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Aiah, 54
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making German Greek Thai
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