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Aretha, 35

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About Me

Am I suppose to sell myself here! Tell you everything about me is great! I'll leave that up to you to decide!!!! Well. I'm here for the same reason as everyone else, I think! I admire honestly, and loyalty, someone who can make me laugh, and inspiring and intellectual conversation. I offer the same in return! I am an independent woman, and being a mother is one of the most important jobs I have! I am grateful for the unconditional love from family and friends! I love my career. It's only just begun. I dream big, and I believe in making them a reality. I have high hopes for myself and my career and have no problem doing it all on my own! I am looking for a friendship first, cause that is the best kind of love. One whose foundation begins there and grows to include passion, love, loyalty and trust!!! Each of us offer an experience if nothing else, an opportunity to learn about ourselves by getting to know one another. A learning experience if you will."Don't take life, or yourself for that matter, too seriously" enjoy what life has to offer and be mindful of how you contribute to the overall happiness and fulfillment in your life. I want someone, I don't need someone! Happy fishing!P.S. Just so you all understand. I do appreciate all your complimentary messages but if I don't respond, please don't take it offensively, as I won't. Also, I don't mean to sound rude but please don't contact me if you don't at least have a profile picture! You wouldn't have messaged me if I didn't! This is a dating site and there should be a mutual attraction. Right?!?! Good luck!!!!! Anything but coffee! No really, I drink coffee when I need to wake up. Not a great way to begin a date! Lets plan something, together!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristian

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

  • Janene

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Beep, beep boop... Whoohoo good weather ahead :D This is the best time of year! Time to bake all kinds of yummy things, go camping, fishing, get outdoors and get out in the mountains and hike a bit. I'm super happy fishing at a quiet lake or laying around looking at the clouds in the afternoon or the stars by a campfire at night. I'm fairly introverted, and prefer to stay in or with family or with close friends whose company I truly enjoy. I have a son, and he's awesome. He's smart and such a good kid. He gets good grades, follows directions, doesn't whine or complain, and is polite and caring. Was in the service for several years and lived in Europe and loved it. I love Boondock Saints, Tarantino movies, Grumpier Old Men, Snatch, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Return to Me, An Affair to Remember, The Notebook, Across the Universe, and Masterpiece Classics on PBS/BBC.I'm not perfect, and I'm sure you're not either. I'm fairly shy, love harmony, a bit chubby, very cuddly, poor, easy to make happy, peaceful, and dont go to a church, or a gym. I dont have a job other than being a mom right now. I'm doing some physical therapy at the VA hospital for a spinal injury and taking some classes there. I dont follow what other people do, and think for myself. I just am what I am, and I want to find an actual sweet guy to enjoy time with that makes time to just relax and cuddle up with me and if it works... cool. :D If not, there's always someone else who will like me. I'm a chick, it's really not that hard for me. I'm as nice to you as you are to me. I dont know what the future holds, but if you're not good to me, I dont stick around. If you are good to me, you'll never find anyone better to you. Simple. haha Life is better for everyone when it's simple.End transmission. Boop beep boop...

  • Nubia

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a 31 year old female. I am currently working at an animal hospital. I would someday like to move on from this. I am currently trying to get my vet assistant cert online. I love country music and all that goes with it. I guess u could say I have little redneck in me . Well, it does not have to be some fancy dinner or night club. I am very happy just finding someplace to sit and talk or whatever.

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