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Lorelle, 51

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I have four daughters: two are grown, one started LSU this fall, and the baby is a junior in high school. I enjoy participating in community organizations that are oriented toward improving and enriching my community.** I will be at work on September 16, so hopefully I will be settled in my house. *****I am looking for my happily-ever-after, but that could be simply me, kayaking and painting and writing***You should NOT message me if***you smoke heavily or do drugs- you obsess on your boat/Harley/truck/etc. because I have very diverse interests and enjoy a wide variety of entertainment- you are stuck in a rut, whether it's music, food, art (or lack thereof***again, I enjoy so many genres and cultures I am Catholic. I had checked Christian - He is so wonderfully accepting of others which fits my beliefs as well. I accept the beliefs of most other religions. I don't think I can put a box around the concept of God. Also - the 'drink socially' - a margarita w Mexican food, or something w appetizers. But I have a glass of red almost every night - that's seriously part of my health and fitness. On the relationship check box - I do want a long-term relationship, but Initially, I want to meet and see how things go, NO rush! If you read the 'long term' and 'I want a relationship', and are still here but a little concerned - it's alright. Casual activity friends are great as well. However, I hope to find my happily ever after soulmate. I love to travel, and keep a bag partially packed so that I can be out the door within thirty minutes for a fun weekend. I try to combine my favorites when traveling - I love historic sites, concerts, art, architecture and food. Souvenirs for me are small pebbles, sand or soil. (there is a connection!)I like to investigate the local cuisine, as well as any unusual places that hit my radar. Barbeque? Once home, I love to replicate the wonderful things that I experienced. Cooking is one of my joys, whether following recipes exactly to achieve a special meal, or just a from scratch, off the top of my hea d down home country dinner.Music is essential. Plainsong, baroque, classical, romantic, swing, big band, rock, alternative, some country, and marching band are just some of the genres I enjoy. I saw the "How the Edge Stole Christmas" concert with my younger daughters. The concert started at ***and lasted until ***with 6 bands performing, including Fun., Silversun Pickups, and The Joy Formidable. Now that I'm moving home, I am planning to resume my regular trips to Jazz Fest. The 'stately oaks and broad magnolias' of LSU are home to me. I have never seen the Tigers lose any game I've attended.When I said I like hiking, I really needed to have a way to make it say 'meandering and exploring'. If you are one of those hikers who sets goals and times for arrival, hmm....Biking is better. I tend to stay on the path. Canoeing is another thing altogether. I love it dearly, but most of my stops are unintentional.A good night with the family would include board games or a movie, with a big bowl of fresh kettle corn. Just the two of us? Maybe a nice bottle of old vine zin, brie with fig compote, and all the time in the world. I am very affectionate and romantic. I like hand-holding, cuddling, snuggling, hugging, kissing, etc. The etc. is important. For me, a healthy, happy relationship has a strong physical relationship. Kindness and compliments are also necessary. I enjoy sweet words, a loving touch, a note, a card, a leaf, a pebble... Just something that says I'm special to you.;What Are You Doing the Rest of Your Life?" - that's what I want. If things go well, we'll visit for a while, and then maybe we'll wander out to explore the neighborhood. As we stroll, we will chat about the different things we see, learning more about each other as we go along. If we see a cool restaurant, or hear music that we like, we may decide to check it out.(Meeting for coffee also means that we can shake hands and leave easily)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Isabel

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Life is just too short to live without happiness, joy and love.***Update: Being stood up vs a BS text or *** came up.......If you make a date with someone and change your mind or a better offer comes up? Take a minute to shoot an *** letting the person you had made a date with that "something came up and you can't make it"......this is so much more considerate than just not showing up or anything. How would you feel if you either turned down other invitations or possibly work thinking someone wanted to spend time with you only to be treated like you were not of any value or consideration? It hurts......and it makes you look......well, not good.Think......****WARNING:** Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects. You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.About me:I have been single now for 2 years, I have dated, hooked up and been to some rather racy parties and clubs. I have had and having a lot of fun. It has left me wanting though. I am not sure how to describe myself but I will give it a shot. I am expressive and funny and I have been told very sexy. J I am very open minded and prefer being around people that are the same. I also, when I have time, Crafts, cooking, shooting pool (I suck at this but like it anyway) I like to laugh and make people laugh. I like roaming thrift stores and flea markets. In some ways I can be shy and other ways a bit of a show off. Lol. Like most women I love fresh flowers but hate roses, especially red ones. As this is a singles site I am also looking for long term friends. People that are open minded and non judgmental like myself. Folks that like getting together for a BBQ or going to shows or just hang out together. Friends that like to chit chat on the phone or text to just shoot the breeze, talk about our day or vent about that annoying co-worker if one of us had a bad day at work lol. There was one definition of a friend I had heard: A friend is someone who knows everything about you…..and loves you anyway. JWhat I am not looking for are men who are only in it for the sex. Guys that just want to come by my place jump in the sack and run out the door when its over. I may be open minded and I do enjoy sex a lot! I have had my fill of hook-ups, they leave me feeling empty and unsatisfied.I won’t say I am looking for a “relationship” but I am not avoiding one either. Everyone wants to be loved and I am no different. Even though I am very open minded and believe if I were to be in a relationship it would have to be a very open, I am still basically an old fashion girl…..I still want romance and not just sex. JIf I am looking for anyone it would be someone who: Still believes in opening a woman’s car door and pulling out her chair; Still believes that its up to a man to call and ask for a date; Still thinks that slow dancing and holding hands is a big turn on; Someone who thinks the first kiss is still a big deal and should be soft, slow, wet and last for days… Someone who still believes romance is still in style and belongs in even the most casual of relationships. I miss some of those little things from being close to someone. Like goofy text throughout the day that make me smile. Standing at the sink washing dishes when he comes up behind me to give me a gentle kiss on the back of the neck. :)FYI, I love flowers all but roses, especially red ones. I think they are lame and unimaginative. I hate the thorns too. :) I'm not sure I like the first date thing, too much presure. I would rather have a first meeting and just go very casual, somewhere for drinks where its not too loud so we can get to know each other or shoot pool. The big things should come later.

