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Kristian, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

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About Me

Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I like adventure and spontaneity. Life is too short and too damn serious.... have fun and enjoy the ride! Looking for energetic guy that is over playing games and knows what he wants. I am a quality girl looking for a great guy that has his head on straight. I have a lot of energy and enjoying life and all it offers these days. I never thought life would look like this today but I am glad it does! I feel fortunate to have the life I have but sometimes think it could be missing something. As for intent I don't like any of the choices provided on this site. I'm looking to date and eventually develop into something overtime but no pressure right off the bat. But definitely not here just to just hook up so if that's ur mo keep moving. I have a great laugh and I love to use it. I can be silly and goofy and would love someone to be right there with me on the same page. If you are all serious all of the time....probably not the best match for me...unless you are looking for someone to drag the FUN out of you...because I will! Id Love to find A playful guy n compatibility is key but not always easy to find. My ideal guy could be described as Clean cut, ambitious, stylish, solid character with an edge. Bonus points if u speak Spanish! I work out daily. Mostly run the bay by my house. I love it...it keeps me sane. Other than that I go to the gym or take an occasional hike. I would like "my guy" to share this athletic lifestyle but don't want a guy that lives at the gym either. Balance guys!! I don't want to have to compete with the gym to spend time with my guy. I believe in forever love and hope that I am lucky enough to find it. My parents are still happily married and I would like to follow their example.A fav quote..."a real woman can do it by herself....but a real man won't let her."That quote nicely sums up me and the man Id like to find...something short and sweet to test the waters.

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  • Jack from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 35 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm an honest, passionate person. I'm not afraid to say what I think and know how to have a good time. I'm successful and driven, always go after what I want. I'm girly, yet will go out and hunt/fish and love nfl and ufc. I love to travel, I love warm weather. I am a single mom of one little girl who is my world. Its very important to me that a man loves kids and understands that she will always come first. I like to be spoiled occasionally, but am not high maintenance. I'm very independent and can take care of myself, but its nice to feel taken care of from time to time. Things I like: reading, shopping, sushi, wine, scuba, too many reality tv shows, True Blood.Some of my favorite places: Belize, Cabo, Colombia (most recent trip ~ Yumm, Wow, I'm looking for a lover (gag!), etc...) A little effort goes a long way. There's my honesty for you :)

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  • Annabelinda from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 32 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm a newly single mother of 2 young children. I'm just finding out who I am as a person, mother, woman etc. This road is scary and exciting at the same time. I love to cook, laugh, dance and surround myself with positive people who are far from any drama. I can hang with the boys but I'm a girl who loves to dress up. I'm a hard worker and I take care of those I love. I feel music a great way to express one's self without using many words. The radio or iPod is always on in my home. I'm looking to meet people who are just down to earth and who are positive fun loving people.

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