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I'm still a little freaked out about the idea of online dating but I realize dating in general is difficult for me. I have been in a few long term relationships with people who were friends first but never had to try being set up on blind dates or the whole bar thing. Between work and spending time with my kids, I haven't had a lot of opportunity to meet new people so I'm going to try to stick this out a little bit longer. I have a great job as a manager but it is usually pretty demanding and to do the job well, I need to put in extra hours. The flexibility and loving what I do makes the extra stress worth it. I also have a part time job which I don't find stressful but I would describe as pretty mentally draining. Being a Social Worker with a forensic/psychiatric focus leads to a constant focus on boundaries and keeping a professional only relationship with people (which is another reason the whole online thing freaks me out - I've already seen coworkers, I'm afraid to see former clients). I feel that one of my strengths at work is that I am able to enjoy helping people who can be viewed by many as not deserving of help. So it's nice to have someone to vent to and be totally myself with outside of work. It's also nice to have someone to tell me to stop my whining and get over it when I'm overthinking things. I enjoy a sarcastic remark to make laugh at myself. I am a caretaker in so many areas of my life and think I do a decent job at managing all the chaos but I do realize that I need to exercise regularly and force myself to have a social life when I'm not with my kids so I can keep a level head and stay positive. I play on a volleyball team once a week now and I've been reconnecting with old friends I've seen less and less of over the years. I love day trips with the kids or with friends -;festival" that involves hanging out outside with some live music and food and I enjoy spending time with my extended family. I love to cook but will complain about cleaning so I admire a man with a little bit of OCD and the energy to work on projects around the house. I am really looking for someone who I love hanging out with and is accepting of everything that comes with kids and a busy schedule.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Porsha

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am at a point in my life where, as much as I still enjoy a few drinks and dancing with my friends at a bar, I am over meeting guys in the bar scene and want something more. I am an honest, genuine, fun-loving girl! I believe in good morals and have an awesome group of family and friends who are very important to me! I am driven and professionally motivated. I have a good job that I take very seriously and work hard at. I am physically active. I work out several times a week and take weekly ballet and yoga clases. However, I believe that one of the main benefits of working hard is that you get to spend the rest of your time enjoying life! I love going out to eat or going for drinks with friends. I like sporting events and tailgating. I love to travel all over, especially to tropical destinations. I like adventures and I'm usually up for trying new things, places, and types of food. But I also often enjoy a nice relaxing night in to read a book or watch a movie and some TV. I love to sleep in on weekends when possible. I am independent and can take care of myself. But I also really enjoy companionship and am looking for someone who can be my best friend and share all of my favorite things with me. I am looking for someone who enjoys going out to eat, grabbing a drink on weekends, hanging out with friends, and traveling. My perfect match would be kind, thoughtful, and responsible. I love to laugh - so he would have a good sense of humor and would appreciate sarcasm :)If you want to know anything else, just ask

  • Ascelina

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    ; I'm happy to explore anywhere I haven't been.; see as much art as I possibly can. I paint & write. I dislike punctuation unless it is required for meaning; I use it here for the ease of the reader, when I write I dont punctuate until the editing phase. I'm a work out junkie & health is very important to me. I like all kinds of music from rock to hip hop & everything in between; concerts are probably my favorite thing to do.+ the machine. I'm working on finishing my BA in psychology while on the ***grind. I read quite a bit Kurt Vonnegut Jr, William S. Burroughs, H.P LoveCraft & I also enjoy flea markets, dive bars, urban exploration, hiking in the wilderness, the ocean & being active in general, if you sit on a computer or stare at your phone all the time move on I am not for you. I have never done online dating & I am skeptical but my work & busy schedule makes meeting people difficult so I am trying it out. I want a man with his business together; most importantly, his emotional business (having finances in order is a bonus). Must be health conscious & work out or have a physically demanding job. I want someone independent not codependent. Someone able to take care of themselves who doesn't need a relationship to be happy, who for the most part is happy with their life & works on whatever they aren't happy about. I'm not into people who are uptight or get fussy about little things I need a guy who is laid back not because Im a wreck but because I really hate complaining over things that dont matter.If you've made it this far here are some other things: If you are addicted to alcohol or drugs do not contact me. I would never go on a date with someone who refers to women as ****es or whores in their profile I don't care what your ex did to you don't take it out on women as a whole you don't need a woman you need a shrink.Any guy who refers to themself as a good guy is most likely an ***hole stop now, do not message me. Fragile egos need not apply. The words "drama free" are a pretty huge red flag because I am fairly certain it translates to "you are not allowed to have feelings that aren't feelings I like" any relationship with a person has a certain amount of drama to it life is fairly dramatic if you mean nonreactive or reasonable say that *** I don't message you back give me time don't message me again. Let's do something interesting dinner and a movie are for people who already know each other. Meeting for coffee or something is good.

  • Roseline

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi

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