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Toya, 33

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About Me

Hi:-) . I'm a simple girl, strong and positive looking for a strong, positive, generally happy guy with an open mind and sense of humor. I am a divorced mother of two happy kids ages 6 and 3 with whom I share custody with their father. Obviously it is important for me to find someone who is able to deal with the best interest of my kids . I love all kinds of music and if I could be outdoors every second I would!.I'm sick of headganes, I'm in my 30's now, and I don't have time to play pretend ...I'm confident, funny, and just want to enjoy LIFE with no drama and to continue to learn and grow .....and one more thing..I don't care how attractive you are, if you decide to message me it better not just say "hi" OR "'Hi how are you"' ,because I won't even look at your profile if you can't come up with something better than that. Sorry...but that kind of unoriginality turns me wayyyy off..show me you are different than everyone else. That's what I'm looking for.Warning..I am extremely open minded.and by open minded I mean FREETHINKER..so stop asking me " what I mean by Open Minded..you pervs. ..if you are close minded or super religious please do not bother, no offense. And if you don't have a picture I will not even read your message. I get over 50 of them a day..do u really think I have time to guess what you look like? :-) With all that said, I really am a sweet girl just have to be REALLY specific on this site..which I use mainly for my entertainment. If you think you are strong enough for me ..shoot. Just meet for a drink but open minded to almost anything, except the movies. The movies make a horrible first date because you can't have a conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Conception

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a fun person with A huge heart. I have a 10 year old special needs son that is my world. :). Just tired of bein hurt n let downTired of people that play games with others emotions. It a messed up thing and if that's fun to u- keep fishing .... I'm a huge hearted person and tired of being taken advantage ofTired of "boys" trying to be men. Treat a woman with respect not like trash Just a fun time

  • Susanna

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a fun outgoing person who loves to travel and also nights in watching movies. I am tired of finding the wrong one and ready to find a guy who wants to find someone to share life with. I am honest and caring and love to give and do for others. I am always the one planning things and enjoy when someone else takes over to plan for me. First date can be informal. Coffee or drinks to get to know each other.

  • Ayeesha

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Yeah, so, never really know what to write here. Tried the online thing before with good and bad results and figured what's the harm in trying again. If there's something you want to know, ask me. If I don't reply to you right away, don't get all angry, I work night shift. If you've never worked it, it's hard to understand my schedule but I'm not a rude person, I just might not have the energy to spend the time online/on the phone at that time.I'm smart, focused, independent, funny, caring and most importantly, honest. I own my home, own my vehicle and have a great job. I don't need you to be rich, I just need you to be ambitious and have some kind of goal for your life. As far as what I enjoy doing.. well, I can be convinced to do ALMOST anything once. I love concerts, whether it's at a ***person or ***person venue. I enjoy all types of music from dance to popular music to metal. I do have a small tattoo with plans for more, so if that is something that turns you off, your loss. I like to travel and love to explore new places, even if they're only an hour away.Good luck in your searches. If you don't find what you're looking for, I'm sure you'll at least find a funny story to tell your friends.I find it pretty sad and quite silly that I have to actually write this in my profile, but ... We will NOT be having our first meeting at my house. Or your house. If you can't understand why that's not OK, then I don't know what to tell you. It's happened multiple times and it's getting old. There are tons of lovely places for us to be on neutral ground to get to know each other. Thanks for understanding (or not). Keep it simple.

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