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Abishalom, 46

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About Me

Ok so I guess it's time to re-write my profile. I have been on here for a little while and have met a few really nice gals. I enjoy anything athletic from softball to soccer, still play both. I am active as I find it a waste of time to sit on the sofa and watch TV for endless hours. I enjoy a few shows, so I dvr them and watch them when I try to relax before crashing. I enjoy horseback riding, motorcycle riding, and anything else where I can take in nature . I was married 15 yrs and have been divorced for 5 yrs so I'm not on the re-bound and am over all the BS and games that people deal with when separated or recently divorced. No offense but if you are separated I'm not interested. You need to finalize your divorce and get out and enjoy your freedom, as they call it. I enjoy a few drinks but I'm not going to go out and get hammered like we are 21 doing shots. I believe in manners, chivalry, and a give and take relationship. I know when I am wrong and will apologize but I know I'm not wrong 100% of the time, haha. Lastly, If you're not over your past then go back to your past relationship. I learned to not look back that's why they call it THE PAST. If you want to know anything just shoot me a message. If it's "hi" or "hey there" you probably won't get a response. Thanks for reading and good luck in your search. Something casual where we can talk and see if there's a connection, if so we can do more. If not we can say nice meeting you and move on like adults should.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Francisco

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I love all kinds of music, church, beach, traveling, dancing, reading, photography, camping, and hanging out with friends & family. I need someone who can remain calm and help devise a solution.

  • Malik

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I’ve met a lot of women on this site but didn’t find what I am looking for. I even quit looking because I was so frustrated. I became involved with my best friend, but it turns out we’re better friends; no sexual chemistry and without the chemistry, it was impossible to move forward. Anyway… I’m back trying to find the one. More about me… I’m not perfect, but I try real hard to be a good man. I'm an IT consultant with 17 years of consulting experience along with 16 years IT experience working for the DOD. I am currently between contracts looking to secure another contract opportunity, which subsequently has slowed down my attempts at dating. I have a 17-year old daughter who I love with all my heart but I rarely see. She works and lives with her boyfriend so I’m the last person on her list. She will be going to college in the fall and then it’s just me. I know a lot of people but have few “true” friends, which is somewhat less than I prefer in the grand scheme of an enriched life. Being single has been difficult at times and I find the only place to meet woman, who aren’t “frightened” by men, is in bars. I don’t know why but women seem to get freaked out if you approach them anywhere else (book stores, coffee shops, grocery stores, women’s restrooms….just kidding). Although I enjoy live music and go out on weekends to see bands at local bars, I’d rather spend my time outdoors, camping, barbequing, and picnicking with a quality woman. I am a songwriter / musician too but don’t play in a band anymore; I just write and record at home. I also write poetry and editorials when inspiration grabs me. I’m looking to enrich my life and without that special one or being with my daughter, it’s nearly impossible. I’m truly a social person but living a fairly solitary life unless I go out on the weekends but that gets old when you are alone the majority of the time.I don’t like beating around the bush so be direct with me if you want to know something. I’m direct and I find that being honest is truly the only way to communicate. If you are looking for someone who is honest, faithful, integrity-minded, intelligent, funny, talented, goofy, playful (not always) and who is serious about finding that one person to share a life with, drop me a line. I hope to hear from you.A couple of closing statements to manage your time as well as mine: if you’re not smiling in your photos, don’t waste your time contacting me. I’ve learned from personal experience that most women who don’t smile in their photos are generally unhappy and I’m looking for the lighter side of a personality. Also, my daughter is about to start college and I'm not looking to get involved with anyone with children still living at home. I'm looking forward to the freedom being an “empty-nester” offers and hope to find someone with this shared belief. Hmmmm....first date. That could go in a lot of different directions. How about an elegant dinner, sitting next to a fire, drinking some wine, listening to soft music, over candlelight. Visual enticements with me enjoying looking at you, you enjoying looking at me smiling...maybe even seeing a twinkle in your eye. Lot's of genuine laughter throughout the evening...complete with intellectual and stimulating, yet not so serious conversation wrapped in a warm comfortable familiar feeling. Maybe a midnight stroll or carriage ride if the weather permits. To close the night, a warm, sensual, sweet tasting electrified kiss which we are both excited about. Yep, that sounds preetty wonderful to me. If you're uncomfortable with the above, we could go to a regular resteraunt, and maybe to a movie, or a wine-tasting, or a show in the loop, or listen to a blues band in Soulard. There are a lot of wineries in the area, we could check one of them out... How about a cafe in St. Charles?

  • Tone

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Looking for someone to share fun and goodtimes with.If nothing comes out of it. Then it's always nice to make a new friend.

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