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I am passionate about LIFE and try to live each day to its fullest as we never know when it is going to be our last. Therefore, it is important to keep an open heart and value every opportunity that comes our way. I place a high value on honesty, integrity, and loyalty. I have a mantra -- "Say what you mean and mean what you say." It is very simple; yet, people seem to have so much difficulty with it. I have no pretenses. Basically, what you see is what you get. I have no desire for drama, games, or lies. Family values are very important to me. I am VERY young in mind, body, and spirit. Life is an adventure, and I always try to have FUN, which, for me, is also very important! I am caring, compassionate, energetic, free-spirited, open-minded, spontaneous, and independent (but would welcome a partner in my life). I enjoy traveling, especially weekend getaways (staying in a b&b), road trip adventures, art, music, dancing, concerts, festivals, etc. I am open to almost anything as long as we are sharing it together. I am very much into health, nutrition, alternative medicine, and the healing arts. I work full-time as a family law paralegal. I am also a licensed massage therapist and Reiki practitioner. I try to practice a healthy diet and lifestyle as much as possible. Since I do not do any type of drugs, I am not interested in a man who uses recreational drugs. I do not watch television (only movies). I am an avid reader, and usually have three books going on at once. I also subscribe to many health newsletters and am a member of the Life Extension Foundation. I feel that one can never get enough knowledge or information as there is so much to learn. It would be wonderful to connect with someone on a physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual level. For me, it is not so much about looks or brains or economic status as it is about character, chemistry, and PASSION! I am NOT looking for a workaholic, or someone with a lot of rules. Flexibility and availability are important. Since I strive to live in the present, I am not looking for someone who dwells in the past, nor obsesses about the future. I would love to meet someone who shares the same mindset. I am not looking for someone PERFECT, just someone perfect for ME! An ideal relationship for me would involve a sense of humor, trust, loyalty, no possessiveness or jealousy, a mutual chemistry and playfulness, having a compromising spirit, being secure enough within each other that we can not only share mutual interests, but explore our own separate interests as well, a sharing of values and beliefs, open communication, a listening heart, and most importantly, being supportive and respectful of one another.I believe that people come into our lives for a reason. In looking back upon my life, I can honestly say that I have no regrets about the choices that I have made, as something good has ALWAYS come out of every experience. Whatever you give out, comes back to you -- good or bad! You definitely reap what you sow in life, so I try to plant lots of good and positive seeds knowing that I will be rewarded with wonderful people and opportunities that will bring much abundance, joy and love into my life.So, if any of this resonates with your spirit, I hope that I will hear from you. I am looking for someone real and genuine. Please, if you are anyone other than that, there is no need to contact me. I wish you luck in your search....may you find whoever is right for you. My idea of the perfect first "meet" would be a quiet, cozy spot where we can talk and get to know each other better. Maybe have a drink to help us both relax, since first meetings can be a little nerve-wracking.Then, hopefully, if the chemistry feels right, we can make plans for our first "real" date. P.S. I do not do meets for coffee!!!.....a) I'm not a morning person, and b) I don't drink coffee past 10:00 a.m.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fishing Music Playing Cards Chinese South American Sci-Fi Sport Dance
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