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Carlota, 54
United States, North Carolina, North Wilkesboro

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About Me

Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. I am an energetic lady and mother of two young adult/teens (age 20 and age ***that will be grown before I know it, with spiritual principals and a love for life. I am looking for a friend initially. Eventually, I would love to find the man I can't live without who speaks to my soul, is my best friend, is educated, spiritual, tender/romantic, and makes me laugh and a gentleman who is active as well. I enjoy dancing, hiking, riding on your motorcycle, snow skiing, the beach, biking, swimming, and various other sports and therefore I look at least 8 years younger than my age. I like going to concerts and playing a good hand of pool. I enjoy all types of music, especially classic rock. I go see one Redskins game a year and need to make time to see a Capitals game as well. I am friendly and have a wide smile. Most people say I am genuine to the core. I have a technical profession but most people wouldn't think that upon meeting me for the first time. My profession has served me well but I always think of myself as a child of God and not about my profession as what defines me. I am nonpartisan politically. I am spiritual with no real Sunday church going behavior but I do read the Bible and other spiritual books regularly. I am looking for a mature, spiritual, man that doesn't have a temper, is easy going, is outgoing makes me laugh and is a romantic. A first date should be short but in a relaxed atmosphere without distractions and noise. I would be nice if the man treated the lady to lunch as I find just coffee tends to be sort of rushed and cold first date. It should be clear at the end of the date if you want to exchange phone numbers or not. No one enjoys the wait and see approach and everyone is busy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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