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Zena, 54
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

"When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain" ~~~~Interested in a secure, intelligent, confident, successful, passionate, honest, well-traveled friend-lover-confidant with a great sense of humor! Emphasis on passionate, honest, confident, funny, intelligent, etcetera. **please DO NOT message me with "hi", " hey there" or call me baby, honey, sweetie..etc. if you're unable to say something more to start with...please pass me by. Me:Intensely laid back and yet very driven professionally (Sales and Marketing-healthcare). Love entertaining and laughing with friends and family. Have much to be grateful for. If you use the words "average" or "ordinary" to describe yourself; we are not a match. Important the guy be the guy in the relationship. Although, I have finally come around to reaching out, too. Even in the 21st century of online dating, if "divorced" is your status, please do not contact me unless you are thoroughly divorced. If seperated, just say so and that doesnt mean seperated for the evening ;)BTW-the reason for the age preference of 7 yrs younger and only 7 yrs older is, I am often mistaken for much younger than my actual age(good genes and I take great care of myself) and I won't lie about my age; as many do on this site.I am asked often why the age discrepancy on my profile. My preference, is just that. No hard and fast rules... However, age can be somewhat irrelevant as it's mostly a state-of-mind; just my opinion. Physcial attraction is important, hence current photos required. While I never imagined myself resorting to an on-line site to re-build my love life again, it seems it could be a vehicle for us busy people...and worst case scenario....I'll make new friends. From there, if something further should develop romantically, then I'll consider myself a lucky girl. Attraction and chemistry is obviously a must for us all, so here goes......... My likes; Travel (non business), laughing, NFL Sundays in bed with or without champagne, movies, being on the back of a Harley with a fun, safe, and sexy guy seeing all there is to see, interior design, art/art museums, landscaping, relaxing at a spa, horseraces, rodeos, architecture, wine tasting, cooking, fast cars (Monaco Grand Prix would be awesome to see) shoes, golf (used to play but love the game as a spectator too. MOST OF ALL THANKING GOD FOR ALL I HAVE TO BE THANKFUL FOR….No picture-no reply! And if you are liberal, voted for Obama or seriously considered voting for Obama, then please don't contact me. I'm not looking for a debate partner.Sorry for the reduntancy, but building this profile is a process....and I am busy ;-)., casual

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching Movies Shooting Sports
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