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Kristian, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

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About Me

Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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