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Aretha, 35

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About Me

Am I suppose to sell myself here! Tell you everything about me is great! I'll leave that up to you to decide!!!! Well. I'm here for the same reason as everyone else, I think! I admire honestly, and loyalty, someone who can make me laugh, and inspiring and intellectual conversation. I offer the same in return! I am an independent woman, and being a mother is one of the most important jobs I have! I am grateful for the unconditional love from family and friends! I love my career. It's only just begun. I dream big, and I believe in making them a reality. I have high hopes for myself and my career and have no problem doing it all on my own! I am looking for a friendship first, cause that is the best kind of love. One whose foundation begins there and grows to include passion, love, loyalty and trust!!! Each of us offer an experience if nothing else, an opportunity to learn about ourselves by getting to know one another. A learning experience if you will."Don't take life, or yourself for that matter, too seriously" enjoy what life has to offer and be mindful of how you contribute to the overall happiness and fulfillment in your life. I want someone, I don't need someone! Happy fishing!P.S. Just so you all understand. I do appreciate all your complimentary messages but if I don't respond, please don't take it offensively, as I won't. Also, I don't mean to sound rude but please don't contact me if you don't at least have a profile picture! You wouldn't have messaged me if I didn't! This is a dating site and there should be a mutual attraction. Right?!?! Good luck!!!!! Anything but coffee! No really, I drink coffee when I need to wake up. Not a great way to begin a date! Lets plan something, together!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • January

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Lets see. Since the last guy i dated could not understand this i better start here. I am a chick who does NOT get along with most other chicks. Reason being girls are the most fake lieing back stabbing all about their high maintenance asses then men. There is two out of ten chicks that can be straight up honest no bullsh*tgot your back ****es. Those two ****es are the ones that will be mobbing with me when we are all out having a good time making some memories and laughs. I have friends that are chicks. Just not that many of them. Lol So on that note. I have endured a broken heart, been lied to, cheated on, punched in the mouth, taken for granted, used and abused by many who said they loved me. Ive heard all the lines, all the tit for tats, Ive watched as the love of a life time and best-friend turn his back and walk out and never look back. There is nothing you can say to me good or bad that i haven't heard already. Ive laid under the stars and cuddled with a slight breeze n felt the love and trust. Ive cleaned the vomit up on drunken night for him Ive taken the wrath of a bad day of work or an pissed off mood. I have been treated like a goddess queen and spoiled to the core. I'm not one who lives in the past or dwell on it either. I am a strong believe that before you can have an intimate meaningful relationship you have to become friends with each-other. By doing that you learn how to read each-other and communicate with each-other. It helps start the relationship off on the foot. Also talking about the past us a good thing for many reasons. The most important one is for the fact that the past is what defines us and creates who we are. I'm not here for games or drama. I'm a kewl level headed chick. I wont jump into anything to fast that's how things don't work. People get hurt breaking up in the honeymoon stage of a relationship. hanging out to see how we inter act with each-other and how our chemistry clicks is a very important thing to me. I'm looking to settle down and have a life partner, best-friend, teammate for the rest of my life. I also believe in a relationship if you are best-friends. teammates, partners than there's no reason to have a list of friends a mile long. there is nothing that could happen been said or done that you cant share with me. if there is then we need to evaluate our relationship. i have been broken and put back together i am careful not to get hurt again. but i refuse to live in fear. fear does nothing but bring negativity to life. i am positive and hope full at all times. i am very up front honest straight forward. my two favorite sayings "**** IT" and "DGAF". i will tell you about me my life my kids lives as i feel its needed or you can ask anything and i will tell you. i'm not perfect in many ways but i'm not a endless soul either. i am me. on that note if you think you can click with me we can chat. also if u get to meet my kids and they don't like you then i'm sorry but gotts to go... but don't hit me up thinking your going to get laid cause guess what NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!! until then have a spectacular day>>>>>' first date hmmmmmm all depends on what we have in common that we both would like to do together while getting to know each-other.

  • Alvera

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Looking for someone fun to hang with. Maybe someone who is familiar with the Dr. Lol.

  • Ilana

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am an independent, outgoing fun person that has a great sense of humor. I'm laid back and open minded. I enjoy hanging out with my friends and family. I mainly listen to R & B, Rap, Pop, Rock and Alternative. I'm looking to date and see what happens from there.

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