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Alisha, 53
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

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About Me

I am an easy-going, loving, caring, affectionate woman who has a lot to offer the right man. I can't believe it's been so hard finding a guy I am not only physically attracted to but one who wants the same things I do in life. Whatever happened to the guys who love being with one woman and building a solid relationship? I miss having a partner in crime. Someone who has my back and I have his. Someone who wants a serious relationship and wants to work on making it fun so it will last forever. I don't think opposites attract. I think the things that bring people together are the things they DO have in common and enjoying doing together. When someone asks me what my "type" is for a man, that's very hard to answer. If we're talking about physical traits that attract me, I am very attracted to a guy with a mustache and goatee or just a goatee. A full beard just doesn't do the same for me but if you have one I hope it's trimmed short. I've dated guys who were physical fit and muscular and guys who were 50 pounds overweight but with substance to them. I guess I prefer bigger guys over skinny guys and definitely someone taller than me (at least 5' 8" and above). I don't care if he has a thick head of hair or bald but for me where the chemistry usually starts is his face. A beautiful smile and someone who takes care of their teeth! So that's the physical part but without character all the other stuff doesn't matter. He should be a masculine take charge kind of guy but not arrogant or a "my way or the highway" kind of guy. We should have the same goals for a relationship (long-term), not be afraid to communicate about relationships issues, be giving, sincere, and a GREAT sense of humor! No sense of humor = all of the above gets canceled out. Oh, the other thing that cancels everything out is if you smoke. I have ridden a motorcycle for about 11 or 12 years now and I'm as passionate about riding as some guys are about football or playing golf. I would prefer someone who rides but if you don't ride then I think the only way that would work is if you have your own summer hobbies and interests so I don't feel guilty going riding and you don't get upset that I'm going riding because you're too busy enjoying your own hobby! :) There needs to be a balance for both parties. I'm a pretty normal woman. I work in a professional environment and have 3 wonderful grown kids that have been long out of the nest and 3 beautiful grandchildren. I'm pretty much open to new interests. Whatever you would like to know, just ask me.Music: Pop, country, rock, easy listening, smooth jazz. Movies: Action, comedy, romance. Pretty much anything EXCEPT slasher movies! Someplace quiet to get to know the person to see if it's someone that has the personality to be a friend or there's mutual chemistry for more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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