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Elvira, 55
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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Please take 2 minutes to read the whole thing ..THANKS!!!Im Looking to be crazy, madly INLOVE with the right guy , that will take the relationship to the end of life!!.....Its getting cold ,,I need a real snuggler and cuddler with his big arms wrapped around me, making me feel safe and warm.I need my Babe ,,and want him to call me his Babe ...And hopefully hes so into me, and im so into him. it ends up being that relationship you envy when seeing other couples together at the park or holding hands etc...We all want that magical love!!!But part of the magic to a great relationship is loyalty, being trustworthy, honesty, be caring, be loving, be a man who knows about intimacy,be kind, be gentle, laugh with me, cry with me or at least comfort me because how ever stupid it is, its important to me ,always appreciate each other,always tell each other you love them ,,have his back as he will have yours ...all these and much more are VERY IMPORTANT TO ME ,,Ive given MY ALL in relationships only to be hurt, burnt, maybe cheated on, used, and im done with those kind of men!! Im done being used!But Im waiting for a sign ,,I havent felt it yet....But its so "unmistakable" when it happens..But here, i look at his eyes in the pics hes posted ,,I read the words he's written, and when it grabs me in a certain way ,,you will definately know it and hopefully we meet ( not at dunkins) Dinner and conversation and at a cozy nice resturant where we can talk ( A REAL DATE), and hopefully you have conversation back with me and i dont have to drag words out of you, Its the type of chemistry, that if you know if Its going to be an amazing date , it may for sure will end up in an amazingggggggg relationship.....I wish you all luck that you find that woman that gives you that unmistakable feeling, and if by the end of the date there are no sparks,( you will both know) ,, then move on to the next...but guys , im sorry ,,we want REAL DATES, not a dunkins donut and a coffee ,,..theres no impression there ,, its daytime usually, its the wrong mood , its not a DATE ..its a 5 minute meet and greet ,,there's no excitement to it ,,it sucks actually....wellllllllllThese are my real feelings on what i want in a relationship ,,I want closeness...I want him to text me during the day if he can ,,if were definately a couple ,,arouse me by that text, as i will you..heat things up!!! show her you love her ,,dont push her away when she wants to hang on you, or play with your goatee ( (Love Goatees!! lol) and show people in public , that yes ,,i love this man/woman with all my heart and soul and want everyone to know!!! Do you own a motorcycle??????Love summer riding!...have all my own gear :) but hate riding on freezing nights!! BBBBrrrrrrrrrr! but love roadtrips by car or motorcycle, exploring different hideaways, hole in the wall eateries , as in diners ,,the best!!! just being with my man having fun doing whatever it may be!Also love boating on a warm summer day, maybe even a lil fishing is cool, Lunch on the boat or in where the boats can be beside maybe a cafe ,,pretty cool...Please Be local .. I Definately dont want you living too far away!!!LOCAL to LowellGood luck to all!!!!P.S. you'll only understand this if you have kids..I have 4 and 3 are doing great! But they say there's always one ..well this is definately THE ONE, all his life! My 30 yr old son is back, ugh yea,,supposedly saving money for a new place ,,his gf and baby are at her moms...The gf is a winner too!! But im the only place he could go to, but i only have a one bedroom..so hes on a mattress on the diningroom floor...and he has 3 cats ,,yes 3 ,,im very unhappy about that, but i dont see them , so if your allergic let me know ..my son isnt here alot ,,he needs a job , long story...,god only knows how long he will be here ,,i know im his mother, and i love him ,but 30 and back home??? no need for it...I could go on forever, but i wont ,,i just pray he's finding a way out!!!!!! If this is an issue for you, let me know..... Casual Dress, Nice Jeans are good ,Its a date, Look a lil decent, as i will for you..and always do look decent...Just dont look like you just got done cleaning your backyard full of dirt and fell in a ditch!( Im speaking from experience sadly) oh brother right???...Remember,Dinner, a cozy place we can talk and get the conversation to flow to get to know each other and if passion is in both eyes ,,a lil kiss...And ill venture out to meet you Onlyyyyy after i feel that unmistakable feeling after talking here off and on... My feelings are ,, if you like me that much , you will leave me a note before work, or i will leave you a note during the day ,,it would be awesome if you were able to use a comp at work,,but we'll see..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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