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Shea, 53

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About Me

Do you love your life right now, or are you letting life just happen to you? I've had a great life so far, by being real, always doing what I say I'm going to do, staying open to all the things I haven't done, and avoiding drama. Life has been good to me because I haven't gained a bunch of weight, or let my mind, heart, enjoyment, or appearance go unattended. Am I all that and more? No, just medium, but go ahead and get your confidence on and pick me. I like confident, clean cut guys. I don't like texting, pen pal via emai or online chatting. I'd rather talk to you on the phone. We will meet, have a great time, laugh and tell great stories. We will know if we should enjoy this one time or if we can't wait to go out again. No pressure, life is too good to waste time. Simple, right ? You can do it and you might have more fun than you ever expected! Oh yea, I almost forgot, the guy has to be the man and do his part (calling, asking out, plans, etc.) Not so simple huh? So sorry, but I like being the girl.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wenda

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Independent, outgoing, spontaneous.and fun are just a few words that fit me :) I like to travel and exporing new destinations and experiences including simply time at home. I am a straightfoward woman and not into games and have a good idea of what I want. I am financilly secure, mentally stable and looking for my bestfriend. Soulmates are made not found. I am a very passionate women with that someone special and I show my affections by touching, SOFT kissing, cuddling. This is important to me, showing you how much I care. I perfer to be an open minded thinker as opposed to concrete " Black and White" I have learned over the years that there is tons of gray. I don't think it is a good idea to judge people until you have walked a mile in their shoes. I truly enjoy meeting new people and viewing life from another's perspecitve. I am a fun-loving, funny person, a good listener, speaker, honest, faithful, loyal. Love good conversations about anything. Love to be romanced and Love to return it even more. I would rather talk things out than be in heated confronataions. Who would I like to date? Where do I start? I have to admit that I truly adore a independent, adventerous spirit. Respect is the key word. A bit of give and take works for me. Confidence is great along side the ability to laugh when things go a little wrong. Someone who isn't afraid to open up when something is bothering him. I beleive their is someone out their for everyone, so have fun and enjoy the journey. I would love nothing more than to find that someone special. Someone that everyone enveys what we have together. I was raised on the back of my dads bike and having the time of my life riding my own! Would like to find someone to start a frendship and see what happens from there. I have been dating some great people in the last few years and am ready for that someone special to call me baby!! My life is good and uncomplicted, free and fun. I am independent and secure and a good-girl. I love and laugh to my fullest. It is sooo easy for me to be playing on the same team with my special man. It can be easy and sensual as the wind in your hair... just gotta find the right one! So if you are looking for a good women to call you baby, a down to earth outdoories type of women we might want to meet :) Love riding, live music blues fest and coutry and rock. I can pretty much be happy doing whatever and you will make it even better. Nothing better than having fun with your main man :) partner in crime. What I want out of a relationship is someone who make me feel as safe as I will make him feel!! Just a meeting to see if we click and there is chemistry. Could end up just to be good friends.

  • Deedee

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    "And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music." Friedrich Nietzsche"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am pretty, but not beautiful. I have friends, but I am not the peacemaker. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love." —;When you stop chasing the wrong things in life you aIlow the right things to catch up with you." I am about respect. Dignity. Kindness.I want to leave the world better than I found it. Pay it forward. An eternal optimist, I am a happy person. When they say "A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour" they refer to me. Have learned to let go and live the moment. I truly love life and cherish what God has given me. Value kindness.;The more a man knows the more he forgives." Life is a series of lessons. Until you "get it" you have to repeat the lesson. Einstein declared "The only mistake in life is the lesson not learned." I haven't been that outstanding in getting it right the first time. That's OK. It's called Living. "To live is like to love. All reason is against it and all healthy *** it." I have truly learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives but we are responsible for who we become. I have learned to be my own person and not look for adoration from the crowd.I have my own style from dress to play. I do have boundaries and will not hang on a lover's cross for you. As Jim Croce sung,"It's what we do that makes us who we are." A great romantic but equally grounded. I would like to be someone's princess, but can go to the ball by myself. I posess a fierce gusto for life and the energy that goes with it. Who am I looking for?Someone to fall in love with.Someone kind. A man with a big smile, a spirit of adventure,and a great soul. A man of character, conviction, and education. Someone who is not stagnant and likes to get up and go. Especially likes to travel. Embraces change.Young at heart regardless of age. A ONE woman man. As for distance, if you are not willing to meet me halfway, pass on my profile. If you are too busy to make time for getting to know me then I'm not the girl for you. If you want to spend weeks being a pen pal, I am not she.If you make a date with me keep it. I want to live, and live it up. I seek a real man who wants to meet and get to know a real lady albeit an old-fashioned girl. I am no Mata Hari, however Mary Poppins never appealed to me either. Adventures you will have with me.There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh.So, love the people who treat you right. Forgive the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is part of LIFE...Getting back up is LIVING. "Everybody deserves somebody who makes them look forward to tomorrow." It's not the event it's the sharing. Whatever we both decide. If I had to choose it would be an outdoor cafe with a romantic setting where we can talk the night away. A place with soft piano music in the background. A hike on a nice sunny day followed by lunch or a picnic.A lake stroll and boating. Love barbecues.Bowling or mini golf.Fall and winter-soft music in background, by a fireplace, having "comfort food" for dinner, slow dancing, playing board games at home.Going to an Inn with a roaring fireplace. Driving up to the mountains for leaf changing season in the fall. Hiking, trivia, karaoke. Going to the lake on a picnic and swimming. Grilling out and walking in a park.Sailing or being out on a boat watching the sun set.Be creative. Think outside the box.

  • Marvel

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    "Youth is like spring, an over-praised season more remarkable for biting winds than genial breezes. Autumn is the mellower season, and what we lose in flowers we more than gain in fruits." --Samuel ButlerHi, there!-- I love it here! I have an 18-year-old son (I'm an "only" parent and he is an only child) and we live with our two dogs and one cat. I enjoy working out, going to movies, corresponding and chatting with my family & Let's see ... I love walking outside from the spring through the summer, and in the winter I just do Pilates 2 to 3 times a week, and get outside to walk or bike when the weather is nice. I recently went paddleboarding and loved it--I've got to get me one of those! ;) I'm a quasi-vegetarian now, but was vegetarian for four years. I honestly cannot understand bigotry or prejudice of any kind. I guess you could call me pretty liberal these days in my views. I believe that we each have to take care of the earth and our fellow humans, and if every person takes some responsibility, and does whatever he or she personally can do to help our world, we can make a real difference.I am definitely looking for a long-term romantic relationship, someone who wants to be with me, who I can love and care for and who will love me back the same way, not someone who spends a lot of time dating other people. So, if you're a "player" who likes to date lots of women, I'm not going to be interested in you. Now, on the other hand, if you're looking for someone with a great body, a wonderful job, lots of money, and good credit, you will NOT be interested in me, because I have NONE of those things. BUT, if you're looking for a genuine, loving person with a good heart, then we should probably talk. :) I'm a very happy, optimistic person. I love life, and I absolutely try to live each day to the fullest! I enjoy going out for coffee or drinks, lunch or dinner, movies, concerts, museums, even a walk at the park or the river, but I'm open to suggestions ... :) So, if you'd just like to meet for coffee or drinks, or even lunch, to see if there's a "connection" that would be great!

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