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Kristian, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

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About Me

Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-35

    Hi! My name is Blackrose. I am separated other caucasian woman with kids from Sneads Ferry, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Bella from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 33 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am looking for love...my love...one love...for life....but till I find this great and wonderful man I want to enjoy life and good sex till that perfect day comes where I am both loved and wanted as a wife and life partner by the man I want to care for with all my heart and soul. The man that gets me gets a great womanI just have not met the man yet that loves and wants me with all his heart. I am a great cook and love to BBQ and camp out under the stars. ( my tent lives in the car) I have great business skills and will always back my man and his work. You and I fall in love and life....is good. I for one think being an old lady all alone sounds like a bad end to all my wild youthful escapades. Maybe settling down has a value not honored by our generation..but merits some more review... a good fit for me is someone who loves an emotionally deep woman without male drama and is calm spirited and maybe even a little shy..Who am I?. The passions I have in this life is for connecting to people from the heart, giving back to this world in joy and wisdom, and....I am a creator that produces stories, services, products, and concepts devoted to helping change the world for the better! I am a writer and just got into Real Estate, which I love. I am a mother of a hot blooded, music loving 11 year old daughter. She is my everything and anyone coming into my life has to take us a a package deal. Here is the catch though, I am really gun shy right now. I really got played and it left me feeling very afraid to ever open up again. So my mister wonderful has a big job of healing my heart with true trender care and not just selfish male intentions. I am very old school... a real family woman and so I want an OLDER MAN PLEASE. I want to be taken care of because to be a real woman you need the time to care for your home and those in it. I am OLD FASHIONED. I am of the mind that behind every great man is a great woman. I am a great woman and I need a great man. So I ask a few questions...How do you treat your exs? how do you break up...whats your style? Have you ever cheated in a long term relationship before? Do you believe staying in love takes active daily work? Do you really enjoy ladies company or just use them for ten quick minutes? Do you live by some motto or male creed? do you honestly think men should care for women since men ARE the stronger sex? Do you think a woman should hold down a 40 hour work week....parent in between...have sex....cook and clean, all on no sleep? Do you work your woman to the bone or want to keep her comfortable so she can care for you longer and with more energy? Did you have a man in your life, like my own grandfather,a doctor that cared for his woman through good and bad till the day she died...only then would he allow himself to fall ill to his long present mental illness held under check by his need to be the man and care for his lady. True love guys...I date till then...and I date as much and as many people as I want. So if you want to just test the waters you can still hit me up. Just think though....do you really like sex...I mean a lot....because with one person and in a soild partnership, well that is the time you get the MOST sex...the kind you take because its always there for you.....ONE NIGHT STANDS NEVER BRING WITH THEM SUCH SEXUAL PEACE. Men who are afraid of long term sex are really afraid they will never be able to get it up all the time. You better be ready to stand attention long term or we wont last a week. Dancing at a club and dinner at my house! key noote.....I am ***friendly so if thats not cool please pass me up.

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    Woman. 69 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 55-73

    Hi! My name is Lvwrgn9. I am widowed spiritual but not religious caucasian woman with kids from Sneads Ferry, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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