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Isabel, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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Life is just too short to live without happiness, joy and love.***Update: Being stood up vs a BS text or *** came up.......If you make a date with someone and change your mind or a better offer comes up? Take a minute to shoot an *** letting the person you had made a date with that "something came up and you can't make it"......this is so much more considerate than just not showing up or anything. How would you feel if you either turned down other invitations or possibly work thinking someone wanted to spend time with you only to be treated like you were not of any value or consideration? It hurts......and it makes you look......well, not good.Think......****WARNING:** Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects. You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.About me:I have been single now for 2 years, I have dated, hooked up and been to some rather racy parties and clubs. I have had and having a lot of fun. It has left me wanting though. I am not sure how to describe myself but I will give it a shot. I am expressive and funny and I have been told very sexy. J I am very open minded and prefer being around people that are the same. I also, when I have time, Crafts, cooking, shooting pool (I suck at this but like it anyway) I like to laugh and make people laugh. I like roaming thrift stores and flea markets. In some ways I can be shy and other ways a bit of a show off. Lol. Like most women I love fresh flowers but hate roses, especially red ones. As this is a singles site I am also looking for long term friends. People that are open minded and non judgmental like myself. Folks that like getting together for a BBQ or going to shows or just hang out together. Friends that like to chit chat on the phone or text to just shoot the breeze, talk about our day or vent about that annoying co-worker if one of us had a bad day at work lol. There was one definition of a friend I had heard: A friend is someone who knows everything about you…..and loves you anyway. JWhat I am not looking for are men who are only in it for the sex. Guys that just want to come by my place jump in the sack and run out the door when its over. I may be open minded and I do enjoy sex a lot! I have had my fill of hook-ups, they leave me feeling empty and unsatisfied.I won’t say I am looking for a “relationship” but I am not avoiding one either. Everyone wants to be loved and I am no different. Even though I am very open minded and believe if I were to be in a relationship it would have to be a very open, I am still basically an old fashion girl…..I still want romance and not just sex. JIf I am looking for anyone it would be someone who: Still believes in opening a woman’s car door and pulling out her chair; Still believes that its up to a man to call and ask for a date; Still thinks that slow dancing and holding hands is a big turn on; Someone who thinks the first kiss is still a big deal and should be soft, slow, wet and last for days… Someone who still believes romance is still in style and belongs in even the most casual of relationships. I miss some of those little things from being close to someone. Like goofy text throughout the day that make me smile. Standing at the sink washing dishes when he comes up behind me to give me a gentle kiss on the back of the neck. :)FYI, I love flowers all but roses, especially red ones. I think they are lame and unimaginative. I hate the thorns too. :) I'm not sure I like the first date thing, too much presure. I would rather have a first meeting and just go very casual, somewhere for drinks where its not too loud so we can get to know each other or shoot pool. The big things should come later.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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