and spending time with my kids, I haven't had a lot of opportunity to meet new people so I'm going to try to stick this out a little bit longer. I have a great job as a manager but it is usually pretty demanding and to do the job well, I need to put in extra hours. The flexibility and loving what I do makes the extra stress worth it. I also have a part time job which I don't find stressful but I would describe as pretty mentally draining. Being a Social Worker with a forensic/psychiatric focus leads to a constant focus on boundaries and keeping a professional only relationship with people (which is another reason the whole online thing freaks me out - I've already seen coworkers, I'm afraid to see former clients). I feel that one of my strengths at work is that I am able to enjoy helping people who can be viewed by many as not deserving of help. So it's nice to have someone to vent to and be totally myself with outside of work. It's also nice to have someone to tell me to stop my whining and get over it when I'm overthinking things. I enjoy a sarcastic remark to make laugh at myself. I am a caretaker in so many areas of my life and think I do a decent job at managing all the chaos but I do realize that I need to exercise regularly and force myself to have a social life when I'm not with my kids so I can keep a level head and stay positive. I play on a volleyball team once a week now and I've been reconnecting with old friends I've seen less and less of over the years. I love day trips with the kids or with friends -;festival" that involves hanging out outside with some live music and food and I enjoy spending time with my extended family. I love to cook but will complain about cleaning so I admire a man with a little bit of OCD and the energy to work on projects around the house. I am really looking for someone who I love hanging out with and is accepting of everything that comes with kids and a busy schedule.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Gardening Canadian Chinese Italian Spanish Drag Racing Golf
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