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About Me

"When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain" ~~~~Interested in a secure, intelligent, confident, successful, passionate, honest, well-traveled friend-lover-confidant with a great sense of humor! Emphasis on passionate, honest, confident, funny, intelligent, etcetera. **please DO NOT message me with "hi", " hey there" or call me baby, honey, sweetie..etc. if you're unable to say something more to start with...please pass me by. Me:Intensely laid back and yet very driven professionally (Sales and Marketing-healthcare). Love entertaining and laughing with friends and family. Have much to be grateful for. If you use the words "average" or "ordinary" to describe yourself; we are not a match. Important the guy be the guy in the relationship. Although, I have finally come around to reaching out, too. Even in the 21st century of online dating, if "divorced" is your status, please do not contact me unless you are thoroughly divorced. If seperated, just say so and that doesnt mean seperated for the evening ;)BTW-the reason for the age preference of 7 yrs younger and only 7 yrs older is, I am often mistaken for much younger than my actual age(good genes and I take great care of myself) and I won't lie about my age; as many do on this site.I am asked often why the age discrepancy on my profile. My preference, is just that. No hard and fast rules... However, age can be somewhat irrelevant as it's mostly a state-of-mind; just my opinion. Physcial attraction is important, hence current photos required. While I never imagined myself resorting to an on-line site to re-build my love life again, it seems it could be a vehicle for us busy people...and worst case scenario....I'll make new friends. From there, if something further should develop romantically, then I'll consider myself a lucky girl. Attraction and chemistry is obviously a must for us all, so here goes......... My likes; Travel (non business), laughing, NFL Sundays in bed with or without champagne, movies, being on the back of a Harley with a fun, safe, and sexy guy seeing all there is to see, interior design, art/art museums, landscaping, relaxing at a spa, horseraces, rodeos, architecture, wine tasting, cooking, fast cars (Monaco Grand Prix would be awesome to see) shoes, golf (used to play but love the game as a spectator too. MOST OF ALL THANKING GOD FOR ALL I HAVE TO BE THANKFUL FOR….No picture-no reply! And if you are liberal, voted for Obama or seriously considered voting for Obama, then please don't contact me. I'm not looking for a debate partner.Sorry for the reduntancy, but building this profile is a process....and I am busy ;-)., casual

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Valencia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am passionate about LIFE and try to live each day to its fullest as we never know when it is going to be our last. Therefore, it is important to keep an open heart and value every opportunity that comes our way. I place a high value on honesty, integrity, and loyalty. I have a mantra -- "Say what you mean and mean what you say." It is very simple; yet, people seem to have so much difficulty with it. I have no pretenses. Basically, what you see is what you get. I have no desire for drama, games, or lies. Family values are very important to me. I am VERY young in mind, body, and spirit. Life is an adventure, and I always try to have FUN, which, for me, is also very important! I am caring, compassionate, energetic, free-spirited, open-minded, spontaneous, and independent (but would welcome a partner in my life). I enjoy traveling, especially weekend getaways (staying in a b&b), road trip adventures, art, music, dancing, concerts, festivals, etc. I am open to almost anything as long as we are sharing it together. I am very much into health, nutrition, alternative medicine, and the healing arts. I work full-time as a family law paralegal. I am also a licensed massage therapist and Reiki practitioner. I try to practice a healthy diet and lifestyle as much as possible. Since I do not do any type of drugs, I am not interested in a man who uses recreational drugs. I do not watch television (only movies). I am an avid reader, and usually have three books going on at once. I also subscribe to many health newsletters and am a member of the Life Extension Foundation. I feel that one can never get enough knowledge or information as there is so much to learn. It would be wonderful to connect with someone on a physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual level. For me, it is not so much about looks or brains or economic status as it is about character, chemistry, and PASSION! I am NOT looking for a workaholic, or someone with a lot of rules. Flexibility and availability are important. Since I strive to live in the present, I am not looking for someone who dwells in the past, nor obsesses about the future. I would love to meet someone who shares the same mindset. I am not looking for someone PERFECT, just someone perfect for ME! An ideal relationship for me would involve a sense of humor, trust, loyalty, no possessiveness or jealousy, a mutual chemistry and playfulness, having a compromising spirit, being secure enough within each other that we can not only share mutual interests, but explore our own separate interests as well, a sharing of values and beliefs, open communication, a listening heart, and most importantly, being supportive and respectful of one another.I believe that people come into our lives for a reason. In looking back upon my life, I can honestly say that I have no regrets about the choices that I have made, as something good has ALWAYS come out of every experience. Whatever you give out, comes back to you -- good or bad! You definitely reap what you sow in life, so I try to plant lots of good and positive seeds knowing that I will be rewarded with wonderful people and opportunities that will bring much abundance, joy and love into my life.So, if any of this resonates with your spirit, I hope that I will hear from you. I am looking for someone real and genuine. Please, if you are anyone other than that, there is no need to contact me. I wish you luck in your search....may you find whoever is right for you. My idea of the perfect first "meet" would be a quiet, cozy spot where we can talk and get to know each other better. Maybe have a drink to help us both relax, since first meetings can be a little nerve-wracking.Then, hopefully, if the chemistry feels right, we can make plans for our first "real" date. P.S. I do not do meets for coffee!!!.....a) I'm not a morning person, and b) I don't drink coffee past 10:00 a.m.

  • Piety

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    .... Life's complicated enough, I'm just looking for simplicity, that feeling like you've know each other for years but still have a few surprises up your sleeve...yea, that's what I hope to find. ......I'm Easy going, honest, adventurous , passionate, compassionate, happy, classy, sassy, believer, dreamer. i enjoy traveling , baseball games, concerts, walks, cuddling up on a rainy day watching a good movie . I"m open to new adventures and whatever life has to offer and thats the kind of person i would like to meet. If you are happy, a free spirit, and you dont take this life so dead pan serious and can find time for laughter..., then I think we would enjoy getting to know more about one another, ..... Meeting to see if there is a spark,, talking and share a laugh

  • Aleen

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    What does a person say to make you think that I might be the one for you? First I guess you should know I am me and will not pretend to be someone I am not. However I can fit into most situations without any problems. I am shy at first; but give me some time and you will see the out going side of me. I am old fashion (raised that way) and I do not know if there is any one left, that is looking for that type of person. I am NOT looking for a one night stand or a friendship with benefits. I am interested in a man that is honest, loving, caring, faithful, hard working and would like to share his day to day life with his best friend. I am very much a family person, as I have a son and daughter. It is my time, I have been missing a man in my life that loves me for me and likes to share his life. I am a little out of practice on the whole dating thing but I am willing to try it to find the right man. I want someone who is excited to come home to me and me to him; to share our daily activities and to turn to when I need advice and to have fun with daily. I love the outdoors may it be taking a nature walk, watching the stars or spending the day at the pool. I also like to go to local establishments to listen to live music; I prefer old rock, pop and some country and RB, I like to go out or stay home and snuggle watching a movie or listening to music. I also like to have friends and family over just for no reason at all. If you think you may be interested let me know and we can chat to see where it goes from there.. Hope to hear from you..........Take Care. That is hard to say because I think it would depend on the person; everyone have different likes and thoughts about the first date.

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