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Shantel, 51
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

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About Me

I am just a small town girl with a big city attitude .......and an extraordinary heart of gold. If honesty counts, I am worth counting - I don't lie, cheat, and I abide by the golden rule. I give more than I take.Who you are as a person is far more important than what you do or what you have; I value self-worth more than material things, I treasure values, not valuables, and truly believe actions speak louder than words.I'm open minded and opinionated -- you can tell me anything and I won't say you're crazy....I may think it, but I won't say it. I have an imagination and I'm not afraid to use it. I'm randomly organized and I see all colours, including many shades of grey......The man I would like to share my life with will have similar interests and goals; yet, maintain his own identity. He needs to have a big heart, be sincere, compassionate, giving, and loyal. Moreover, he needs to have strong values, integrity, and the ability to laugh at himself. In other words, not take life too seriously (the big stuff happens regardless!).A friend.A playmate.A trusted soul.A tender-heart.I am a very independent woman with a positive outlook on life; I'm an eternal optimist, but if I stumble and lose faith, I welcome a hand up.Friends describe me as the strong, reliable type and the one they'd want with them in a crisis -- personally I'd rather have a cold beer and hope none of my friends ever had a crisis.I will share my last ju-jube (even if it's a red one). I'm looking for my last, first date: A date that will last a lifetime.(¯`v´¯)`*.¸.*´¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨)(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•.•´*

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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