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Aiah, 54
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making German Greek Thai
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    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like to walk my dog and spend time with my grown children. I love to bake, read, go out dancing with my girlfriends, love to dance actually. I ride my bike. I spend time with my cousins. Oh and I like movies, scary, action drama,comedy, not usually romantic, but will do romantic comedy. The music I like varies I like all kinds except country, really. I enjoy working in my flower beds, I have a very nice area it's my oasis at home actually.loved to hike out there. It is so beautiful. I'm sure I would be nervous. But I would want to go for coffee or drinks for a first date, perhaps dinner or lunch.Oh we could go bowling I suck at it but would do it. Or putt putt golf. That way we could talk, learn something about one and other. I would never choose a movie as a first date, because there is no talking.

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    It’s been a very long time since I immersed myself into the dating pool....I'm not sure much has changed with the exception of a renewed understanding of what I value in my life; family first, friends and a resolute passion for a positive lifestyle and to surround myself with like-minded people.My observations and understanding of the perils of mid-life dating continually evolve. Not only must you meet someone with whom you have shared interests and similar values, you must also find someone that is on the same page as you on the dating continuum. Simply stated, I am interested in finding a relationship. I understand that it all starts with one date; however my long term goal is to find something lasting.This is me:I am a teachable spirit with a curious mind. I enjoy a sense of adventure and can be spontaneous. I have come to learn over the years that sometimes it’s the quiet moments that create the ties that bind.My friends would describe me as compassionate, generous, loyal, positive and honest. I find great peace in spirituality but don’t pursue the trappings of structured religion. I enjoy reading, travel, theatre and snuggling up on the couch to watch a good movie.This is you…You are positive, single and honest. You are intelligent, funny, compassionate generous and possess a high level of self-awareness.You have strong and positive relationships with family and friends. It isn’t important whether or not you have hair; however having teeth is a wonderful thing! You are healthy, a non-smoker, social drinker. This is us:We enjoy our time together but value our time apart and understand what that brings to the level of anticipation of our next date. We are each other’s biggest fan; we are cheerleaders, not fault finders. We strive to bring out the best in each other and always provide a soft place to land when we may need it. We both appreciate that creating a positive relationship takes time and effort but know that we prefer a life together than we would apart. Let's not call it a first date, let's take the pressure off and call it a meet and greet, to decide if there will be a first date. This is our opportunity to see each other in the 3D world. Chemistry is difficult to explain and more difficult to predict but fundamentally required to spark a good connection.Lets' find a way to connect that leaves us both with a comfortable exit strategy and then if all goes well, we plan the first date and let the fun begin.

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