  • Asuncion

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hello..This is what I really want.. is just to meet someone that wants to chat and see what the possibilities can bring. And then perhaps exchange *** meet for coffee.I really enjoy walking, keeping fit, reading, and theater. Would love to go out for dinner with a man that has similar interests and to enjoyeach others company.Please attach picture when contacting me. Pretty safe to assume that a first meeting should be and agreed upon in a public place....like chapters or a cafe with ambiance.

  • Elvira

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Please take 2 minutes to read the whole thing ..THANKS!!!Im Looking to be crazy, madly INLOVE with the right guy , that will take the relationship to the end of life!!.....Its getting cold ,,I need a real snuggler and cuddler with his big arms wrapped around me, making me feel safe and warm.I need my Babe ,,and want him to call me his Babe ...And hopefully hes so into me, and im so into him. it ends up being that relationship you envy when seeing other couples together at the park or holding hands etc...We all want that magical love!!!But part of the magic to a great relationship is loyalty, being trustworthy, honesty, be caring, be loving, be a man who knows about intimacy,be kind, be gentle, laugh with me, cry with me or at least comfort me because how ever stupid it is, its important to me ,always appreciate each other,always tell each other you love them ,,have his back as he will have yours ...all these and much more are VERY IMPORTANT TO ME ,,Ive given MY ALL in relationships only to be hurt, burnt, maybe cheated on, used, and im done with those kind of men!! Im done being used!But Im waiting for a sign ,,I havent felt it yet....But its so "unmistakable" when it happens..But here, i look at his eyes in the pics hes posted ,,I read the words he's written, and when it grabs me in a certain way ,,you will definately know it and hopefully we meet ( not at dunkins) Dinner and conversation and at a cozy nice resturant where we can talk ( A REAL DATE), and hopefully you have conversation back with me and i dont have to drag words out of you, Its the type of chemistry, that if you know if Its going to be an amazing date , it may for sure will end up in an amazingggggggg relationship.....I wish you all luck that you find that woman that gives you that unmistakable feeling, and if by the end of the date there are no sparks,( you will both know) ,, then move on to the next...but guys , im sorry ,,we want REAL DATES, not a dunkins donut and a coffee ,,..theres no impression there ,, its daytime usually, its the wrong mood , its not a DATE ..its a 5 minute meet and greet ,,there's no excitement to it ,,it sucks actually....wellllllllllThese are my real feelings on what i want in a relationship ,,I want closeness...I want him to text me during the day if he can ,,if were definately a couple ,,arouse me by that text, as i will you..heat things up!!! show her you love her ,,dont push her away when she wants to hang on you, or play with your goatee ( (Love Goatees!! lol) and show people in public , that yes ,,i love this man/woman with all my heart and soul and want everyone to know!!! Do you own a motorcycle??????Love summer riding!...have all my own gear :) but hate riding on freezing nights!! BBBBrrrrrrrrrr! but love roadtrips by car or motorcycle, exploring different hideaways, hole in the wall eateries , as in diners ,,the best!!! just being with my man having fun doing whatever it may be!Also love boating on a warm summer day, maybe even a lil fishing is cool, Lunch on the boat or in where the boats can be beside maybe a cafe ,,pretty cool...Please Be local .. I Definately dont want you living too far away!!!LOCAL to LowellGood luck to all!!!!P.S. you'll only understand this if you have kids..I have 4 and 3 are doing great! But they say there's always one ..well this is definately THE ONE, all his life! My 30 yr old son is back, ugh yea,,supposedly saving money for a new place ,,his gf and baby are at her moms...The gf is a winner too!! But im the only place he could go to, but i only have a one bedroom..so hes on a mattress on the diningroom floor...and he has 3 cats ,,yes 3 ,,im very unhappy about that, but i dont see them , so if your allergic let me know ..my son isnt here alot ,,he needs a job , long story...,god only knows how long he will be here ,,i know im his mother, and i love him ,but 30 and back home??? no need for it...I could go on forever, but i wont ,,i just pray he's finding a way out!!!!!! If this is an issue for you, let me know..... Casual Dress, Nice Jeans are good ,Its a date, Look a lil decent, as i will for you..and always do look decent...Just dont look like you just got done cleaning your backyard full of dirt and fell in a ditch!( Im speaking from experience sadly) oh brother right???...Remember,Dinner, a cozy place we can talk and get the conversation to flow to get to know each other and if passion is in both eyes ,,a lil kiss...And ill venture out to meet you Onlyyyyy after i feel that unmistakable feeling after talking here off and on... My feelings are ,, if you like me that much , you will leave me a note before work, or i will leave you a note during the day ,,it would be awesome if you were able to use a comp at work,,but we'll see..

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