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Isabel, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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Life is just too short to live without happiness, joy and love.***Update: Being stood up vs a BS text or *** came up.......If you make a date with someone and change your mind or a better offer comes up? Take a minute to shoot an *** letting the person you had made a date with that "something came up and you can't make it"......this is so much more considerate than just not showing up or anything. How would you feel if you either turned down other invitations or possibly work thinking someone wanted to spend time with you only to be treated like you were not of any value or consideration? It hurts......and it makes you look......well, not good.Think......****WARNING:** Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects. You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.About me:I have been single now for 2 years, I have dated, hooked up and been to some rather racy parties and clubs. I have had and having a lot of fun. It has left me wanting though. I am not sure how to describe myself but I will give it a shot. I am expressive and funny and I have been told very sexy. J I am very open minded and prefer being around people that are the same. I also, when I have time, Crafts, cooking, shooting pool (I suck at this but like it anyway) I like to laugh and make people laugh. I like roaming thrift stores and flea markets. In some ways I can be shy and other ways a bit of a show off. Lol. Like most women I love fresh flowers but hate roses, especially red ones. As this is a singles site I am also looking for long term friends. People that are open minded and non judgmental like myself. Folks that like getting together for a BBQ or going to shows or just hang out together. Friends that like to chit chat on the phone or text to just shoot the breeze, talk about our day or vent about that annoying co-worker if one of us had a bad day at work lol. There was one definition of a friend I had heard: A friend is someone who knows everything about you…..and loves you anyway. JWhat I am not looking for are men who are only in it for the sex. Guys that just want to come by my place jump in the sack and run out the door when its over. I may be open minded and I do enjoy sex a lot! I have had my fill of hook-ups, they leave me feeling empty and unsatisfied.I won’t say I am looking for a “relationship” but I am not avoiding one either. Everyone wants to be loved and I am no different. Even though I am very open minded and believe if I were to be in a relationship it would have to be a very open, I am still basically an old fashion girl…..I still want romance and not just sex. JIf I am looking for anyone it would be someone who: Still believes in opening a woman’s car door and pulling out her chair; Still believes that its up to a man to call and ask for a date; Still thinks that slow dancing and holding hands is a big turn on; Someone who thinks the first kiss is still a big deal and should be soft, slow, wet and last for days… Someone who still believes romance is still in style and belongs in even the most casual of relationships. I miss some of those little things from being close to someone. Like goofy text throughout the day that make me smile. Standing at the sink washing dishes when he comes up behind me to give me a gentle kiss on the back of the neck. :)FYI, I love flowers all but roses, especially red ones. I think they are lame and unimaginative. I hate the thorns too. :) I'm not sure I like the first date thing, too much presure. I would rather have a first meeting and just go very casual, somewhere for drinks where its not too loud so we can get to know each other or shoot pool. The big things should come later.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am attractive, sexy, honest, playful, happy, loyal, outgoing, intelligent, friendly, and very versatile. My greatest characteristic is my dynamic personality, followed by my great sense of humor. I am energetic and enjoy various activities, and open to trying new ones! I am a very giving person! and I am a true Scorpio! I am looking for an attractive, professional man who wants to find a special person to eventually share his life with. A man who is honest, kind, intelligent attentive, intimate, finacially secure, sincere and has a great sense of humor. Also my ideal guy would be a businessman who has class and keeps up with the latest technology. A man who takes pride in his appearance and likes to keep fit. Someone who is done being a player! and looking for that "one" special lady to date... I DONT NEED ANYMORE FRIENDS! ha! ha! I need a partner, lover, and someone who definitely is ready for a relationship with both feet on the ground. An aggressive man who knows WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE and very confident in ***WHO THEY ARE*** If you are looking to have fun and eventually have a relationship... then please reply now! What are you waiting for!PLEASE HAVE RECENT PICTURES!!!!!!! NOT PICTURES THAT ARE 5 or EVEN 10 YEARS OLD!!! ALL MY PICTURES ARE RECENT.Within every great person is the essential quality of perseverance, an unrelenting desire to find a way, to seek and find fulfillment.There’s always a way. If you can’t find it through the front door, then look through the back door. You don't have to open all of them; just make the effort of finding them, and of going the extra mile. Because that’s what opens all doors.See where you can pour more effort into something, and discover how to add elements of perseverance along the way. Yehuda Berg Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it.I am very romantic, thoughtful, giving, appreciative and would like the special person in my life to be the same. I luv, luv when a man opens the door for me or sends me flowers or takes me to a romantic candle light dinner for a special occassion. It is important to me that we are supportive of each other and appreciative for the little things in life!I love all kinds of music but my favorite music is jazz, but lately I have been listening to Jim Brickman (Destiny) it is my favorite CD and it is beautiful!!!! My favorite season is the fall. I luv, luv the beauty of fall. Crisp clear days with leaves turning colors....My favorite Holiday is Christmas...my family calls me the Christmas Bug! LoL I enjoy having Christmas dinner for everyone and giving to my family and the less fortunate, and above all Celebrate the Lords Birthday!!!! I have learned to appreciate art and have grown to love it! I just acquired my first painting from a local artist. I was not expecting to purchase it but I could not get the painting off my mind for days. Thanks De Ja Vu for the painting! WARNING: *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Where do you meet new people? I keep asking myself that question. I have been back in this area for seven years. This description section is difficult for me to write. I own my home, have wonderful friends, a good job and family nearby; however, I would enjoy meeting someone to share some good times. Even though I own several t.v.'s I rarely watch them except for an occasional movie......usually, I enjoy peace and quiet or music playing in the background. I like to be around positive people and those who enjoy being active. Dating at this time in my life, isn't exactly easy, but hey I am giving it a try. I would enjoy hearing from someone who has similar interests or can introduce me to something new and exciting. I enjoy listening to live music...so perhaps a music venue or a great cup of coffee would be a nice way to meet someone.... Or a nice long walk.

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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