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Kristian, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

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Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Charleen from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 31 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I love all kinds of music, church, beach, traveling, dancing, reading, photography, camping, and hanging out with friends & family. I need someone who can remain calm and help devise a solution.

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  • Libbie from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 31 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Why in the hell does no one respond to messages does no one now a days know what manners are? If your not intrested and someone sends you a message the polite thing to do is say so.....that being said im an outgoing out spoken fun anti drama no bullsh*tmother of 3 I'm. ***% loyal I dont do one night stands and I cant do friends with benifits lol im looking for someone to get to know and start a relationship with I love sports camping fishing hunting music dancing but MOST of all I LOVE spending time with my kids :) im looking for Someone who loves the outdoors frendly kind funny honest but most of all I want a family man..I have 3 AUDORABLE kiddos that mean the world to me go BIG or go the f*ck home thats the way it is with me its ALL or NOTHING :) I have 15 tatoos but that dosnt mean im a horiable person you should get to know me before you make a judgment about me ;) I HATE people that assume I'm not out for the games and the bullsh*tif your going to talk to me and you say you want to be my man...then let's fu*king do this don't be rude and lead me on that's a load of sh*t I want someone who can put there money where their mouth is and step the fu*k up...if I ever have a problem I will tell you not just leave you hanging just getting to know someone would be nice movies or dinner maybe a hike or something

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  • Sheridan from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 31 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hi. I am a single gal looking for a fun loving guy. I enjoy going out to the movies or out to eat. I currently spend most of my free time helping my sick mother at home. I love to listen to classic rock music and enjoy seeing concerts of them and of their tribute bands. I also enjoying going to the local casino, usually with my Dad, and playing the penny slot machines for fun. I am my parents only child and am looking for someone to go out with and see where it goes from there. I consider myself to be a pretty open person and I don't judge a book by its cover. My ideal first date would be meeting for a nice dinner and getting to know each other with a good conversation. Followed by a movie, then a nice walk on the beach where we can be alone for a little while.

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