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Kristian, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

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About Me

Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Jerrie

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello Gents, I am just sick of games, so now I am just looking for fun! I am looking for a friend that just wants to have fun by traveling, boating, dancing, ski doos, snowboarding, working out, hiking, vegas, movies, shopping, bowling, amusement parks, and PRETTY MUCH ANYTHING ADVENTUROUS(that's not illegal LOL). I am not interested in just a booty call or any naked pictures in my e-mail. I am 35 years old and I have a 5 year old daughter who I have sole custody of, but I have absolutely no problem with getting baby sitters. I have been hurt in the past and now am just wanting fun. I am a female vocalist and have a very small recording studio which I am trying to learn my software and *** is my passion and I do listen to music quite a bit and am usually changing the music often. If you're looking for the same, just contact me with your true intentions and please don't be offended if I wanna chat through text and talk for a little bit while I get to know you. A good first date would be probably dinner or a drink somewhere. Starbucks is also a good day date. Just about anywhere where I can hear you!

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  • Matilde from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 34 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm a outdoors chick,like to be in the mountains! I'm not a city girl. I love all music, and enjoy hangin-out just doing whatever,I'm not high maintenance but have ex pi expectations..as I preferre u also do. Oh lord I believe 1st dates should be more relaxed.... Not a show, or added stress...

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  • Bettyann from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 32 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Me? really, do I have to talk about myself? lol..I am a fun loving, adventurous, spontaneous women. I love trying almost anything once, just to say I tried it. I have goals and aspirations, as I would hope you would too. I love my family, and so should you. Family to me is very important, I would do anything for them. I love all types of sports, one being Football, and basketball. We can talk about teams later..lol I think what sets me apart from others is my willingness to go far in life. Education is very important to me, I strive to make myself a better person each and everyday that i am able to wake up and smell the coffee. =). I would like to create a family of my own one day, and raise my children with the same morals and values as I did. I love different types of music, but the one that really gets me is music with a beat, something that gets my body moving. I like to cook, although I don't really get to do much of it. I love to bake. Ok so enough about me, lets hear about you..=) Coffee, a lounge/bar atmosphere. Please don't take me to the movies, I want to be able to enjoy the movies and not have to comepte with your voice and the movie as well..lol

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