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Shantel, 51
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

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About Me

I am just a small town girl with a big city attitude .......and an extraordinary heart of gold. If honesty counts, I am worth counting - I don't lie, cheat, and I abide by the golden rule. I give more than I take.Who you are as a person is far more important than what you do or what you have; I value self-worth more than material things, I treasure values, not valuables, and truly believe actions speak louder than words.I'm open minded and opinionated -- you can tell me anything and I won't say you're crazy....I may think it, but I won't say it. I have an imagination and I'm not afraid to use it. I'm randomly organized and I see all colours, including many shades of grey......The man I would like to share my life with will have similar interests and goals; yet, maintain his own identity. He needs to have a big heart, be sincere, compassionate, giving, and loyal. Moreover, he needs to have strong values, integrity, and the ability to laugh at himself. In other words, not take life too seriously (the big stuff happens regardless!).A friend.A playmate.A trusted soul.A tender-heart.I am a very independent woman with a positive outlook on life; I'm an eternal optimist, but if I stumble and lose faith, I welcome a hand up.Friends describe me as the strong, reliable type and the one they'd want with them in a crisis -- personally I'd rather have a cold beer and hope none of my friends ever had a crisis.I will share my last ju-jube (even if it's a red one). I'm looking for my last, first date: A date that will last a lifetime.(¯`v´¯)`*.¸.*´¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨)(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•.•´*

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Randee from Pembroke | Woman | 51 years old | Aries
    Randee

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    loving life! I like the out doors, children, old people, animals, good sence of humor, playin pool, concerts, and just staying at home with good food, and a good movie! I am bit of a perfectionist!. I am not lazy! I do like to kick back and relax once in awhile! I do not like mind games, I am very out spoken, and honest! people that know me love me, others think i am a B-I-T-C-H! If you have a pic. on your profile and your not wearing a shirt! I wouldnt even think about chatting with you! so dont bother! And having a good sence of humor is a must, but not too much! I still have my real teeth! LMAO! for those of you that message me, if your profile says you do not except anyone that is over a certain distance, and i fall into that, I cannot respond to you! Just saying! If my Heading says Not Available, it means I have a date, and I am chatting with the one I am dating, I dont like to make plans with another while I am making plans with one. .Just the way I am!,, sorry if I dont respond! check back later! ( Smiles) dinner and drinks

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  • Primrose from Pembroke | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
    Primrose

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hey there, happy fishing. Setting this account up using my iPhone so it's a bit difficult to take time to be cute and funny and creative. Use your imagination and insert here something that you might like to read on a fishette's profile. And the fun part will be learning what you imagined. Ha! The games I play. Since I have not read 50 shades of gray, it's safe to assume I'm not interested in that or 50 shades of black and blue. I had an account before and thought I'd try this again. And for you profile haters out there, it's my prerogative and my profile. Ill eventually get around to adding things here but this is it for now. At least until boating season is over. I'll never promise you a rose garden, never! Relaxing no pressure and fun

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  • Lacie from Pembroke | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
    Lacie

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    HeyI think people are different with different relationships..so it would be hard for me to tell you how I would be with you...I would like someone that brings out the best in me ..keeps me laughing and excited to be with...I am a little shy at 1st , it has been awhile and Im used to being on my own..so you will do best by going slow with me...I tend to run ..if something inside me tells me warning.... warning ...this guy is desparate for a relationship and doesnt care whats inside me...just the outside...He is prob not happy in his life and I will have to be the guys total happiness...not....impossible...get happy ...then message me :) I like to garden, be in nature, walk , take pics, be around water, boating, love music nothing better then being in nature and watching a good band, fairs , old cars..Love the blues and rock, country ..a wide range but bluesy stuff my fav. like auctions, antiques, art .movies. Go for a walk, have a drink , prefer in daytime and short for 1st meeting .....to see if there will be a (1st date ) then the fun begins :)

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