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Deetta, 53
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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Let me start out i do work a full time job and work over time too .Hello thank you for taking the time to read this . I have been at my job for 13 year.i live with my three cats , My kids are grown but still stay with me sometimes.As far as dating I haven’t gone on a date in a while mostly greet and meets. I’m not in to bars, I have two left feet, but I do like to slow dance. I like being out side when it’s warm. I like to gardening to go camping and fishing. I like to go on weekend trips going to festivals, out to see movies like to cook.Not looking to be took care of or to take care of anyone but myself. Not looking to hook up sorry I would like a relationship and after you hook up for the night there is nowhere to go. Sex is something you do with some I just want to find someone who is willing to look forward to the future. We all have ghosts in are closet....so leave them there! We all make mistakes we are all human here in this pond of life. Lets just enjoy and move forward. If you're like me, you're not on here because you need someone to "complete you", you're here because you want someone that prompts a smile when you think of them.My Life's Affirmation; Laugh when you can, apologize when you should let go of what you can't change. Kiss slowly, play hard, forgive quickly, take chances, give everything; NO regrets! Life is too short to be anything but Happy!My baggage has all been checked; I have no axes to grind, scores to settle or skeletons in my closet...And I truly believe everyday contains infinite possibilities for happiness and joy!We have 3 choices in Life...give in, give up or Give it All U GOT!!! :)Good luck to all in your search for your other better half and God Bless and thanks for stopping by to view my profile ! PS - All of my photo's are all recent and what you see is what you get as they say-lol But I do smile from the inside out. .I want to build a friendship (not based on sex)into a healthy loving long term relationship. If you have gotten this far I hate people who lie.If you have gotten this far yes i am short some guys say i am fat but i don't have much room between my ribs and hips.I am not desperate for a relationship, but I do miss the feeling of having someone that can make me smile and feel appreciated.Someone that can make calling and texting me the first and last thing they do everyday.Someone that will be there to hold me when I feel vulnerable. Someone that will look past my defects and love me for who I am.Someone that will give me butterflies in my stomach every time we're together.Someone that I can call mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Salsa Japanese Thai Motorcycle Racing
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